| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by VULCAN(m): 10:57pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Finished reading this and I'm having trouble understanding where you stand. Do you agree with the post or disagree? Or are you on the fence? Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him
Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by IbroMaka(m): 10:59pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. Your story is a little far fetched.... A banker going for his wedding and resuming work next working day  .. that's crap.... I've been a baker for 13years and I've never witnessed any of my erswhile colleagues spend less than a week at home after their wedding. It's even unethical to remain at work during ur wedding period 7 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Aplaudez(m): 11:00pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.
For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.
The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.
Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.
Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.
Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother. God bless you for this 🙏 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by edunaragold(f): 11:00pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.
For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.
The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.
Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.
Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.
Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother. . That is same reason I can't let a woman be in charge of my marriage,it's better we separate. you are the type we men needed to moltivate us,I second your motion brother,may God bless u 5 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by IbroMaka(m): 11:01pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:
Go abroad and see how you fellow Nigerian brothers are abandoned left and right before of that particular reason.  Are we talking abroad here This is common in Naija 3 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Ofodirinwa: 11:03pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. Her and you brother are having high anxiety. This is normal. couples will fight, they will fight everyone around them. If I were you, dont get involved because they will reconcile and stuggle to forgive you. They're fine. This is very normal 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Kobojunkie: 11:05pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
IbroMaka:
■ Are we talking abroad here
■ This is common in Naija Your claim was that women do not consider character, was it not?  2. Contrary to what you may like to believe there are equally women in Nigeria who reject men on grounds of bad character just as the other described. So many even right there in Nigeria hand girls who would rather double date on them than settle for them because of that same reason. |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by ozo13(m): 11:07pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Villa12:
I know a man earning close to 2M monthly. He is 41 and still searching for a wife. Most girls only date him but doesn't want to marry him. The girl he sent to school (polytechnic) still dump him for a guy that earn less than him
Did you know Why? His character. If you doubt me, you can send me a DM and i will take you to meet the guy. This is someone that is doing pretty fine for himself but still struggling to get a wife. I only know about men struggling financially having issues getting a wife. I was surprised to see someone doing fine having same issue character as how sir |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by lendahand(m): 11:07pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.
For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.
The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.
Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.
Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.
Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother. senior man... 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Kobojunkie: 11:08pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
ozo13:
character as how sir You don't know what character means? |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Tinyemeka(m): 11:11pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. If he had considered the wedding to be a significant event that was worth being given priority, he ought to have planned ahead and applied for his annual leave. 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by erico2k2(m): 11:11pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. She is selfish, if today your brother loses his JOB, she will leave the marriage ASAP.Tell you brother to go to work, if she dont like it she can do one! 3 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by erico2k2(m): 11:12pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Tinyemeka:
If he had considered the wedding to be a significant event that was worth being given priority, he ought to have planned ahead and applied for his annual leave. Over hime going to earn the daily bread? NAh,good luck to yah men in this school of thought |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Joshmuch: 11:13pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Tayorshd87:
YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️ Eh yah. Why life no balance at at times? 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Ibime(m): 11:13pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
henrimoto:
Where is your brother's current location ?
Can't your brother make arrangements to hand-over the vault keys to the bank management. ?
The lady is already doubting the marriage. In her mind, she is like, "is this what I will face in this marriage?" No Attention! You be man or woman? Man get work, you dey relate to frivolous talks. The woman is selfish 2 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by ManOfSon: 11:14pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Whether or not she eventually cancels it, this putative marriage is already, off the bat, compromised. Your family may be calculating what effort is already wasted, but believe me, if it starts this way then it's a bottomless pit of b4454it. 2 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by BarrElChapo(m): 11:15pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. That in it self is a red flag that your brother has ignored, imagine not being able to compromise from the beginning. 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Omoawoke2(m): 11:20pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
henrimoto:
Where is your brother's current location ?
Can't your brother make arrangements to hand-over the vault keys to the bank management. ?
The lady is already doubting the marriage. In her mind, she is like, "is this what I will face in this marriage?" No Attention! I surprise oo, brother didn’t go on leave. Bank work whey no send you, they can wake up one day and dump you. I think one’s personal life is far more important than one useless bank work 3 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by toprealman: 11:32pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. Your brother is a lucky man. She showed her true colour very early. His call, very easy one by the way. 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by carls003(m): 11:42pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
Is she pregnant? Women homones can be funny atimes, especially during pregnancy and menstruation. Ur brother has a very valid reason from every point of view. 2 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by JASONjnr(m): 11:46pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
My brother is in Onitsha and he is the second in Hierarchy in their branch, if it's possible it wouldn't be a problem. If your brother, by any chance, loses his job, that woman will still divorce him. 5hat job is what he will use to feed her and his unborn children. Never allow a woman to direct your instincts away from what you don't want to do. It's about interest. Her interest isn't superior. If she threatens to call off the marriage let your brother tell her how much he has spent so far and let her prepare to make returns. Tell your brother never to lose his guards down for a woman to ride on. Stay on your job. There are millions of women out there that will jump on your brother to marry him. 3 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Marshalltown001(m): 11:51pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. if she want to cancel she should go ahead….ur brother should rest a faithful woman who don’t have double Intention would never threaten her husband for such thing 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Swiftgrp: 11:59pm On Nov 17, 2023 |
nairagenone:
Baba I dey feel you, I was almost at your stage but God just favoured me.
Na so I jam a sweet 27 year old virgin babe, with perfect shape and all.
I couldn't believe my luck, she con be SU join, just what I ever dreamt of.
As someone who has lived in multiple continents and dated all races, when you see my fiance you'd think she jazzed me cos the class difference and every other aspect is so wide.
But I love it like that, men are supposed to marry down so has to be able to earn respect from their wives naturally.
If you check this op brother, he either married his own level/class or a woman earning same as him or more.
When they tell you age long truths that as a man, you must marry down to have peace in your own home some of you will think they are talking rubbish. |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Swiftgrp: 12:07am On Nov 18, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. She's either the clingy type based on her love language or she's being self-centered and has no knowledge how the real world works. A man's supposed to go out there and get his job done. Period. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by InvertedHammer: 12:07am On Nov 18, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. / Only marry ladies who have been praying, fasting and going to churches for husband una no go hear  This one still gets option(s) and must be avoided at all costs. / 5 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Geenosko: 12:12am On Nov 18, 2023 |
Please let her cancel it since she wants to unreasonable. 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Beolly(m): 12:15am On Nov 18, 2023 |
dominique:
Who gets married on saturday and goes off to work on Monday? He should have applied for leave around the time of the wedding so he can spend time with his wife as newlyweds I know you ladies will come here and defend your Bender's decision. Why will she issue a command like that? 1 Like |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Archworld(m): 12:16am On Nov 18, 2023 |
henrimoto:
Where is your brother's current location ?
Can't your brother make arrangements to hand-over the vault keys to the bank management. ?
The lady is already doubting the marriage. In her mind, she is like, "is this what I will face in this marriage?" No Attention! Women always will tell you that they need a man that can provide for them or a wealthy man but forgetting that such men will hardly have time to be with them. I can't risk my job in the name of village meeting or journey that won't put food on my table. And if I have no job, the lady in question won't even think of marrying me in the first place. If I have to take care of you or provide for your needs don't also expect me to be with you 24/7. I must sell my time to make money for the family 3 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by jeromestarks: 12:16am On Nov 18, 2023 |
nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.
For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.
The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.
Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.
Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.
Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother. I promise you brother, if I get to buy a house this year, you will be invited. I don't care where you reside, I will send you t.p to attend the ceremony. 3 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by josephevergreen(m): 12:23am On Nov 18, 2023 |
Tayorshd87:
YES U ARE 100% CORRECT I was also looking for a particular class until I have to choose below my class just to break d curse of my village people of not getting a wife at age 43 😂😆😂
My brother am now a father of two and am happy Abt that just that I didn't marry the kind of spec am willing to and it's giving me a technical issue till date 🙁☹️ If she is giving you peace of mind my brother take good care of her ..she is your wife .see that youe spec ehh they have their own spec too. Shege promax .. 4 Likes |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by Mypeople2(m): 12:24am On Nov 18, 2023 |
galileo180:
Your honest and sincere opinions are highly needed on this.
My brother is about to get married on Sunday and just today, the girlfriend has been threatening to call off the marriage over a little issue. The issue being my brothers' refusal to travel back to our village with her since he needs to be at work on Tuesday, his reason being that there is no movement on Mondays and he is a Banker and needs to be present to open Vault on Tuesday.
Please in your sincere opinion, is my brother wrong and is it a good reason for the girl to threaten him with calling off the event.
Mods please help a brother, please push to front-page as it needs urgent attention. Na small pikin sense dey worry her, please tell her to wake up.Is this an issue? Raising dust when there is none.When she sees problems in marriage, she will know, this one nor be problem.Finally, for threating me, I will travel that Sunday evening |
| Re: About To Cancel A Marriage Scheduled To Hold On Sunday. by 7upnigeria: 12:25am On Nov 18, 2023 |
nairagenone:
A woman is threatening a man that she will cancel the marriage in 2023 and the man is begging ?
Definitely, your brother will wear the skirt through out the life of that marriage.
For the wife to be to threaten him shows she is not into the marriage and marrying him out of pity. He will suffer in that marriage just like the f.ools before him who have enterred into a marriage without exerting authority and respect.
The lady already sees him as a weak and spineless man, what pains me most is the lady may even have body counts in the double digits.
Men, learn from this story, if a woman cannot respect you just like Sarah did to Abraham, dont put yourself in such bondage.
Go to shiloh, countless single women looking fpr husbands, men learn this, you are the prize.
Stop making a fool of yourselves like the OPs brother. Ordinary shake wey the guy shake table, you wan break the table completely. |
