advanceDNA:
Wait?? U have Nigerian parents.. as in Nigerian parents??...and you are angry they treat you like a child at 18?? Are you alright..??.

I’m older than you.. and my mum still treats me like I’m 12....

She packs food and soup inside cooler when I visit home...pack anti-malaria, paracetamol and vitamin C reminding how AA can have malaria every 2 minutes
and she will still come and visit the following week....

u dont know anything... u can never grow up in the eyes of a Nigerian parent ...better get used to it...


see this one ooo...ordinary 18...
U think say na UK you dey..

Beremx:
That means you’re 20years now. I don’t know if having kids at such age is cool. Well if you want kids, why not get married first? I wouldn’t advise you become a baby daddy. Get married and have your kids legitimately. It is well with you

VeryWickedSoul:
The way you type, I don't blame them one bit.
You must be a simp.

They know you are not man enough to survive on your own and you're just trying to appear grown which you aren't.

shilenji:
You don't have to liken everything you see to being a Simp bro, there is more to live than that. I have proven I am capable of being on my own in a thousand ways. I asked for advice, don't let me put my aggressions on you.

KiNg0G:
hollywood

As in hhhhh.... Just thinking where an 18yrs old got money to rent a duplex... even in oyibo land.. an independent 18yr old will first of all share an apartment before.....Anyways,...wetin I know again for this generation ...

Richy4:


As in hhhhh.... Just thinking where an 18yrs old got money to rent a duplex... even in oyibo land.. an independent 18yr old will first of all share an apartment before.....Anyways,...wetin I know again for this generation ...

shilenji:
Marriage is out of the question. I don't want it.

shilenji:
Unbelievable right God's doing.

My instincts are always 98% right..so I will reserve my comment buddy on whether I believe the story or not...We are in an era where no parent ask questions.... glad this era is working for you ...

fineboynl:
What you rented a duplex? And you are 18 abi 20? What are you doing for a living?

Richy4:


My instincts are always 98% right..so I will reserve my comment buddy on whether I believe the story or not...We are in an era where no parent ask questions.... glad this era is working for you ...

fineboynl:
What you rented a duplex? And you are 18 abi 20? What are you doing for a living?

shilenji:
I moved out of my parents house mid 2020 to my rented apartment at the age of 18,even though my dad wasn't in support but there was nothing he could do because my mind was all made. I kinda look way past my age though and a lot of people have told me my reasoning is mature,I wasn't going out to suffer,I was going out to be on my own and live my life. The decision I took I haven't for a day regretted it.



I refused to disclose where I was moving to my parents because I know the life I wanted to live(semi wayward),but eventually I told my parents and they visited the first time,then it became continuous to the level that they come unannounced. I gave the estate gate men an order that they shouldn't allow visitors past the gate unless I give them the order to. All to no avail. I threatened not to pay them self.

My dad has familiarised himself with all the estate landlords. The one that shocked me the most is my landlord,my house is a rented single duplex and my landlord doesn't stay in the country. How my dad got his number I don't even know,they have become friends now. I have never liked being under anyone's roof as I have always craved being alone since my primary school days and now that I can afford to be on my own. I'm seriously tired, Though, I told my landlord to cut ties with my dad or else I'm not renewing my rent.

Being treated like a child irritates the hell out of me, I'm not dependent on anybody so why the hawk eye on ne. I'm thinking of moving away from this place, there is always this look I'm given whenever I attend estate meetings like I'm a criminal or something. Should I move? Should I just use this chance to go to a Nigerian university though I see it has a waste of time, I'm learning coding on my own and it's damn easy.

As to my topic: I want a kid too badly,I have a girlfriend, she works in a multinational company at Ikoyi, she's a bit older,she wants a kid with me too.

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique

Phoneworld:


I also want to have a child of my own, i wish of this everyday but I can’t train one for now because am not financially okay, but if i see a lady (45 below) who is ready to take care of the child like i will, then i see no big deal, but u will let me see him once in a while, i will be happy with that, once i am financially stable i will do my part as a father to my child, if u want married fine, if not, fine, i am 30 years of age, 6ft tall, i am trying to push my self in school, am in my final year, i am studying industrial maintenance engineering..
You can send me a mail, go to my profile
Please no insult
Am not a gold digger, but just want a better life for the unborn.

Phoneworld:


I also want to have a child of my own, i wish of this everyday but I can’t train one for now because am not financially okay, but if i see a lady or single mom (45 below) who is ready to take care of the child like i will, then i see no big deal, but u will let me see him once in a while, i will be happy with that, once i am financially stable i will do my part as a father to my child, if u want marriage, fine, if not, fine, i am 30 years of age, 6ft tall, i love to cook, i may not be perfect but i really like to cook, i am trying to push my self in school, i am in my final year, which i will be finishing in April, i am currently studying industrial engineering.

We are going to leave this world one day and the goal is to be happy always, age is just a number, everyone are in search of rest of mind, is not all men that are the same likewise women.

You can send me a mail, go to my profile
Please no insult..

Am not a gold digger, but just want a better life for the unborn and also be a happy father..

shilenji:
I moved out of my parents house mid 2020 to my rented apartment at the age of 18,even though my dad wasn't in support but there was nothing he could do because my mind was all made. I kinda look way past my age though and a lot of people have told me my reasoning is mature,I wasn't going out to suffer,I was going out to be on my own and live my life. The decision I took I haven't for a day regretted it.



I refused to disclose where I was moving to my parents because I know the life I wanted to live(semi wayward),but eventually I told my parents and they visited the first time,then it became continuous to the level that they come unannounced. I gave the estate gate men an order that they shouldn't allow visitors past the gate unless I give them the order to. All to no avail. I threatened not to pay them self.

My dad has familiarised himself with all the estate landlords. The one that shocked me the most is my landlord,my house is a rented single duplex and my landlord doesn't stay in the country. How my dad got his number I don't even know,they have become friends now. I have never liked being under anyone's roof as I have always craved being alone since my primary school days and now that I can afford to be on my own. I'm seriously tired, Though, I told my landlord to cut ties with my dad or else I'm not renewing my rent.

Being treated like a child irritates the hell out of me, I'm not dependent on anybody so why the hawk eye on ne. I'm thinking of moving away from this place, there is always this look I'm given whenever I attend estate meetings like I'm a criminal or something. Should I move? Should I just use this chance to go to a Nigerian university though I see it has a waste of time, I'm learning coding on my own and it's damn easy.

As to my topic: I want a kid too badly,I have a girlfriend, she works in a multinational company at Ikoyi, she's a bit older,she wants a kid with me too.

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique

shilenji:
I didn't say it's bad,but it's overly excessive on my side,bro if you were in my shies you'll relate better

VeryWickedSoul:
[s][/s]

If you are capable, why are your own parents monitoring you like a kid?

Do you know more than they do?

shilenji:
I moved out of my parents house mid 2020 to my rented apartment at the age of 18,even though my dad wasn't in support but there was nothing he could do because my mind was all made. I kinda look way past my age though and a lot of people have told me my reasoning is mature,I wasn't going out to suffer,I was going out to be on my own and live my life. The decision I took I haven't for a day regretted it.



I refused to disclose where I was moving to my parents because I know the life I wanted to live(semi wayward),but eventually I told my parents and they visited the first time,then it became continuous to the level that they come unannounced. I gave the estate gate men an order that they shouldn't allow visitors past the gate unless I give them the order to. All to no avail. I threatened not to pay them self.

My dad has familiarised himself with all the estate landlords. The one that shocked me the most is my landlord,my house is a rented single duplex and my landlord doesn't stay in the country. How my dad got his number I don't even know,they have become friends now. I have never liked being under anyone's roof as I have always craved being alone since my primary school days and now that I can afford to be on my own. I'm seriously tired, Though, I told my landlord to cut ties with my dad or else I'm not renewing my rent.

Being treated like a child irritates the hell out of me, I'm not dependent on anybody so why the hawk eye on ne. I'm thinking of moving away from this place, there is always this look I'm given whenever I attend estate meetings like I'm a criminal or something. Should I move? Should I just use this chance to go to a Nigerian university though I see it has a waste of time, I'm learning coding on my own and it's damn easy.

As to my topic: I want a kid too badly,I have a girlfriend, she works in a multinational company at Ikoyi, she's a bit older,she wants a kid with me too.

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Dominique