Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

You've taken decision already? I hope your decision is saving for the new coming baby as that remains the best decision.

"If people should find out "

That your wife is pregnant for you? How old are you bro and how old is your brain?

Calm down, yes people would talk but there is nothing you can do about that. Laugh over it whenever it is brought up as many couples have also experienced that.....she is your wife, not your girlfriend.

This is good news. Alot of people are looking for children. Some are praying, fasting, countless IVF and crying. You have this bundle of joy has a free gift from God and you are complaining. Children are gifts from God hallelujah

It is like you are still a baby.

Congratulations

Officialgarri:
"If people should find out "

That your wife is pregnant for you? How old are you bro and how old is your brain?

u don't understand. She gave birth not long ago.

You and your wife are not the first to be in this kind of situation, and you certainly won't be the last, so calm down.
There's nothing new under the sun.
People might talk, then they'd move on with their lives.
Take care of your wife, and reassure her.

Ok

Officialgarri:
"If people should find out "

That your wife is pregnant for you? How old are you bro and how old is your brain?

Goan sit down.
Do you know what it means for a man to WICKEDLY impregnant his wife that just gave birth.?

It is wickedness and a shameful act.
If care is not taken he may lose the wife, and the new born baby including the one in the womb. At 3 months after delivery, the placenta is not ready and relaxed to carry another baby and if the new born sucks the breast he may fall sick.

I was there once. Felt like I wanted to die. Depression crept in. I hid myself, became withdrawn. Almost went for an abortion in fact turn back at the last hour

Guess what!! Keeping the baby was the best decision ever. Just trust God ,it will get better on the way.

Singlelover:
Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

mariahAngel:
You and your wife are not the first to be in this kind of situation, and you certainly won't be the last, so calm down.
There's nothing new under the sun.
People might talk, then they'd move on with their lives.
Take care of your wife, and reassure her.

It is not as easy as you think. Somebody's life is at stake here.

Let your mum know without delay, don't do something funny. It won't be easy. What you did is very wrong. Seems both of you can't control yourselves.

Singlelover:
Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

BurialGround:
Let your mum know without delay, don't do something funny. It won't be easy. What you did is very wrong. Seems both of you can't control yourselves.

They are married and didn't commit any crime being sexually active, contraceptives also do fail.

BurialGround:


Goan sit down.
Do you know what it means for a man to WICKEDLY impregnant his wife that just gave birth.?

It is wickedness and a shameful act.
If care is not taken he may lose the wife, and the new born baby including the one in the womb. At 3 months after delivery, the placenta is not ready and relaxed to carry another baby and if the new born sucks the breast he may fall sick.

I want to ask you some questions


1. How old are you

2. Are you a parent?

3. Do you really know the age of the expectant mother?

4. Are you a doctor or a paramedic?

The answers to the above mentioned questions will determine my conclusion.

Thank you

Singlelover:
Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

Your wife is keeper; currently you can fire without concern for nine months. In future, buy condoms, study your wife's cycle, or maybe go for medical advice on family planning.

Mindlog:


They are married and didn't commit any crime being sexually active, contraceptives also do fail.

It is a crime against nature and the New born baby.

saintopus:


I want to ask you some questions


1. How old are you

2. Are you a parent?

3. Do you really know the age of the expectant mother?

4. Are you a doctor or a paramedic?

The answers to the above mentioned questions will determine my conclusion.

Thank you

Experience is the best teacher.

BurialGround:


Experience is the best teacher.

Okay thanks very much.

My brother you are very far from the reality. No amount of experience will ever supercede the above questions.

Na wa o which kind penis marriage be dis? � � �

Well it won't be easy . believe me it happens every well she should have done family planning that is the best way to avoid it but since it's done. Know this she may need to wean the baby early if she is not strong enough. But if she is she should keep on get enough rest eat very well cause she us eating for 3 now. She must not wean the bigger baby both babies can suck from her. It will be like twins dont mind people that say one will die or get sick. And it is best to speak to your health practitioner please don't let any one judge you and your wife if they do you better answer them well it can happen to any one remember she should rest and eat well. God help you both

mariahAngel:
You and your wife are not the first to be in this kind of situation, and you certainly won't be the last, so calm down.
There's nothing new under the sun.
People might talk, then they'd move on with their lives.
Take care of your wife, and reassure her.

That was soooooooooooooooooooo close.

The talk matters a lot..And if care is not taken Obi ga agbawa onye nke ha ji n'aka....In some cases, ya Ariawa and sometimes na death.

My old neighbour gara ga atuwa Nwaanyi ka ji nwa na aka ime udi a, nke ha ji na aka nwuru...

Nwaanyi ebe gbuo onwe ya na akwa.

I later ask my parents why, ha si m physically and traditionally o di hu mma....If it happens, Aga enye umu abuo ahu ohere...The mother biara Omugwo might be needing to stay months to cater for nke ahu eji n'aka.

Ihe ndi a di omimi.

Marriage is not easy.

This is how being a man is defined.

U have to bear it all.

Rozross:
Na wa o which kind penis marriage be dis? � � �

Sharap

Essence of marriage is it not to have sex without feeling guilty..Aside companionship.

Munzy14:

Sharap

Essence of marriage is it not to have sex without feeling guilty..Aside companionship.

If you think the essence of marriage is about sex please remain single till you get it’s true essence. Do guys still feel guilty about having premarital sex this era? I doubt

Singlelover:
Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

Hmmm ... Sharp shooter

On a serious note, accept the cold hard fact that you're going to Father another baby soon, so get ready

BurialGround:


Goan sit down.
Do you know what it means for a man to WICKEDLY impregnant his wife that just gave birth.?

It is wickedness and a shameful act.
If care is not taken he may lose the wife, and the new born baby including the one in the womb. At 3 months after delivery, the placenta is not ready and relaxed to carry another baby and if the new born sucks the breast he may fall sick.

Just imagine...
This also hapn to nd notn of sort came up, no health issues to mother, breastfeeding baby nor baby in d womb....

Singlelover:
Oh nairalanders, what a terrible mistakes i've made.

i have sometimes ago needed help here for my baby few months ago, and it now look like i'm hauing twins as my wife is pregnant again.

what embarrassment and shame this would bring to me should people finds out. I don't eve belive these has happened, i thought one can't be pregnant again for some months after given birth, what have i done?

please nairalanders, what can i do, how can i handle this up coming shame. I can't allow this, not this time. I just need prayers that its gonna be fine, the decision i've taken. I'm pained.

shame for woman u married nd feed in your home? Grow up bro

Officialgarri:
"If people should find out "

That your wife is pregnant for you? How old are you bro and how old is your brain?

he is 25 and his brain is 12

Lol.