truthhurts2:
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

truthhurts2:
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

frozen70:


I think there is nothing wrong with you

So far you do get errection but no sex urge, just relax it will come up

At times it's like that especially once you gets above 30yrs, it gets dropping due to stress and state of mind

ibechris:
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start admiring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.

She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up



Good luck to u.

ibechris:
Kai...u need to follow your wife and attend antenatal.

When my wife had her last pregnancy,we were having sex almost everyday...I was even surprised where the strengths came from as it was one of the best pregnancies she ever had.

The baby was the healthiest that even nurses were asking us what she ate during the pregnancy.

Stopping thinking and start admiring the pregnancy then your urge would be reawaken.

Increase your appetite for sex and pour everything inside like never before.





Good luck to u.

truthhurts2:



She's yet to start her antenatal, and even my work doesn't allow that, I mean, I hardly have time to spare, always fixed up

truthhurts2:
Pls I don't know what is wrong, and, maybe it's normal, since my wife got pregnant which is like 2 months now, sex is of no interest to me anymore. NOTE: I'm not into any extra marital affairs or crushing on any lady or having feelings for anyone else or of anything related to it. I so much love my wife but that zeal for sex has decreased drastically. Pls what can I do?

emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

truthhurts2:

Of course, I do get erection. I pray it change soon...

yuping:
try to listen to her, just in case, women mind work differently, she might not be complaining but might user against you afterwards.

frozen70:


It will if you program your mind towards sex and fantasizss on it

truthhurts2:


Of course, she's complaining, I'm just using the early stage of the preg as an excuse but mind you, the early stage will soon gone and I will be left with nothing

emmanuelbrown26:
That's to tell u the saying that goes like this "naija women only offer sex nothing more" bcs if your wife offers something aside sex, u won't be here saying this

Mariangeles:


Hate has beclouded your sense of reasoning, so much so that you never make sense.

Foodqueen:
Hmmmm.....

Very soon you wouldn't find her attractive anymore.

It's men like u that will start body shaming her after delivery.

truthhurts2:
I'm thinking of maybe going on a short vacation with her and a little shopping, even though not in my budget at all, maybe that would revive it(me)

socialmediaman:
@truthhurts2

What’s causing that decline in your interest? It’s like saying you don’t want to go to work anymore. There’s a reason for it, like maybe your boss or coworkers are toxic, you’re feeling like a fraud for hyping your skills and not measuring up etc.

What’s causing your interest decline?

truthhurts2:

I don't even know what to say to you, and is not that I don't know what to say I just don't want to be offensive... but I will rather keep quiet

truthhurts2:

If I knew Sir I won't be here... I tried to think of the cause but I can't pinpoint anything