Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,213 members, 7,836,033 topics. Date: Tuesday, 21 May 2024 at 07:28 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady (44158 Views)
Lady Calls Out Her Newly Wedded Husband For Deceiving Her Into Marrying Him / My Wife Tricked Into Marrying Her After Discovering She is HIV Positive / My Husband Kidnapped, Raped And Forced Me Into Marrying Him – Woman Tells Court (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by harjay1986: 8:08am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Justbehave: Do you know Adekunle Gold is one |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Airoflaw(m): 8:09am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:then it's dangerous if your brother is AS, but since you said she has giving birth what is the status of the child? |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Psoul(m): 8:11am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: Your brother is a very careless fellow. He told you he was busy to take her wife to be to a lab where they will confirm their blood compatibility. This the most callous man I've seen. Not having time to personally handle what has great effect to his whole life . Now you guys are saying that he was deceived. And come to think of this guy walking away at the point the wife was in danger showed how careless he is. What was he thinking at that point. He wanted to show that he was angry. Silly attitude. If that woman had died (God forbid) his problems would've bn doubled. Let him go back and continue in his already running marriage and sort things out with his lovely wife. And for the woman to know her real genotype and came up with fake result, God will judge her. She is a very wicked soul. She just paused the life of this guy. Too bad. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by olatunji390(m): 8:13am On Jan 24, 2023 |
dochenaj: 75% sir |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by blaise26abj(m): 8:15am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Cutehector: It doesn’t mean I didn’t read . It’s not like he said it in his main write up . I missed where he said so . But even at that I was quite specific that if the guy or any guy is AA they should reconsider especially if there is love involved . Since he is not , my previous statement infers he should not reconsider . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Emeka511(m): 8:15am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Justbehave:We like the fake story oya give us your own... Your head de shake 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by dochenaj: 8:17am On Jan 24, 2023 |
SodiumValproate: You're wrong. AS - AS is 25% AA, 25% SS, and 50% AS AS - AA is 50% AS, 50% AA AS - SS is 50% AS, 50% SS |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by REALretep(m): 8:20am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:This is really sad. Marriage based on deceit 🤦 AS marrying SS 🥺 The marriage cannot stand Now I understand why catholic hospitals take couple tests very serious. They will take a picture of both of you and insist both of you must be present to collect the result. They also ask a number of personal questions too. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by blaise26abj(m): 8:24am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Cutehector: I understand you perfectly and I am speaking from personal experience . It is easy to say that if you haven’t experienced it . Yes you will consider being selfish .please try to understand me . You don’t love people based on their genotype . You love people based on a lot of things other than genotype . Ass, character, beauty , big brezz , money etc . Most times genotype is not what is on the table . Once emotions are involved and you find out , it is usually difficult and painful to leave even for a guy. And most ladies will be so emotionally attached . Sentiments will always be there . Lying about it is bad and knowingly going into it when there are no resources to make guarantee the kids genotype is horrible to the unborn kids that will come and suffer the consequences of the decision . I am not making excuses but I am only telling you it can be a rather complex and hard decision ( atimes irrational ) to make especially when the parties love themselves . Emotion is a powerful thing bro . Have you heard of hiv negative men marrying hiv positive women ? Or a woman from a very wealthy home marrying a struggling guy . Are those rational decisions ? |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by dochenaj: 8:41am On Jan 24, 2023 |
olatunji390:You're the second person that quoted me stating that it is 75%. I don't know how you both could have gotten it wrong. Now let me explain it to you. So the SS person has both genes mutated while the AS has just a single gene mutated. What that means is that the AS person could either give their A or S gene to the child while the S person will always give an S gene. When the carrier gives an A gene the child is AS and when the carrier gives an S gene the child is SS. You see there are only two equal probabilities either an AS or SS depending on which gene the carrier of the mutated gene gives to the child. Hence the 50% chance of an AS or 50% chance of an SS. Anyone who says otherwise is wrong. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Tallesty1(m): 8:43am On Jan 24, 2023 |
osazsky:I think the real issue is not her genotype but the deception 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Exceed15: 8:53am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Being SS is not an evil thing but faking the result is totally a huge mistake on her part. I can marry an SS if she told me from onset because some manages so we'll you wouldn't detect. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by jerry1234567890(m): 8:54am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Men if ur brother genotype is AA wat is wrong to marry her as SS. no problem der |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by diegwu02: 9:01am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deception part should be the problem. The Wife is SS and the husband didn't know for 2 years, this only tells that the wife isn't the sickly SS and is quite healthy. The marriage can stand if the Hubby forgives the deception. They could be lucky and all have all healthy kids who would grow and make them proud. The man could also leave his wife and marry an AAAA who would give him heart attack in 6 months or develop cancer or they both give birth to armed robbers. there is no formula to things like this. Its always the Grace of God that keeps one through |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Osek(m): 9:15am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:It's better he divorce her but why didn't he take a personal test with her before concluding with the marriage 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Solocoin: 9:21am On Jan 24, 2023 |
But I'm surprised to hear she's an SS but she didn't sick constantly. Your brother should continue with his busyness as he was busy to go and run a test that is as important and anything important. Who is he planning to left her to? Let him take her back of her own SS is not the sicking type. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by delishpot: 9:29am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Paulheyman: I have been thinking of this. Can you educate me more on the symptoms AS people might have? Cos I have been arguing with people that AS genotype people can exhibit SS crisis but they all say nah. That AS are only carriers who dont show symotom. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Chee59(f): 9:40am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Go through the comments and see why an SS lady will forge a medical test result just to get married even if she knows the truth will be out in the open one day. Sickle Cell Disorder is the number 1 genetic disorder in the world. You'd think that as common as it is, the Nigerian society would have found a way to accommodate and accept Sickle Cell warriors for who they are but no. Utter stigmatisation, discrimination even from supposedly educated folks trail any reveal of one's health status. Go through the comments and tell me if a sickle Cell warrior stands any chance of finding love in Nigeria. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Creamypie(m): 9:44am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Germi9:the one for this story, he's AS. But an AA can marry anybody at all 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Creamypie(m): 9:49am On Jan 24, 2023 |
delishpot:its recessive trait in them. Its when they combine with another AS, it stands a complete chance of being dominant in SS kid |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by delishpot: 9:53am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Creamypie: Thanks 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Isabi4lov: 9:54am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Justbehave:Abi o , there's no way you won't know a sickler, I lost two of my classmates to sickle cell disease. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by MrDoGood(m): 10:00am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: If your brother is AA, no problem. If he's AS... Hmmmmmmm Otilo oh |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Creamypie(m): 10:02am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Chee59:they can and do find love, bro. The comments you see on this topic are primarily against not being truthful about the health status at the beginning |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Offpointng: 10:08am On Jan 24, 2023 |
weslay: Have you also considered the fact that she can die at any time |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by enonche85(m): 10:13am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Creamypie: any SS lady that tricks a guy into marrying her is self centered and wicked. She didn't even think of how the unborn kids will surfer, na love matter to her the most. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by GentlePEACE: 10:13am On Jan 24, 2023 |
weslay: You are right, what about his feelings of deceit. How can she hide such from him I remember my wife telling me a top secret even before she visited me for the first time, so there was no ish when i discovered myself. Trust is very key in a marriage |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by homesteady(m): 10:27am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Olmat: God bless your home. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by homesteady(m): 10:30am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Amayabor1: So SS people shouldn’t get married? |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by biggz82: 10:40am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Don't let you brother deceive you, he is fully aware of the wife SS status. He should tell you guys the truth why he wants to leave the marriage |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Amayabor1: 10:48am On Jan 24, 2023 |
homesteady: They can but they should not hide their genotype status from their partners. With the knowledge, it is left for their partners to decide whether to marry them or leave the relationship. A partner who is aware that his/her wife or husband is SS will be well equipped to weather the storm when health challenges arise in the marriage than one who learnt of his wife's genotype after wedding. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by achimendy(m): 10:57am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Shalommy: Mad woman. |
(1) (2) (3) ... (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) (Reply)
My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him / Muslim Woman Supports Man's Orgasm Over Female Orgasm - Photo / We Have Stronger Women And Weaker Men Now!!
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 64 |