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I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Tayorshd87: 4:05pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
From a friend though Am the last born in my family and there are too many ups and downs and wahala in my family because it was a polygamous home and my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father 😭😢 So how I wish I should start my life with my own fresh lineage from my wife and children. Like I don't want to be part of the father tree again. I gave birth 3days ago and I don't want my son to bear my surname 🤔 I want my own name to be his surname so my father lineage will be cut off ☹️ Please is there any future implications in this decision? Or rather something bad behind this decision?? Thanks 😌 28 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Mophor: 4:08pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Sighs! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Kobojunkie: 4:08pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Tayorshd87:I believe all that is required is that you write your name on his birth certificate and then indicate the first name and last name (include any other names if necessary) you wish for him to bear right there in the same certificate? 135 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by talented321: 4:13pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
The kind things some men dey think sef'' wetin concern my father concern my precious kid. Your father did mistake u don't like fine, now it is left for u correct those mistakes in ur time. Oga stop been too emotional abeg Use whatever name u like it is ur son. 230 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
There is no problem about that Let him bear your name 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by adamma24: 4:18pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
There are many people using their father first name as their surname...e plenty for naija here....so no biggy.. 80 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Zupay: 4:20pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
No implication. I know someone whose children bear his native name as their surname as he said he wants his own surname to end with him and his children bear his own name, 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Candidlady: 4:20pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Hmmm The fruit doesn't fall far from the tree... my father was one of the man I mistakenly ever met on earth and unlucky for me he is my father Don't know why ifind this so funny...... You don't wanna have anything to do with your father.. and you have a son now... Ijust pray your son doesn't choose same path!!! 81 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Ahmed0336(m): 4:31pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
My kids are using my name and heaven didn't fall I believe you can do same 72 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Rhassidy360: 4:36pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
There’s no implication my bro na u know wetin ur eyes de see you should have just moved on jeje Li some people go just de give u some funny details here way go de make u feel Bad. Abeg move on my bro God bless your son. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by budaatum: 4:38pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
In fact it was tradition in Yoruba culture for sons to bear their own names until Christianity brought us surnames. All my great-grandfathers' siblings surnamed their first names. 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by matrixme(m): 4:58pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
My father and my God, may I never be such a deadbeat father that my children will decide to crop my name from his lineage. May such lot not be my portion in life in Jesus mighty name. Amen!!! 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Anfieldboss: 5:02pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Oga stop worrying yourself. Only me and my wife are bearing my last name. My daughter is bearing my first name as her last name. There is nothing absolutely wrong with what you intend to do. 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Exmilitant(m): 5:05pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
If you want to begin a new chapter with your kids fine but have in mind that one of them must take after your hated father. I have a British friend who boast of their family name. He said the name have been in the family for 600 years. And I believe there must have been scoundrels and all sorts along the line in the family but none of them planned to changed that name anytime soon. OP, I hope you don't plan to call him, Samuel Peter or Francis Emmanuel or Philip Paul? Abeg we be Africans o. 42 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by ImaIma1(f): 6:08pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
First step to complicating your child's life... 1. Make his surname different from yours. When you face challenges later in life because of this, you will reminder the day you changed it and regret. 14 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by fineboynl(m): 7:47pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Nothing wrong. Ur surname is not even ur father name. And if you investigate you will not even know where rhe name comes from. I have met alot of people who surname are English especially in south south and south east. Example goodluck Jonathan. 12 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Hypnotise: 9:00pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
People rejoice when a boy is born because of the continuity of the lineage. A man should not change surname just like that because of history attached to it. You don’t like your father, fine be a better father to your children but the lineage should continue 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by frozen70(f): 9:50pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Tayorshd87: You have every right to name your child or children any of your three known names It has no documental implications It has no family implications Its your choice to do so, so far your wife is consented to that So go ahead and name your children surname to be any of your documented name As a matter of fact, they can bear your two other names as a compound name, excluding your surname Assuming you are Mr Kojo Peter efe They can bear Peter Efe They can bear Peter They can bear Efe It will be idle if your wife bears same with your children 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by extremelygolden: 11:12pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Tayorshd87: My brother woke up one day with a question. He asked us who will bear his father's name if all of us including his future children keep bearing our family surname, which was the name of our paternal grandfather. He was also a polygamist Here and there, the young man made up his mind and changed his surname to our father's direct native name. Some siblings joined him in changing theirs as well, but I maintained the family surname because I know that as soon as I get married, I will change all. Unless by facial resemblance, otherwise if you visit us and we decide to introduce ourselves by our full names, you might begin to wonder why we all are bearing different surnames. So do what makes you comfortable. And if it requires change of name in the dailies, you can go ahead with a classified advert. But try to be discrete about it for the time being. 8 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by OKOATA(m): 11:54pm On Jul 25, 2023 |
Your story reminds me of me, infact I just changed my 6 year old daughters surname to mine. I firstly went to a Health center and paid 1k for it. Thereafter went to her school and changed her name on the school portal. Paid 5k for the change of name through the court issuing an avidavit. Since yours is still young you won't need all that stress. I had to do what I did cos my own dad was involved in my divorce and was even the one that hired a lawyer for mu ex all in the bid to take my daughter away from me. I know I can't change my surname cos of my BVN, passport and the likes but it's what it is. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by poshestmina(f): 1:55am On Jul 26, 2023 |
No implications whatsoever . We don't know the meaning of our surname,no tangible meaning has being given till date . All those NigerDelta "foreign" names,so my brothers are using my Dad's first name as their children's surname. Just change it on all necessary documents and get a court affidavit. Treat to forgive your dad ,so you kid(s) don't inherit unforgiving and bitter spirits from you. 7 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Lance008(m): 6:42am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Very possible Am planning same Am starting a new family I can't bear my enemy name 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Lance008(m): 6:44am On Jul 26, 2023 |
OKOATA:Old men of nowadays Dey on kolos🤣🤣🤣🤣 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by OKOATA(m): 7:52am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Lance008:Not really, he feels he's evil. But what's waiting for him will be worse, he even sent my mom out of the house they built together cos he had the house documents and sold the house. He will learn soon. 6 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Lance008(m): 1:26pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
OKOATA:Make he learn to be honest Their own don too much |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by MorataFC: 3:01pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Wonder |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by slawomir: 3:01pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Damnnn niggar I understand Your lineages is some how broke If not you won't be saying this No matter what we do not cut off our ancestors Even that little boy from extraction 2 movie was still loyal to the family of his father ( the naggazi) 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by Dimaya: 3:01pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
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Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by iCauseTrouble: 3:02pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Yes. It is possible. You can use your first name as his new surname. I know a lot of people that did this. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want My Son To Bear My Surname. Could This Be Possible? by OboOlora(f): 3:02pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Pray to be poor and dependent on your wife and her father, then you can adopt her surname and ur son can also. Since you don’t want to have sense and shame 6 Likes |
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