Based on my last year experience i stop talking about things i want to do sooner or later,because i sometimes find it hard to do them...and it won't just work out at all,total disaster!. But my husband doesn't understand he just like running his mouth and talking i will do this and that,and i have noticed that he is against me learning a trade or skill just what he wants...he pressures me to do what he wants even though i know what i want,and the outcome is disastrous... My opinion doesn't matter at all,he went and bought a land and didn't tell me now it is giving him problem cos of community money before building on site,and i don't have a good phone,clothes. No good tv,cloth,feeding nothing...everytime gragra at the end nothing i am getting tired of this life. If it is for myself no money but for himself and what he wants there is. I wanted to learn nursing he said no! Go and learn recharge card printing wey for 7k Card gain na 2h,now that what i am talking about please i need your advice i'm depressed.

First of all, use the right word in your caption. You used Relationship in the caption. Are you ashamed to write Marriage?

Second, consult your husband's relatives, if you are being honest here.

Don't worry God is with you

How do you mean you want to learn nursing? Do you mean going to nursing school?

Do you have family or friends that can help you with capital to start a business? Because if your husband is the way.you said, you might not get a chance to develop yourself or maximize your potentials.

ImaIma1:
How do you mean you want to learn nursing? Do you mean going to nursing school?

Do you have family or friends that can help you with capital to start a business? Because if your husband is the way.you said, you might not get a chance to develop yourself or maximize your potentials.

Well said sir,i won't allow his attitude to ruin my future,imagine using all the money at home including mine to build fence at the land,for community to stop the work cos of community money,besides that the seller of the land is also trying to sell to someone else,and money is wasting cos he couldn't calm down,later i was left with nothing to even feed myself and kids...it's that bad but i will take your advice thanks.

Chosen44:
Well said sir,i won't allow his attitude to ruin my future,imagine using all the money at home including mine to build fence at the land,for community to stop the work cos of community money,besides that the seller of the land is also trying to sell to someone else,and money is wasting cos he couldn't calm down,later i was left with nothing to even feed myself and kids...it's that bad but i will take your advice thanks.

Since you know the kind of person he is, don't declare all the money you have on you. Always keep some aside so that you can fend for you and the children.

If you do start a business, don't involve him in the finances to avoid the business shutting down.