Me and my family were returning from church on Sunday when we bombed into someone I Knew sometime ago.
In the process of introducing my family, he complimented my family, he went further to say i married a very beautiful woman.
I just smiled and said thank you.

Surprisedly, when we got to the home my wife brought up the matter, she said a man complimented her good looks in my presence and all I could do was to smile at him and say thank you, that if I don't see anything wrong with that behavior, it means I can do the same thing.

I apologized to her, and said, I don't think I can compliment a married woman in the presence of her husband. As I think it is a bit rude.
However, it is better for a man to compliment a woman's beautiful in the presence of her husband and move on. Rather than complimenting a woman's beautiful in secret and go after her.

She has been complaining of how men run after Her because of her heavily endowed shape.
She feels very uncomfortable when men stare at her.
So she exspect me to stand up for her in a way of engaging men that rend to be rude to her my staring at her of complimenting her when am around.
Please Nairalanders, is my behavior abnormal, or should I have reacted to the event last Sunday differently?

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There's nothing wrong with a harmless compliment.

As long as it is just a compliment, then no.

If the guy had said "u have a good woman for a wife"
She for dey remind u am on a daily.


Play a prank on her.by telling her

"For example oo.just imagine sey u be fine woman".

The look on her face.since she no like compliments.

I don't think so but there must be a limit to which you can compliment a married woman.

From what I understand, your wife is telling you to battle anyone that admire her because she is attractive right?

Guy

man up na

Shuuu

Make you and your wife get sense small.

So if your wife ask you to go and jump inside well, you will be confuse whether to obey her or not?

ogbologbo1000:
Me and my family were returning from church on Sunday when we bombed into someone I Knew sometime ago.
In the process of introducing my family, he complimented my family, he went further to say i married a very beautiful woman.
I just smiled and said thank you.

Surprisedly, when we got to the home my wife brought up the matter, she said a man complimented her good looks in my presence and all I could do was to smile at him and say thank you, that if I don't see anything wrong with that behavior, it means I can do the same thing.

I apologized to her, and said, I don't think I can compliment a married woman in the presence of her husband. As I think it is a bit rude.
However, it is better for a man to compliment a woman's beautiful in the presence of her husband and move on. Rather than complimenting a woman's beautiful in secret and go after her.

She has been complaining of how men run after Her because of her heavily endowed shape.
She feels very uncomfortable when men stare at her.
So she exspect me to stand up for her in a way of engaging men that rend to be rude to her my staring at her of complimenting her when am around.
Please Nairalanders, is my behavior abnormal, or should I have reacted to the event last Sunday differently?

Your wife is just forming activity. And mumu you sef still apologize. Apologize for what? Better start monitoring that woman...e get why.

HarunaWest:
Your wife is just forming activity. And mumu you sef still apologize. Apologize for what? Better start monitoring that woman...e get why.

Lwkmd........#senseman..

Simps everywhere...na that woman go push u to Ur early grave

Hmmm....
Omor...
This is really a dicey situation...
There's no black and white spot here, it's all gray...

I don't think there's anything wrong with complimenting a married woman in the presence of her husband, it's just how the compliment is said or acted out...

If the man stared at your woman after complimenting her or he initiated or implied anything sexual after the compliment, then I would find that insulting, but if not, I think it'll be harmless...

I on the other hand, when I compliment a married woman in the presence of the man, I shake the man's hand, smile and say to the hearing of the woman, "oga you're doing well, see as madam is looking sweet 16"

E no mean anything,your wife seems proud.

It "does not right" .


Does she expect you to go about fighting every Tom, Dick and Harry that compliments her in your presence or behind your back? And why did you even have to apologize for how your friend complimented her in the first place? Na wa o.

Abeg don't let her push you around. If she can't ignore the stares or fight those complmenting her by herself, then she should learn to stomach it.

By the way what's wrong in complmenting her?

Is she the only one that gets compliments from men? It's a normal thing every woman experiences. So why is she rubbing it in your face? Guess she's just trying to make you feel innsecured, unnecessarily jealous and overprotective of her.

She really doesn't need to be bothered about being chased by this men if she herself has self control. The ball is in her court.

Nothing serious here abeg.

What is the big deal? Men complement their friends partners everyday without any issues. Are you guys in your early 20's or what? Sometimes when a woman makes too much noise over her physical appearance, then she is likely enjoying the attention.

Are you supposed to go about fighting people over your wife? Only a foolish man does that. Many men have been killed for their foolishness.

Oga no worry yourself ontop watin woman deh think

Those people self no Sabi their self

She might have suffered from too much sexualizing by men and it has become a turn off for her no matter who does it..

So just relax she will get over it

Omor...
This is really a dicey situation...
There's no black and white spot here, it's all gray...

I don't think there's anything wrong with complimenting a married woman in the presence of her husband, it's just how the compliment is said or acted out...

If the man stared at your woman after complimenting her or he initiated or implied anything sexual after the compliment, then I would find that insulting, but if not, I think it'll be harmless...

I on the other hand, when I compliment a married woman in the presence of the man, I shake the man's hand, smile and say to the hearing of the woman, "oga you're doing well, see as madam is looking sweet 16" :
Exactly!

ogbologbo1000:
Your wife is just forming activity. And mumu you sef still apologize. Apologize for what? Better start monitoring that woman...e get why.



Mumu me?
When you get married you will know why I apologized.

Your wife is just forming activity. And mumu you sef still apologize. Apologize for what? Better start monitoring that woman...e get why.



Mumu me?
When you get married you will know why I apologized.

zed7:
What is the big deal? Men complement their friends partners everyday without any issues. Are you guys in your early 20's or what? Sometimes when a woman makes too much noise over her physical appearance, then she is likely enjoying the attention.

Are you supposed to go about fighting people over your wife? Only a foolish man does that. Many men have been killed for their foolishness.

I know my wife, she's not enjoying any attention from it.
She later said the man looked her inappropriately before the compliments, I did not see that.
She was worried because she thought I observed how the fool looked at her.
The issue is that if i was ok the the man's behavior, it means I also do that to other women.

ogbologbo1000:
Me and my family were returning from church on Sunday when we bombed into someone I Knew sometime ago.
In the process of introducing my family, he complimented my family, he went further to say i married a very beautiful woman.
I just smiled and said thank you.

Surprisedly, when we got to the home my wife brought up the matter, she said a man complimented her good looks in my presence and all I could do was to smile at him and say thank you, that if I don't see anything wrong with that behavior, it means I can do the same thing.

I apologized to her, and said, I don't think I can compliment a married woman in the presence of her husband. As I think it is a bit rude.
However, it is better for a man to compliment a woman's beautiful in the presence of her husband and move on. Rather than complimenting a woman's beautiful in secret and go after her.

She has been complaining of how men run after Her because of her heavily endowed shape.
She feels very uncomfortable when men stare at her.
So she exspect me to stand up for her in a way of engaging men that rend to be rude to her my staring at her of complimenting her when am around.
Please Nairalanders, is my behavior abnormal, or should I have reacted to the event last Sunday differently?

How old is this your wife, she sounds childish.

If you must compliment a married woman it should be before her husband ie when it's perfectly okay. It should make the man even know her wife is good looking to others and maintain her better.