Good evening all

I'd been married for about 8yrs and it'd been God all the way.

My significant other told me about her past a Beautiful girl inclusive

However, i've started picking holes in her story about her separation with the girl's dad; lately i had The privilege of connecting with the girl's Aunt

Wanna ask, should i go ahead in Contacting the girl's aunt

Note: I've never seen the girl (except through pictures) NEITHER have I had any conversation with the Girl (step-daughter)

You don't need to ask.

Go ahead.

Get all the information and facts you need to get.

So you don't end up carrying another man's load!

Be wise!

Wande22:
However, i've started picking holes in her story about her separation with the girl's dad; lately i had The privilege of connecting with the girl's Aunt. Wanna ask, should i go ahead in Contacting the girl's aunt

Note: I've never seen the girl (except through pictures) NEITHER have I had any conversation with the Girl (step-daughter)

Why are you suddenly concerned about your wife's past? Is there a particular reason why you must dig into a past relationship and know of a girl you are not even taking care of?

You have been married to her for 8 years yet you still refer to her as a single mother. Are you sure your story isn't cooked up?

Leave single mothers ALONE!
THEY ARE MOSTLY BITTER AND USELESS BAGGAGES EXCEPT WIDOWS.

Wahala sit down, yanga go wake am. Continue...

Kobojunkie:
Why are you suddenly concerned about your wife's past? Is there a particular reason why you must dig into a past relationship and know of a girl you are not even taking care of?

You have been married to her for 8 years yet you still refer to her as a single mother. Are you sure your story isn't cooked up?

Sir,
She wasn't allowed to see the girl from 2010 (when she dropped her) till Last year December and whenever I ask/tell her to make efforts in reconnecting with her daughter then she always silences me with when The Time Comes, nobody will Stop her and I know what would have happened if reverse was the case

LAST BULLET: the story Is as real as Baba Iragbiji presidential contest declaration

Wande22:


Sir,
She wasn't allowed to see the girl from 2010 (when she dropped her) till Last year December and whenever I ask/tell her to make efforts in reconnecting with her daughter then she always silences me with when The Time Comes, nobody will Stop her and I know what would have happened if reverse was the case

LAST BULLET: the story Is as real as Baba Iragbiji presidential contest declaration

How can a woman still married to you, be a single mother?

IWho is her daughter staying with and was she ever married to the girl's father?

Mindlog:


How can a woman still married to you, be a single mother?

IWho is her daughter staying with and was she ever married to the girl's father?

1. Topic modified

2. No marriage was done. Only introduction

3. The girl stays with her paternal grandparents

Wande22:
Sir,
She wasn't allowed to see the girl from 2010 (when she dropped her) till Last year December and whenever I ask/tell her to make efforts in reconnecting with her daughter then she always silences me with when The Time Comes, nobody will Stop her and I know what would have happened if reverse was the case

LAST BULLET: the story Is as real as Baba Iragbiji presidential contest declaration

Since 2010? How old is the gal now? At least 12 years of age?

Seems there is a whole backstory there you didn't include at all in your OP, so how exactly do you expect for us to advice you only on the little you shared?

Also, if you doubt her past, what does it change of where you are now with her?

Permit me to say that unless you're looking for an opportunity to end your marriage, it's not advisable you open up healed wounds.

Is she has been a good wife to you and you have no reason to suspect that she's still in touch with the father of that girl, please enjoy your marriage.

Everyone has a past though some are darker than the other. Nevertheless, the past is better consigned to antiquity.

Live joyfully with your wife. Build the future together. Forget the past.

Kobojunkie:
Since 2010? How old is the gal now? At least 12 years of age?

Seems there is a whole backstory there you didn't include at all in your OP, so how exactly do you expect for us to advice you only on the little you shared?

Also, if you doubt her past, what does it change of where you are now with her?

Sire

The girl will be 14 by December

The Backstory long gan..................

There were some drama that happened at home which made me to contemplate taking such an action

Kobojunkie:
Since 2010? How old is the gal now? At least 12 years of age?

Seems there is a whole backstory there you didn't include at all in your OP, so how exactly do you expect for us to advice you only on the little you shared?

Also, if you doubt her past, what does it change of where you are now with her?

Sire

The girl will be 14 by December

The Backstory long gan..................

There were some drama that happened at home which made me to contemplate taking such an action

Wande22:

Sire, The girl will be 14 by December, The Backstory long gan........There were some drama that happened at home which made me to contemplate taking such an action

So you see how we can't reasonably give you ideas on what to do since we don't have any real idea why you wish to learn of your wife's past or what potential benefits or disadvantages there may be to such in your case.

Kobojunkie:
So you see how we can't reasonably give you ideas on what to do since we don't have any real idea why you wish to learn of your wife's past or what potential benefits or disadvantages there may be to such in your case.

Ok. I understand