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Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Deepspirituals: 6:10am On Jun 17, 2023
She doesn't talk to me with Respect, She addresses me as if she is talking to her junior brother or a Baby.

She gets so Mad over trivial Issues.
She would pick on every matters that has no weight, matters that needed to be avoided and Ignored.

Even when she started Nagging from Morning till Night she wouldn't listen to you when you try to calm her down.. It's Okay, Honey stop saying the same thing over and over and over again Plz. She would flare up again and Yell at you.

You will be Surprised that the Next day she would calm down and starts to Apologise for her outburst.

Some ladies as recounted by some other men
" They say even when they do the worst, They would argue throught the day, telling you that they are right, They never go wrong, Never, you would even be shocked how a Lady would be proving she is right in a Circumstances that it's obvious she is wrong.

Honey... This Attitude is Wrong, Dear.. You are the one that doesn't know what you are doing or Saying.. You are Wrong, Very Wrong..
That is a Statements from a Wife. Before you know it, she has resulted To Laying Of Serious Curses.

Some Psychologist says that It could be that something is bodering the Lady.

The Man must have offended the Lady in a way and she is bittered, reason she is acting in such Manner.

The Man ought to call her, With Love and Passion ,he should talk to her asking if he has offended her so they could get over it..

But Alas! Some Men say they did this severally but yet wife could not point to any reason for acting in such unruly Manner ,some mostly would not find anything wrong about there Outburst .

Another Psychologist mention that it could be money issue, Maybe Husband have not being Doing the Needful, Performing His Responsibilities,Wife had to Work to fend for herself, how would you expect such Woman to respect a Man like that. A Man that Fails to Perform his Responsibility does not Earns the Respect Of a Woman.

Some Men sleep around, Abandon there wife at home, some Men take care of other women outside while they make there wife suffers etc

Well there are Men that say the Opposite.
Some mention there is Absolutely nothing that there wife lacks, They try as much as possible to make them Happy Provide for there needs,
Caring, loving but they just can't Understand this strange attitudes of Occasional Arrogance, Uncontrollable Madness, very long time Nagging, Disrespect, Shoutings and Unruly Behaviour. Agreed There could be mood Swings, But this should not be that Bad To the extent that Husband wouldn't be listened to when He tries to calm his wife down..

So Many Marriages are heading towards the Rock because of this.
It's a situation of Frequents Journey from the Registry To Court for Divorce.

SOME MEN WHO WERE ALREADY FRUSTRATED BY THESE STRANGE ATTITUDES OF WIFE CLAIMED THEY DECIDED TO GO SPIRITUAL AND THEY CLAIMED THEY HEARD IT'S SPIRITUAL PROBLEM. OGBANJE, MARINE PROBLEMS, SPIRITUALS HUSBAND BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR MANIPULATING WIFE TO BEHAVE STRANGE SO THERE WON'T BE PEACE IN THE HOME.

SPIRITUAL HUSBAND BEING SO JEALOUS OF THE EARTHLY HUSBAND ETC.

EVERYONE WITH HIS OR HER OPINION AND DIVERGENTS VIEWS, NO ONE IS JUDGING OR CONDEMING ANY ONE.

Honestly, it's Quite Sickening that a Man Closes from Work, He has to stay back in his Office or look for somewhere to hand around, Wait till Wife Sleeps before he embarks on going home ...He does not Wants to go through the Stress of the Above Mentioned after an Hectic Day

WHAT IS YOUR TAKE ON THIS ?

LET US LEARN MORE.
I REMAIN SPIRITUALIST ADE
Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by TsbAfrica: 6:44am On Jun 17, 2023
A woman will only disrespect you when her expectations does not meet up with reality.

Men try to understand women with the mindset of men and that is why we focus on logic but women are not wired to be logical they respond with feelings, emotions... If you want to take control of a woman's life begin to design her feelings and take control of her emotions. As a man, use your logical ability to plan her feelings. Another thing is men try to be everything he thinks (logic) she wants, .....her father, her friend, her brother, her lover and in so doing you become her boredom, you become predictable and predictable is stable but booooooring AF. Women, being emotional beings love the thrill of adventure that is why you can find a girl who will take off from Kano to visit a man she never met in Lagos. No logic at all ! Just emotions. In conclusion-ish especially to young men out there, you need to realize that a woman is an addition to your life and she should not be your whole life. Know exactly what you want and let her know you are the captain of your ship, if she is willing to comply to your life then she is welcome but if she doesn't fit, dust yourself up and step on. Today many men have lost it all becasue we have been programmed to be a certain way that is totally advantageous to the female gender. You need to realize it is all programming. True love only exist in your imagination and expectations... The reality is every relationship is transactional, you are recieving simply based on the fact that you are giving and this cuts across all forms of relationship, if you begin to feed a wild bird, it will begin to get closer, if you begin to take care of a plant it will grow up well. If you stop it all stops. Even your family, they love you based on particular reasons if those reasons stop to exist you will be amazed what will happen.

Women have emotional intelligence... Men don't even know it exists. Our only saving grace is that logic trumps emotions anyday.

Work on you, become a man with status, and then you can pick any type of woman you desire and she will conform even if she knows she is just a side chick.... Case in point is our very own "portable" .. who despite looking like a mop, can easily sleep with as many women as he wants ... And there you have it... Become somebody so that a woman's expectations can be met and thereby your desires can be fulfilled.

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Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by fortunateme: 6:45am On Jun 17, 2023
Only men love as gods that we are just like our father but women only respect those that can provide. They're transactional and incapable of lovin'unconditionally. The earlier men know this the less simping we'll see.

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Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Oluromantic: 7:17am On Jun 17, 2023
Every home has it's issues. The bone of contention is sometimes the man and other times the woman.

I however remember the answer a wealthy music performer once gave in an interview when he was asked how his marriage could last despite the numerous number of women flooding over him. He said he's rising with ease because his wife is at peace with herself.

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Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Deepspirituals: 7:22am On Jun 17, 2023
TsbAfrica:
A woman will only disrespect you when her expectations does not meet up with reality.

Men try to understand women with the mindset of men and that is why we focus on logic but women are not wired to be logical they respond with feelings, emotions... If you want to take control of a woman's life begin to design her feelings and take control of her emotions. As a man, use your logical ability to plan her feelings. Another thing is men try to be everything he thinks (logic) she wants, .....her father, her friend, her brother, her lover and in so doing you become her boredom, you become predictable and predictable is stable but booooooring AF. Women, being emotional beings love the thrill of adventure that is why you can find a girl who will take off from Kano to visit a man she never met in Lagos. No logic at all ! Just emotions. In conclusion-ish especially to young men out there, you need to realize that a woman is an addition to your life and she should not be your whole life. Know exactly what you want and let her know you are the captain of your ship, if she is willing to comply to your life then she is welcome but if she doesn't fit, dust yourself up and step on. Today many men have lost it all becasue we have been programmed to be a certain way that is totally advantageous to the female gender. You need to realize it is all programming. True love only exist in your imagination and expectations... The reality is every relationship is transactional, you are recieving simply based on the fact that you are giving and this cuts across all forms of relationship, if you begin to feed a wild bird, it will begin to get closer, if you begin to take care of a plant it will grow up well. If you stop it all stops. Even your family, they love you based on particular reasons if those reasons stop to exist you will be amazed what will happen.

Women have emotional intelligence... Men don't even know it exists. Our only saving grace is that logic trumps emotions anyday.

Work on you, become a man with status, and then you can pick any type of woman you desire and she will conform even if she knows she is just a side chick.... Case in point is our very own "portable" .. who despite looking like a mop, can easily sleep with as many women as he wants ... And there you have it... Become somebody so that a woman's expectations can be met and thereby your desires can be fulfilled.
Points...
Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Deepspirituals: 7:23am On Jun 17, 2023
fortunateme:
Only men love as gods that we are just like our father but women only respect those that can provide. They're transactional and incapable of lovin'unconditionally. The earlier men know this the less simping we'll see.


women only respect those that can provide Hmm!
Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Mimicle101: 1:02pm On Jun 17, 2023
fortunateme:
Only men love as gods that we are just like our father but women only respect those that can provide. They're transactional and incapable of lovin'unconditionally. The earlier men know this the less simping we'll see.

Spot On!

I wish i new these earlier I would never have expected so much from her
Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Love800(m): 8:46pm On Jun 17, 2023
Mind my business
Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Stevenbright(m): 9:01pm On Jun 17, 2023
Another reason could be that the woman is regretting marrying her husband because she now thinks she deserves better, like they mostly say.

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Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Deepspirituals: 6:12pm On Jun 18, 2023
Stevenbright:
Another reason could be that the woman is regretting marrying her husband because she now thinks she deserves better, like they mostly say.
Meaning She Doesn't Marry him for Love undecided

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Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Deepspirituals: 12:48am On Jun 20, 2023
Realities..

May God Help All Union.
Re: Family... Do You Experience These In Your Home.What Are The Realities ? by Deepspirituals: 10:24am On Jul 28, 2023
Patients and Endurance

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