Nigerian actor and filmaker, Ugezu J. Ugezu has taken to Instagram to explain why those lamenting that they didn't find love are still single, IGBERETV reports.

He wrote;

"They are single because they weren't prepared to give those who found them any chance."

"They are looking for something, something they cannot explain.

"Next year will come and go and they are still single males and females."

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Merry Xmas from my Baby pls Like his photo

I won’t be single next year, I’m coming to Nigeria to get married. I never see the girl sha

If you are single and responsible apply and you must be gainfully employed, not a club girl and must be family oriented.

Truly, a lot of people have crazy fantasies. They will continue to remain single.
Most of our girls are looking for rich and established guys, most are now forced to settle for fraudsters and criminals. This is the order of the day.

how can a man find true love when females are busy doing hookups...finding love nowadays is possible due to your financial capacity.besides what we have isn't love,just transaction of money and sex between males and the other gender..no true love anywhere

Tell these daughters of Eve!

A broke and wretched Nigerian girl with just 2 pants and 3 bras looking for already made man for marriage. Didirin!

Na there we dey now

Baba dey yarn nonsense. You can't compare youths of 1980's & 2022's.

In this GenZ era, virgin babe dey at all? Loyalty dey? Nothing dey except fake nyash, bress, coloured face.

So, make person come marry this kind generation girls & divorce so that the children should suffer?God forbid.

Better to wait than to regret.

You better think well.

Lies...major causes of high rate of singles in Nigeria include the following.

1. Unemployment : Unemployment and the fear of not getting a well-paying job tops the list of reasons men run away from marital commitment.

They prefer waiting until they are financially stable to take up the roles of a husband which comes with added responsibilities.

Closely tied to this is the fact that no woman would want to get married to a jobless man who cannot take care of them and they would never touch such men with a metre long pole.

Being financially stable in Nigeria comes with a lot of responsibilities as parents, siblings and other relations would also expect you to dole out something to them at the end of the month.

2. Expensive wedding : In most Nigerian cities, getting married is so expensive that by the time one is done, he would have spent millions of Naira.

Starting from the introduction to the traditional marriage and the white wedding, some places put off their men who are ready to get married and as such, the men end up either getting married to people from other places or not getting married at all.

3. High rate of divorce : Men are often intimidated at the rate of divorce that they witness in the society where most marriages do not last beyond five years.

When they see this and get to hear testimonies from other married men who are having a torrid time in their marriages, they tend to think they could face the same if they get married.

4. No wife material The common notion among most men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria. In this case, they are not referring to ladies not being in quantifiable distribution among men, what they are complaining about is that most ladies of this generation lack the necessary attributes that will qualify them for the lifetime commitment called marriage.

This is because fornication in Nigeria today is like food. You can sit at the comfort of your home and order for a girl online, for all kinds of sexual fantasy. This act scares most guys including ones who patronize these girls.

Cos they'll keep asking that question...who go marry this one?

Make dem close Shiloh girls go dey take every guy serious .

Okay.

People sometimes make it look like being single is a disability. Not everyone in life is meant to eventually find a partner to build a matrimonial home with. These single people exist to put the needed cosmic balance.

There shouldn't be any sort of reasons for why these things are. Five years from today, Candidlady might still be single while a bunch of other ladies get to find love and partners.

So make everybody rest!

There are exceptions though

How did this get to make the front page?

De play

Is he married? If yes he should keep his advice to his children

Zonefree:
Tell these daughters of Eve!

A broke and wretched Nigerian girl with just 2 pants and 3 bras looking for already made man for marriage. Didirin!

Calm down man. You're taking it too far

Ok. This uncle talked deeply. Well. We all v our preference but I also believe in giving love a chance.

R

When women see marriage and divorce as a cash out mechanism. Men see it as a child making ministry with the license to sleep around with every hole they come across...many does not marry because of love and affection any more they marry because of Money and wealth

Trash!! Who made him a soothsayer?

Entitlement Mentality is the primary reason why Nigeria girls are single and will remain single till 2029

Word of the spirit.... Make sense

Veeeery true!! God bless you.

So many have set-standards for the type of person they want to marry. Meanwhile such kind of people will not smell their dreams talk more of crossing their path and they'll only end up miserable.

Others are going for a particular look and shape meanwhile, they don't look presentable by any standard. Them still dey there dey die in loneliness.

Some, like me, are waiting for Angel Gabriel ( perfect man) na here we still dey dey shine eyes like crayfish. Anyways, better to wait for that angel than end up with a demon that most men have become.

In all, I still believe a person should go for what they want "IF" they can get it. Cos I don't subscribe to marrying anyone just because they came for me .

If wetin you want, want you, fine.
If wetin you want no want you, just dey your dey. The worst thing that can happen to anyone is staying with someone you don't LIKE!

Better to be single than be with someone you can't stand his guts. You'll still end up being lonely.

They are single because they weren't prepared to give those who found them any chance.
They are looking for something, something they cannot explain.
Next year will come and go and they are still single males and females.

Hmmmmmm, this is deep!

TheBTCinvestor:
Merry Xmas from my Baby pls Like his photo

We won't like it cos he's not your son. Evidence, DNA prove and family pics pls link to live video or not!

Yes. Most of them are looking for already built homes instead of striving to build a home themselves

TheBTCinvestor:
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Lovely
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God bless her/him for you.

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Merry Christmas Beautiful Angel.
God protect, guide and bless you for your parents as you grow in God's love.

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