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How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Lukgaf(m): 7:47am On Jul 15, 2022
Some non -muslims out of courtesy pay us a Tasleem. As a Muslim, how should we return it?

"Praise be to Allah.

It is not permissible firstly to initiate the greeting of salaam to a non-Muslim. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Do not initiate the greeting of salaam to a Jew or a Christian

(Narrated by Muslim, 2167).
If one of them says As-Saam alaykum meaning, may death be upon you or it is not clear whether they have said salaam, then we should respond by saying Wa alaykum (and upon you).

It was reported that Ibn Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: When the Jews greet you, they say Al-saam alaykum (may death be upon you), so respond by saying alayk (and also upon you).

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5902; Muslim, 2461).
If a non-Muslim greets us with the correct shari greeting (i.e., says Al-salaamu alaykum clearly), the scholars differed as to whether we have to return the greeting. The majority of scholars said that we do have to return the greeting, and this is the correct view.

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: they differed as to whether it is obligatory to return the greeting. The majority said that it is obligatory and this is the correct view. A group of scholars said that it is not obligatory to return their greeting just as it is not obligatory to return the greeting of those who follow bidah. But the correct view is the first one. The difference is that we are commanded to forsake the followers of bidah by way of rebuke and to warn others about them, which is not the case with the Ahl al-Dhimmah (Jews and Christians).

(Zaad al-Maaad, 2/425, 426)

The Muslim who is returning the greeting should respond in the manner prescribed by shareeah, giving a similar or better greeting, because of the general meaning of the Aayah (interpretation of the meaning):

When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally. [al-Nisa 4:86]

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: if the person is certain that the Dhimmi (Jew or Christian) is clearly saying al-salaamu alaykum to him, and he has no doubts about that, should he say wa alayka al-salaam or shorten it to wa alayk? What is indicated by the evidence and principles of shareeah is that he should say wa alayka al-salaam, because this is more just, and Allaah commands us to be just and to treat others well this does not contradict any of the ahaadeeth on this topic at all, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) commanded us to shorten the greeting to wa alayk because of the reason mentioned above, which is that they deliberately used to say al-saam alaykum instead of al-salaam alaykum, as indicated in the hadeeth narrated by Aaishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). He said, Do you not see that I say wa alaykum when they say al-saam alaykum? Then he said, If the People of the Book greet you with salaam, say, Wa alaykum.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

and when they come to you, they greet you with a greeting wherewith Allaah greets you not, and say within themselves, Why would Allâh punish us not for what we say? [al-Mujaadilah 58:8]

If this reason is not there, and the Jew or Christian says, Salaam alaykum wa rahmat-Allaah, then it is only fair to respond in kind.

(Ahkaam Ahl al-Dhimmah, 1/425, 426)

The hadeeth of Aaishah was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5901) and Muslim (2165)

See also: Majmoo Fataawa Ibn Uthaymeen, 2/97

And Allaah knows best."

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/6583/how-should-we-return-the-greeting-of-salaam-from-a-non-muslim

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Rashduct4luv(m): 8:23am On Jul 15, 2022
Assalamu alaikum to all our Muslim brothers and sisters. We ask Allah to perfect us in goodness of Taqwa, Taoheed and Istiqama.

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by AntiChristian: 8:37am On Jul 15, 2022
Simply Lovely!

Wa alaikum Salam warahmatullah....

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by x123xlolls(m): 12:36pm On Jul 15, 2022
Islam is a complete way of life, simple, easy. grin

JAZAKALLAH FOR THE ARTICLE

People of hate and ignorance will soon rush here and spill the trash as usual.

Don't hurt or Abuse/Hate any non-Muslim, Try and educate them instead.

That's how Muhammadu (pbuh) treated them.

#OneLove


A quick question to any Christian reading this: on sundays, Muslims won't have time to drail xtians threads, but why ALL NL xtians rush to our threads on Friday? angry

Something is wrong somewhere walai



SIMONEKPA7:
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The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Do not initiate the greeting of salaam to a Jew or a Christian
Those supporting Muslim Muslim Ticket. Come and read how Islam hates Christians. in Summary it is wrong for a Muslim to greet Christian first.

Let start with this one:
The bible is comman more hate than that to us Muslims:

Everyone who goes on ahead and does not abide in the teaching of Christ, does not have God. Whoever abides in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your house or give him any greeting, for whoever greets him takes part in his wicked works.

John 1:9-11



makapella:

You make Christians swear to comment on Muslim post but Christian posts are merry go round abi..
It's a must to visit us here?



womenareapezz:
angry
Here you go for those who is in support for Muslim -muslim ticket undecided

Islam hate we Christian with passion hence the Islamisation agenda by the evil party

Know this and know peace! Islam a religion of hate and vawulence

I am not into politics, but how can a man that can't islamise his wife Islamise 200M people

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by kokkubabboni421(m): 12:37pm On Jul 15, 2022
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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by KUNZEH(m): 12:37pm On Jul 15, 2022
Wa alaekum
Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Oddfinder: 12:43pm On Jul 15, 2022
grin
Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by ganye1: 12:43pm On Jul 15, 2022
Jazakallah khairan.

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Ussycool: 12:47pm On Jul 15, 2022
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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by koolaid87: 12:50pm On Jul 15, 2022
Western Christianity= White saviour
Islam= Arab Messiah


Both indulged in slave trades
Both don't care about africans or black rights


Religion is a tool to keep our (afrikans) minds enslaved

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Comedian2019: 1:06pm On Jul 15, 2022
What if a Muslim greets an a non religious person who's not arab al-salaam alaykum?
Does he not have right not to answer him since he doesn't understand his language? grin grin grin

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Bubu4Sea: 1:13pm On Jul 15, 2022
This proves Muslims don't worship the Judeo/Christian God.

If they did they will stop killing Christians & Jews, also there will not be a problem with greeting Jews & Christians.

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by AminuRano87(m): 1:15pm On Jul 15, 2022
And this is religion of peace?
Segregation even in simple stuff like greetings.
Please nairaland admin should ban these extremists from this forum.

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by JohnieWalker12(m): 1:16pm On Jul 15, 2022
This is very wrong and non believers would deliberately not say death be unto you as a greeting. Islam should be more just and upright in her teachings with other members of the society. Thank you .

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Hassanmaye(m): 1:17pm On Jul 15, 2022
Lukgaf:
Some non -muslims out of courtesy pay us a Tasleem. As a Muslim, how should we return it?

"Praise be to Allah.

It is not permissible firstly to initiate the greeting of salaam to a non-Muslim. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Do not initiate the greeting of salaam to a Jew or a Christian

(Narrated by Muslim, 2167).
If one of them says As-Saam alaykum meaning, may death be upon you or it is not clear whether they have said salaam, then we should respond by saying Wa alaykum (and upon you).

It was reported that Ibn Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: When the Jews greet you, they say Al-saam alaykum (may death be upon you), so respond by saying alayk (and also upon you).

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5902; Muslim, 2461).
If a non-Muslim greets us with the correct shari greeting (i.e., says Al-salaamu alaykum clearly), the scholars differed as to whether we have to return the greeting. The majority of scholars said that we do have to return the greeting, and this is the correct view.

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: they differed as to whether it is obligatory to return the greeting. The majority said that it is obligatory and this is the correct view. A group of scholars said that it is not obligatory to return their greeting just as it is not obligatory to return the greeting of those who follow bidah. But the correct view is the first one. The difference is that we are commanded to forsake the followers of bidah by way of rebuke and to warn others about them, which is not the case with the Ahl al-Dhimmah (Jews and Christians).

(Zaad al-Maaad, 2/425, 426)

The Muslim who is returning the greeting should respond in the manner prescribed by shareeah, giving a similar or better greeting, because of the general meaning of the Aayah (interpretation of the meaning):

When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally. [al-Nisa 4:86]

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: if the person is certain that the Dhimmi (Jew or Christian) is clearly saying al-salaamu alaykum to him, and he has no doubts about that, should he say wa alayka al-salaam or shorten it to wa alayk? What is indicated by the evidence and principles of shareeah is that he should say wa alayka al-salaam, because this is more just, and Allaah commands us to be just and to treat others well this does not contradict any of the ahaadeeth on this topic at all, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) commanded us to shorten the greeting to wa alayk because of the reason mentioned above, which is that they deliberately used to say al-saam alaykum instead of al-salaam alaykum, as indicated in the hadeeth narrated by Aaishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). He said, Do you not see that I say wa alaykum when they say al-saam alaykum? Then he said, If the People of the Book greet you with salaam, say, Wa alaykum.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

and when they come to you, they greet you with a greeting wherewith Allaah greets you not, and say within themselves, Why would Allâh punish us not for what we say? [al-Mujaadilah 58:8]

If this reason is not there, and the Jew or Christian says, Salaam alaykum wa rahmat-Allaah, then it is only fair to respond in kind.

(Ahkaam Ahl al-Dhimmah, 1/425, 426)

The hadeeth of Aaishah was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5901) and Muslim (2165)

See also: Majmoo Fataawa Ibn Uthaymeen, 2/97

And Allaah knows best."

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/6583/how-should-we-return-the-greeting-of-salaam-from-a-non-muslim
Masha Allah

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Rexymania(m): 1:24pm On Jul 15, 2022
I'm a Muslim convert, and I think there are some issues you bring here. Don't bring this kind of topic here... It causes strive amongst us

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by harmargedon: 1:24pm On Jul 15, 2022
x123xlolls:
Islam is a complete way of life, simple, easy. grin

JAZAKALLAH FOR THE ARTICLE

People of hate and ignorance will soon rush here and spill the trash as usual.

Don't hurt or Abuse/Hate any non-Muslim, Try and educate them instead.

That's how Muhammadu (pbuh) treated them.

#OneLove


A quick question to any Christian reading this: on sundays, Muslims won't have time to drail xtians threads, but why ALL NL xtians rush to our threads on Friday? angry

Something is wrong somewhere walai





Let start with this one:
The bible is comman more hate than that to us Muslims:

Everyone who goes on ahead and does not abide in the teaching of Christ, does not have God. Whoever abides in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your house or give him any greeting, for whoever greets him takes part in his wicked works.

John 1:9-11




It's a must to visit us here?





I am not into politics, but how can a man that can't islamise his wife Islamise 200M people
do you think it's about Tinubu, the game iss bigger than one portion of the south to win.
Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by harmargedon: 1:25pm On Jul 15, 2022
Lukgaf:
Some non -muslims out of courtesy pay us a Tasleem. As a Muslim, how should we return it?

"Praise be to Allah.

It is not permissible firstly to initiate the greeting of salaam to a non-Muslim. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Do not initiate the greeting of salaam to a Jew or a Christian

(Narrated by Muslim, 2167).
If one of them says As-Saam alaykum meaning, may death be upon you or it is not clear whether they have said salaam, then we should respond by saying Wa alaykum (and upon you).

It was reported that Ibn Umar (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: When the Jews greet you, they say Al-saam alaykum (may death be upon you), so respond by saying alayk (and also upon you).

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5902; Muslim, 2461).
If a non-Muslim greets us with the correct shari greeting (i.e., says Al-salaamu alaykum clearly), the scholars differed as to whether we have to return the greeting. The majority of scholars said that we do have to return the greeting, and this is the correct view.

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: they differed as to whether it is obligatory to return the greeting. The majority said that it is obligatory and this is the correct view. A group of scholars said that it is not obligatory to return their greeting just as it is not obligatory to return the greeting of those who follow bidah. But the correct view is the first one. The difference is that we are commanded to forsake the followers of bidah by way of rebuke and to warn others about them, which is not the case with the Ahl al-Dhimmah (Jews and Christians).

(Zaad al-Maaad, 2/425, 426)

The Muslim who is returning the greeting should respond in the manner prescribed by shareeah, giving a similar or better greeting, because of the general meaning of the Aayah (interpretation of the meaning):

When you are greeted with a greeting, greet in return with what is better than it, or (at least) return it equally. [al-Nisa 4:86]

Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: if the person is certain that the Dhimmi (Jew or Christian) is clearly saying al-salaamu alaykum to him, and he has no doubts about that, should he say wa alayka al-salaam or shorten it to wa alayk? What is indicated by the evidence and principles of shareeah is that he should say wa alayka al-salaam, because this is more just, and Allaah commands us to be just and to treat others well this does not contradict any of the ahaadeeth on this topic at all, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) commanded us to shorten the greeting to wa alayk because of the reason mentioned above, which is that they deliberately used to say al-saam alaykum instead of al-salaam alaykum, as indicated in the hadeeth narrated by Aaishah (may Allaah be pleased with her). He said, Do you not see that I say wa alaykum when they say al-saam alaykum? Then he said, If the People of the Book greet you with salaam, say, Wa alaykum.

Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

and when they come to you, they greet you with a greeting wherewith Allaah greets you not, and say within themselves, Why would Allâh punish us not for what we say? [al-Mujaadilah 58:8]

If this reason is not there, and the Jew or Christian says, Salaam alaykum wa rahmat-Allaah, then it is only fair to respond in kind.

(Ahkaam Ahl al-Dhimmah, 1/425, 426)

The hadeeth of Aaishah was narrated by al-Bukhaari (5901) and Muslim (2165)

See also: Majmoo Fataawa Ibn Uthaymeen, 2/97

And Allaah knows best."

https://islamqa.info/en/answers/6583/how-should-we-return-the-greeting-of-salaam-from-a-non-muslim
if a non Muslim makes a mistake, then teach him the right way to say it. It's his love for your religion that drives one to be like you.

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by Praktikals(m): 1:44pm On Jul 15, 2022
Why should we answer non muslims differently?
Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by x123xlolls(m): 1:45pm On Jul 15, 2022
Rexymania:
I'm a Muslim convert, and I think there are some issues you bring here. Don't bring this kind of topic here... It causes strive amongst us

May Allah bless you

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Re: How Should We Return The Greetings From A Non-muslim by x123xlolls(m): 1:47pm On Jul 15, 2022
Praktikals:
Why should we answer non muslims differently?
because:

Everyone who goes on ahead and does not abide in the teaching of Christ, does not have God. Whoever abides in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your house or give him any greeting, for whoever greets him takes part in his wicked works.

2 John 1:9-11

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