Would you advise he secures a loan facility to marry his love before the hawks flying around whisk her away? Talk of the insecurity that other men you've been seeing around may beat you to grabbing her. Would the wife disregard him is she gets to know at some point that he took a loan to bring her into matrimony? What say y'all? Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡

If he needs to take a loan to marry her, then she doesnt really want him.

@poster
to each their own BUT, if he REALLY MUST take a loan to marry her then, at least, both their names should be on the loan application!

^^^

touche!

Why would you take a loan to get married? Doesnt make any sense to me. Do what you can with what you have or wait a little bit. If its meant to be then it is and if they both love each other they will wait for better timing. I would say use your mind. If the guy doesnt have a job and is dependent on other peeps then def wait. If you have a little bit then do what you can at your level. We are getting married and are following exactly that advice. Any money we save will be to settle the way we want to and not to be blown up in a couple of hours. I know some people who have divorced and are still repaying the loan they took to get married.