MY MAJOR PROBLEM? I have a very fragile heart so tenderly to hate or hurt anybody especially, those in my neighbourhood. Honestly,has been trying to abide as a faithful disciple through total surrend to His commands. CRUX OF THE MATTER. My close door neighbour enjoys gas cooking cylinder,while mine is wood fire cooking method. On a good day,to my surprised , i caught my neighbour using my wood fire without my permission for commercial purpose[frying groundnut],to maintained a good neighbour managered to control myself. On another occasion,it was her children,honestly,this development didn't go down well with me. Women has remain so smart,somehow she noticed it and decides to approach me jokingly,to leave my fire on for her,on pretext of running out of gas. Hmmmm,this hand shake hs gone to another level. Should i continue keeping mute to my own detriment? Ofcourse we all know hw unfriendly nigerian economy is,considering a bunch of wood fire of 25pcs gose for #800.

vickybby:
My major problem? I have a very fragile heart so tenderly to hate or hurt anybody especially, those in my neighbourhood. Honestly,has been trying to abide as a faithful disciple through total surrend to His commands. Crux of the matter. My close door neighbour enjoys gas cooking cylinder,while mine is wood fire cooking method. On a good day,to my surprised , i caught my neighbour using my wood fire without my permission for commercial purpose[frying groundnut],to maintained a good neighbour managered to control myself. On another occasion,it was her children,honestly,this development didn't go down well with me. Women has remain so smart,somehow she noticed it and decides to approach me jokingly,to leave my fire on for her,on pretext of running out of gas. Hmmmm,this hand shake hs gone to another level. Should i continue keeping mute to my own detriment? Ofcourse we all know hw unfriendly nigerian economy is,considering a butche of wood fire of 25pcs gose for #800.

Hhmm, Your profile name indicate you are a Lady, your gender on your profile indicates Male, how are you sure you didn't wrote this post out of confusion?

correctyourself:


Hhmm, Your profile name indicate you are a Lady, your gender on your profile indicates Male, how are you sure you didn't wrote this post out of confusion?

You must be confused as well,why jugding me in the first place without any solution to my phlight or what will been contriary achieve here? Very annoying,the way you sound,you can never make a good neighbour period!

vickybby:
You must be confused as well,why jugding me in the first place without any solution to my phlight or what will been contriary achieve here? Very annoying,the way you sound,you can never make a good neighbour period!

na joke i dey oooo

Being good doesn't mean being dumb.

Just tell her, na manage we dey so for Naija o.

God help us o.

And manage your property seriously.

Onething I will never do is allow someone take advantage of my kindness......OP tell them to stop using it, don't displease yourself by trying to please someone. I know they will start keeping grudges with you but ignore them. The economy is hard, don't give anybody the chance to make it harder for you.




BTW I wonder how you manage to cook with firewood, it's very stressful. I can't stay close to smoke, I will cry my eyes out.

Blue86:
Being good doesn't mean being dumb.

Just tell her, na manage we dey so for Naija o.

God help us o.

And manage your aproperty seriously.

Bros bunch of wood fire goes for #800,before i realised it 12, gone. I know it won't be that easy but will try,hate suffering in silent. thanks

If dey come dey behave anyhow just because you up your game by getting what they are doing, no allow am touch u. It just means those people are bad people. Avoid such.

Na wetin bible talk be that.

vickybby:
Bros bunch of wood fire goes for #800,before i realised it 12, gone. I know it won't be that easy but will,hate suffering in silent. thanks

Bahamas95:
Onething I will never do is allow someone take advantage of my kindness......OP tell them to stop using it, don't displease yourself by trying to please someone. I know they will start keeping grudges with you but ignore them. The economy is hard, don't give anybody the chance to make it harder for you.




BTW I wonder how you manage to cook with firewood, it's very stressful. I can't stay close to smoke, I will cry my eyes out.

Chief your question touch me seriously,but my prayers: may God never allow our enemies to locate us dead or alife. To be frank with you,had everything life could afford even the cylinder gas,until they remembered me and that was all. Won't want to remember the past anymore,it's a kind of humilating.

WHEN AN ATHEIST LIVES NEXT DOOR.
DO NOT BE UNEQUIVOCALLY YOKED WITH HIM.

After cooking gather your remaining fire wood, tire it very well and keep where only you can access it. If she needs it she can come and beg you for it, if you want you can give the quantity you can spare to her

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vickybby:
MY MAJOR PROBLEM? I have a very fragile heart so tenderly to hate or hurt anybody especially, those in my neighbourhood. Honestly,has been trying to abide as a faithful disciple through total surrend to His commands. CRUX OF THE MATTER. My close door neighbour enjoys gas cooking cylinder,while mine is wood fire cooking method. On a good day,to my surprised , i caught my neighbour using my wood fire without my permission for commercial purpose[frying groundnut],to maintained a good neighbour managered to control myself. On another occasion,it was her children,honestly,this development didn't go down well with me. Women has remain so smart,somehow she noticed it and decides to approach me jokingly,to leave my fire on for her,on pretext of running out of gas. Hmmmm,this hand shake hs gone to another level. Should i continue keeping mute to my own detriment? Ofcourse we all know hw unfriendly nigerian economy is,considering a bunch of wood fire of 25pcs gose for #800.

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