Dear All,

Compliment of the season. As a follow up on the link below:
https://www.nairaland.com/6900506/give-up-marriage-stage..pls-advise
Please how can my friend be committed to his little daughter of six years parentally without the lady exploiting my friend financially, over a week she left, my friend has been sending money to the ladies account for feeding,and Christmas gift .

Also, my friend got a call from the ladies parents,that they do not have any issue with him (my friend), but that he should believe God for a change from their daughter, what could this imply?

Also, my friend having granted the request of his wife to go and see her parents and informing the parents of the ladies coming with her belongings, does he need to inquire from the ladies parents concerning the lady,since it's over a week she left his house and has still not gone to see her parents, but diverted to her former school accommodation, where her younger brother still lived .

Thanks

They can reach a conclusion by drawing a reasonable budget for the child and working out each other's share.

As for God touching her heart, the parents are hopeful the differences can be walked on.

Your friend abi You

Kriss216:
Your friend abi You

Na the same tin

You should just lock up in terms of enquiry or status update. Just agree with the madam on reasonable upkeep for the child and keep up. That's all. When shetired,she would call a meeting with you.

When one is unfortunate with ones choices, unfortunate situations usually present themselves ni. It is well.

At this juncture......local man is speechless cos it seems the lady's mind is made up

One thing is sure,you can take a horse to the stream but you no go force am make e drink water

Babsojimjim:
Dear All,

Compliment of the season. As a follow up on the link below:
https://www.nairaland.com/6900506/give-up-marriage-stage..pls-advise
Please how can my friend be committed to his little daughter of six years parentally without the lady exploiting my friend financially, over a week she left, my friend has been sending money to the ladies account for feeding,and Christmas gift .

Also, my friend got a call from the ladies parents,that they do not have any issue with him (my friend), but that he should believe God for a change from their daughter, what could this imply?

Also, my friend having granted the request of his wife to go and see her parents and informing the parents of the ladies coming with her belongings, does he need to inquire from the ladies parents concerning the lady,since it's over a week she left his house and has still not gone to see her parents, but diverted to her former school accommodation, where her younger brother still lived .

Thanks

If he still wants the relationship he can talk to her in the presence of her parents to change her attitude and its left for her parents to talk sense to her

But if he knows that he is done with her, he should just tell her parents that they can't continue but he will try and take care of his daughter

The next thing is to find out the school she attends and find out the school fees and test books, pay to the school directly and send allowance to her mother

Whatever he deems fit is what he can send