I am Tolu, the daughter of Mrs and Mrs Adekola. My parents quarrel a lot, and it's affecting me. I can't even remember the last time they had a peaceful conversation. It's like they're always looking for an opportunity to argue about something.

It all started a few years ago when they lost their jobs. They started to struggle financially, and that's when the arguments began. They would argue about money, and it would escalate into a full-blown fight. I've tried to talk to them, but they won't listen. They're always too angry to listen to anything I have to say.

It's affecting my grades at school, and I feel so confused all the time. I don't know what to do or who to talk to. Sometimes, I feel like it's my fault, like I'm not good enough for them to stop fighting. But deep down, I know that's not true.

I came across an article [url]https://topteenmag.xyz/dealing-with-parents-that-quarrels-a-lot-as-a-young-adult/ [/url] that sort of helped me to balance this, but am welcome to more suggestions that are not covered in the article from top teen mag.

(from one of our teenagers)