This has been the norm almost through my entire life. I'll stand with five friends, a random person will walk up to us and approach me particularly and ask for money.

It's definitely not because I'm well dressed, in fact, I could be the least dressed amongst my friends in any group at all. But once a random person who needs financial or any other type of assistance, sees us, they walk straight to me.

I can tell it is not mere coincidence.
I'm in my late 20s and I'm trying to define as much as possible about myself, but this has been a mystery to me. People who look wealthier than me will single me out whenever they need any form of [especially] financial assistance.

I do give as much as I can, but you know, I can't give to all.

Please I need well thought out replies, thanks in advance.


Please move to fp, mods. Thanks.

It seems you are temperate. Your appearance portrays you as a calm and kindhearted person. Na em cause am.

I can relate

You know how thing goes. When you need something, you don't just work to anybody on sight. There is always observation. Its probably you look calm and fresh (milky).
When they see you, The needer go come be like "this guy go get and he go fit help because he no too look like hard person)