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Mother:—

1. Loves and supports you unconditionally
2. Never takes revenge even if you ill-treat her
3. Doesn't love you based on your economic conditions
4. Be with you in difficult times

Wife:—

1. Loves you conditionally
2. Takes revenge when you ill-treat her
3. Loves you based on your economic conditions
4. Insults and abandons you in difficult times

Who would you choose between you wife and mother?

James289:
Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.

zainabicy:
Make I add, there is nothing good mother can do flor you that good wife cannot do.

But there is something good wife can do for you, but good mother cannot do for you.

Barims:


You must be crazy! My mom comes first even before my children

Mindlog:


Why have the children in the first place?

Barims:


Take or leave it,
My mom come first, followed by my kids then wife

Mindlog:


Eyah.......momma's boy.

Barims:


Thank you

James289:
Anyone who puts mom first needs to see a therapist.

Barims:


Thank you

Jman06:
It's actually anyone who puts wife first that needs to see a therapist.

Moms (and by extension, dads and siblings) are the only ones that genuinely loves a man.

Many guys of marriageable age are finding it hard getting married because no lady would accept them in that state. But their moms still love and care for them regardless of their present financial state. Then when the guy eventually makes it, one lady from somewhere would just come in and start expecting the man to put them above his mom.

A wife can leave a man when things get rough for him, but his mom sticks to him through thick and thin. I've seen countless examples!

So, only a very foolish man would place his wife above his mom. Are we not talking about the same wives that many men are only pretending to be happy with because of societal expectations

As a lady, you just have to make peace with the fact that a reasonable man would not put you above his wife. I know you ladies don't like to hear the truth, but I must always tell y'all the truth.

Reinamaria:
As a husband, when you put your mother before your wife, she in turn puts your child(ren) before you.
Any good mother would advise her son to put his good wife first before her (the mother), for him to be happy in his marriage.
Only a selfish and possessive mother would let her married son put her first before his wife.
No woman who loves her husband puts her father first.