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that deluded woman is a time bomb....if she couldnt let you know about her sexual desires and have you upgrade your sexual acrobatics to please her, instead of be quiet and solving the issue in such a degrading manner, then what else is she willing to do?!

if any couple have sexual issues, and ONE of the person decides to selfishly solve it on her own (instead of communicating with you), and not telling her partner, this is a RED LINE crossed!

Would you have preferred she gets it from someone else? Try and see things from her own perspective too

.That was when she told me the bombshell that she wanted more sex than we were having and doesn’t want to stress me as she doesn’t want me too tired for work the next day as she noticed I was too exhausted from work these couple of days and doesn’t want to cheat on me.

I must commend that girl.

She's one of the few sensible Nigerian girls alive. God bless her rapidly for me.

It's very rare to find a good Nigerian girl like her. OP, if you're not interested in the relationship again, DM her number to me immediately.

Thanks.

the only risk here is she getting addicted to the gadgets that way you will start suffering sexually on the relationship...if she is someone you wish to marry,I think you two should have a deep talk about your sex life,ways to improve and ways to strike a good balance...her going to buy gadgets without having such discussion with you,is WRONG... because directly or indirectly those gadgets will affect your sex life...she was a little selfish buying them without your consent...so you two need to discuss,plan and balance your sex life...not one party going into using gadgets without the consent of the other....



my opinion

This exactly is my worry. She getting addicted to it!

And again Would she had accepted me using the toy

This exactly is my worry. She getting addicted to it!

And again Would she had accepted me using the toy

rickpat:
the only risk here is she getting addicted to the gadgets that way you will start suffering sexually on the relationship...if she is someone you wish to marry,I think you two should have a deep talk about your sex life,ways to improve and ways to strike a good balance...her going to buy gadgets without having such discussion with you,is WRONG... because directly or indirectly those gadgets will affect your sex life...she was a little selfish buying them without your consent...so you two need to discuss,plan and balance your sex life...not one party going into using gadgets without the consent of the other....



my opinion

Na runs girl no dey satisfy oo for that thing... Over chopping of dike Don change their sex life... Na German machines or pornsstar fit cope with them. Op if u won live long run for u life o

janzguy:
This exactly is my worry. She getting addicted to it!

And again Would she had accepted me using the toy

bro...sex life is a very very key part of the early life of couples...that satisfaction is very important at the beginning before you guys start focusing on other things...so it's something you two must always agree on ways to satisfy each other...discuss it...not one party just deciding...have a deep talk...and let her understand your sex life is for the both of you..not one person

I have been having thoughts since Thursday that it happened

rickpat:
bro...sex life is a very very key part of the early life of couples...that satisfaction is very important at the beginning before you guys start focusing on other things...so it's something you two must always agree on ways to satisfy each other...discuss it...not one party just deciding...have a deep talk...and let her understand your sex life is for the both of you..not one person

And this things are addictive I heard

habsydiamond:
Na runs girl no dey satisfy oo for that thing... Over chopping of dike Don change their sex life... Na German machines or pornsstar fit cope with them. Op if u won live long run for u life o

janzguy:
I have been having thoughts since Thursday that it happened

clear your head...and have a serious conversation with her..that way you will know the best decision for you at this point...don't just decide to end the relationship without having a deep conversation with her regarding the issue

na olosho u want marry,she don Bleep different dick tire....you go hate ur life if u marry dat girl....all dis one saying talk to her,consider her opinion never get sense!

Na wao! Your girlfriend doesn’t have a family? How can a responsible girl travel from Jos to Lagos to live with her boyfriend for weeks?

You guys are already living like married couples. Why not do the needful?

Maybe because she still don't have a job. She might reduce the use of the gadgets when she get one but my fear is that she may be using those gadgets when she's supposed to be sending CV and LC

When she start working and start going through all the Lagos traffic stress, na she go de run from sex lol

I hope so

Franky70:
When she start working and start going through all the Lagos traffic stress, na she go de run from sex lol

Pls let’s take this to the front page.
I also had issues, exactly like this one. And I am very sure, my Gf was cheating on me. Cos she comes home most times smelling alcohol. And she will claim going out with friends. Other times she will come home with barbecue and champagne, she will still say the same old stories
Few months ago. I stopped sleeping with her and moved out of the house. We didn’t breakup actually. I just left and gave her good space. Now the found someone else. I also stopped calling her, as I use to. In fact, we giving each really good space. I have a lot of regrets tho. But I’m happy

Obalacam:
Would you have preferred she gets it from someone else? Try and see things from her own perspective too

The question I have to ask is this: When she was in Jos and her boyfriend the op was not around, how did she keep body together? Did she also buy and use intimacy gadgets then or she found another alternative?

She demands for sex and money too much? Hmm... Those two things are not a good combination my dear.