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Death! by phadi: 10:24am On Jul 15, 2011 |
hi, just lost my Mum last week and am finding it difficult to accept reality. can someone pls tell me how to deal with the death of a loved one? |
Re: Death! by obowunmi(m): 10:48am On Jul 15, 2011 |
Please accept my condolences. |
Re: Death! by Smilenw(f): 11:36am On Jul 15, 2011 |
Condolences. Having lost a parent at a young age, I have been through what your are going through now. Trust me, it is not easy but this phase shall pass. There is no loss in the world that time cannot mend.Buck up and pray for your mum's soul and try to live a life she would be proud of. |
Re: Death! by Sunjos: 12:01pm On Jul 15, 2011 |
Acept my sympathy. just pray and carry on. such is life, its not fair. |
Re: Death! by xxcarolxx(f): 8:45pm On Jul 15, 2011 |
It is hard to get over a loved one's death, I won't lie to you the first year is the hardest, but things do finally get easier, and the pain eases, My sincere condolences to you, |
Re: Death! by Omolola1(f): 10:01pm On Jul 15, 2011 |
am so sorry about ur loss. U can get over it by not thinking of it that much and acceptin d fact she az gone to rest in God's bosom. |
Re: Death! by Nobody: 12:05am On Jul 16, 2011 |
My condolences. Take heart. |
Re: Death! by mukina2: 11:42am On Jul 16, 2011 |
Sorry May her soul rest in peace. Lost mine too late teens its something you can never get over, you get days of wishing she were here whenever you feel like crying let it out, think of the good times, you had with her pray for her soul all the time, try to be happy and have it in your mind that she is watching down on you in all you do. Take heart |
Re: Death! by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
phadi: Sorry to hear about your loss. There's no set way to deal with bereavement, the pain will gradually ease, not feel so raw, but you'll always have periods whereby you'll remember the good times, and feel sad. I know the feeling; I lost my mom when I was just 19 and my dad when I was 21. I'm sure your mom is looking down on you, and will continue to guide you. Take heart, and may your mom's soul rest in eternal peace. |
Re: Death! by Nobody: 3:26pm On Jul 16, 2011 |
Wish I can tell you it will get easier or dat the pain and emptiness will go away but it will not. In times like this only God can find a way to our hearts and see us through. No words no one can console us |
Re: Death! by hannydarl(f): 4:20pm On Jul 18, 2011 |
No one can teach you how dear.Dealing with death is a personal thing. I lost my mom last year my dad 5yrs ago. I was mad at God and at her for leaving. We had planned how she would come help me when I got pregnant and all. Then she died. My brother's friend who had passed through the same pain encouraged me to move on. I became strong when I saw how strong she was her husband was abusive so she lives with her two kids watching her gave me the courage to move on. Maybe you can find someone who has passed through loss and grief and came out standing tall to encourage and help you bear the loss. Feel free to let me know if you want someone to talk to. |
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