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A Nigerian Mum of four has died after allegedly being subjected to domestic violence for years, Reports.

A Facebook User, Amarachi Iwuala, who shared the sad story, As Sighted By , alleged that the husband of the deceased over the years subjected her to domestic abuse. She said the husband one time, allegedly beat the wife until she became unconscious.

Amarachi said when advised to leave her marriage, the deceased who was nursing a seven-month-old baby, said she would walk away when her children were grown as they were still little. She said the mother of the deceased even asked her to walk away from the marriage, but she also refused.



Posting On Facebook, Amarachi Wrote;



‘’Another woman gone.

She was married to a man who was viôlent towards her. Not just viôlent, he would lock doors and windows, raise music volume, and then start béating her, so that help won't come for her.

One day he béat her till she was unconscious, the whole compound joined in rushing her to the hospital. After treatment, she came back to the same house.

People advised her to leave, she said her children were still little, she wanted them to grow a bit before she leaves. She wanted them to grow yet she was giving birth to more. She had four children, the last one is just 7 months old.

Two weeks ago, an old woman living in their compound called this lady's mother, asking her to come take her daughter if they still want her alive. The mother replied that the lady said she's not leaving.

This is why it's good to have some weyrey as a mother. Even if she doesn't want to leave, use vawulence and bring her out by force. O dighi apu àra.

Back to the story. Two days ago, that is Thursday 2nd November 2023, they woke up in the morning to hear the man béating the woman as usual.

After the béating, normal life continued. They said that night, the lady went about her normal chores, she stayed up till 11pm wasting and hanging cloths. Neighbors saw her.

They all woke up yesterday morning only to hear that the lady is déad. How?

The husband is saying he slept in the sitting room while she slept in the bedroom, that he only entered the room in the morning and found her dead.

Neighbors said her bed was soaked with water though, and there's still no explanation for that.

The husband is saying she should be buried immediately as he doesn't have money to pay mortuary bills.

The sad part, her father heard the news and had a heart attack, she was his only daughter. He was rushed to hospital, but news has it that he didn't make it.

Her 7month old baby cried the whole day and refused to eat every food that was offered her, she was looking for breast milk. She cried till she started running temperature.

See how many lives have been affected by her choices.

Four children rendered motherless. Only God knows what their fate will be, they'll probably be shared amongst relatives who may/may not treat them well.

I know all these because we have a mutual friend who was at their place yesterday to get first hand info. She was crying bitterly on phone while speaking to me, I told her to stop crying, the lady chose this.

The husband cannot even be held responsible. Police came, asked him questions and left.

We keep writing daily for women to learn, but some are determined to waste their lives.

Someone in an abûsive marriage will read this post and say "it's not my portion", and keep staying in the marriage.

Like I'll always say, we can't help everybody. Keep staying, keep waiting for your children to grow up, keep thinking of what society will say, keep thinking of how you'll survive, keep thinking if you'll find another man, keep thinking the children need a father, keep hoping he'll change. Just keep at it, since you have no value for the life you have.''

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So painful

Sad, I don't think I can tolerate such thing from anyone for six months, I so much cherish my peace of mind

This is why it is extremely important for people to pay adequate attention during courtship.

Nobody can torment me

No shame in divorce

Why stay with someone who smacks you in anger

LUGBE:
So painful

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There are even bruises allover her from the pics above, yet smiling. I'm sure she's a Christian.
Their God of men would've kept advising her to remain in the physically abusive marriage quoting this and that yet can't stand their own cheating partners for a day.

A Christian should be allowed to leave any marriage that has become physically abusive. Stop pushing these young women to their early graves and leaving their children motherless.

If e don reach physical abuse run ooo

Ipob men has done it yet again. If their women are not beating their maids to death, the men are taking on their women. Is this a sign of Economic hardship??

It really baffles me when they comment as tho only SW is affected by the Economy and the SE is matching Dubai in every Ramifications. Nansense

See what just got wasted

It's just a complicated matter sometimes. Some abusive marriage latter became beautiful at the end. My pastor told us today how his sister fought for her marriage. At some point it was truly an abusive marriage that the man even beat her while she was pregnant and almost lost the baby. Fast forward, latter she became born again and so did her husband. They are now living peacefully ever after.
It's a gamble so decide how to play it.

When a woman stays in an abusive marriage I want to believe there is a reason why she remains there which she makes her priority
Women are loyal to their feelings
R.I.P to the dead

Always walk away once a man lays his hands on u more than once. Always

Beat up my sister we go come your house give you serious flogging

If you are tired of the marriage send her home

I have seen a man beat up his 6-month pregnant wife till she became unconscious and lost her baby.

Thereafter, the parents and pastor came for reconciliation and convinced her to remain in the marriage, that "God had intervened against the devil"!

Many of you parents, church leaders, friends and peers will all suffer ànd burn in hell for encouraging women to remain in abusive marriages. Bastards!!!

The husband will have a lot of explaining to do when he meets his creator.
RIP to her.

Bad bad news on a daily basis

At least she died as a Mrs.

It's not easy to achieve the greatest title
in Nigeria.

Only the dead Nigerian married woman gets the society's sympathy.

Hmmm. Don't ever let a disagreement deteriorate to this extent. Sorry, please, thank you will help avert this. But claiming right is usually a problem.
If you must claim right, claim it from a safe place. It is well.

Imagine

Marriage is a good thing, forget what anyone is telling you about it.
The issues of marriage arises based on the two-individuals involved, not because marriage is bad but because the two people sail it without agreement.
I am Right, you are Wrong is the sole problem of the World of humans.

jaxxy:
Always walk away once a man lays his hands on u more than once.

Most of them won't
That's why I don't stress too much about women

GreatAchiever1:
The husband will have a lot of explaining to do when he meets his creator.
RIP to her.

If she were kith and kin, he will be explaining to me in chains before we send him forth to his creator.


I don't like nonsense.

Our African mother need to change their ways of thinking, they'll be forcing you to remain in abusive relationship just because of African believes that divorce is bad, now see the result.

When will partners learn that there is no harm on walking away from a marriage when it involves life threatening situations.


Nigerians need to start learning this
We need to start drumming these into our children
Our religion leaders need to start preaching all these

Marriage isn't a do or die affair.... Successful co parenting is also allowed

These are not the old century days

We need to wake up

Waiting for the kids to grow without family planning, now her dad is dead,her baby rendered homeless and fatherless because that devil can't be a father 😡😡😡😡😡, Nigeria police and ojoro leaving the bastard to go Scot free she doesn't have self love, she was thinking about people's opinions, now she is dead and people are still talking... now look at the burden she has placed in her family now because of her the mum is so heartbroken,who will comfort her, the family isn't harsh because this kind man na to arrange boys commot things for him body make him sef see the death, because I no understand wetin the idiot dey live for, May their souls rest in peace 🙏🙏🙏

maxiuc:


Beat up my sister we go come your house give you serious flogging

If you are tired of the marriage send her home

A married cousin of mine's husband slapped her once and manhandled her...!

I didn't need to go there... A phone call was enough.

He hasn't dared lay a finger on his wife since then... We are talking 6 years and counting.

No jokes!!!

ogascomax:
It's just a complicated matter sometimes. Some abusive marriage latter became beautiful at the end. My pastor told us today how his sister fought for her marriage. At some point it was truly an abusive marriage that the man even beat her while she was pregnant and almost lost the baby. Fast forward, latter she became born again and so did her husband. They are now living peacefully ever after.
It's a gamble so decide how to play it.

How some of you have access to the Internet baffles me.