stormborn28:


Always writing rubbish... So OP should cut off his mother from his life because he married a woman abi

Belafonte:


Someone that should be opposite Yaba market collecting treatment

ogawisdom:


You are quite a sensitive man sha because this issue is a very light one to me. She is only saying that you love your mum more so no offense there BC it's normally true & she is probably jealous.

Why should she apologize for stating her observation?

Belafonte:


Is it safe to say he can use her father as comparison in her dealings with him?

For example, "you'd never talk to your father like that"

santaclaws:


Everything depends on the context, that's my point. Definitely if the situation warrants mentioning her dad to drive a point, it doesn't make it an insult.

Had it been she insulted the mother or called her names, I would totally understand, even if he chose to send her packing.

Even the OP couldn't mention any insult, just that he didn't like the fact that she mentioned his mum. Is that enough reason to start keeping malice with your wife It's childish!

ViceGovernor:

Are you a songwriter sir?

Belafonte:


Lol. So when you're angry at your wife over an issue, you'd ask her if she'd treat her father that way in the heat of the moment? Lol okay I believe you sir

santaclaws:


Poor reading comprehension is the reason most of you cannot understand simple things.

It is well with you bro.

Belafonte:


Don't blame my reading comprehension on your hypocrisy bro. You clearly said there's nothing disrespectful about bringing up the OPs mum in an argument. Now i ask for retaliatin and you're asking for context lol. You're just a shameless hypocrite FOH

santaclaws:


It is well with you... 🙏🏾

armyofone:


This is how they start bringing problems where there are none - she did like this or like that or talked like that about my mom ..... grow up mon!

Mom has your dad - your wifey has you - face front.

FRANCISTOWN:

As long as I'm concerned. I feel like my relatives need to stay off my wife's mouth. They are not play things for wordplay.

She can possibly bring about her points without comparisons with my relatives.
It's even wrong for a wife to put herself on the same level with my mom. That's disrespectful.

My wife is my wife for as long as she wants to be my wife but my ma is my ma forever.No one compares sleep to death.

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out. Woman are like that ,u too luck up

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

ogawisdom:


You are quite a sensitive man sha because this issue is a very light one to me. She is only saying that you love your mum more so no offense there BC it's normally true & she is probably jealous.

Why should she apologize for stating her observation?

ogawisdom:


You are quite a sensitive man sha because this issue is a very light one to me. She is only saying that you love your mum more so no offense there BC it's normally true & she is probably jealous.

Why should she apologize for stating her observation?

Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.

So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.

Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.

I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.

After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.

So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.

We have not been in good terms since then,

Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement?

pocohantas:
If you like, make una fight enter street like my neighbours. When e scatter, your body go calm. The rest of us would learn from your case, move on and tolerate our own partners.

ogawisdom:


You are quite a sensitive man sha because this issue is a very light one to me. She is only saying that you love your mum more so no offense there BC it's normally true & she is probably jealous.

Why should she apologize for stating her observation?

FRANCISTOWN:

I'm talking about my wife, not your wife.
Your wife can say whatever she likes to you, or your relatives. That's your cup of tea and it has nothing to do with me.
What I know is, ain't no wife of mine gon' speak to my relative disrespectfully. That's not my world.

dahmie2013:
She didn't insult your mum.

VULCAN:
But does it mean that it is now mostly boys that marry and no longer men?

How can a husband come to social media to type such childishness and be waiting for advice.

No wonder women are losing respect for the male gender daily.

Oga go and study Redpill so you will no longer a victim of manipulation by your wife.

Nonsense

UmmuFarrah:

Finally the comment I was looking for 😂😂

Capernum:


Women hardly apologize.

Oga she has offered you a trait that you must reject immediately. Or else, she will offer you more.

Quickly reject this one and with maturity, demand her to apologize.

Do not eat her food until she apologizes. Be very frank, strong and meek at same time.

Explain to her again that she needs to apologize for a subtle jibe at your mum. Even if you're wrong, let that trait be enforced on her.

Then after her apology, you go ahead and take her on a treat or a surprise gift. Shey you get.

Women have a way of offering you some nonsense.

Weak men swallow it until they become the wives at home.

Acidosis:
When a woman says "had it been it was your mom", "had it been it was your sister", "had it been...", bla bla bla, trust me, she already resents your family.

You don't have to believe me. Just wait for the signs. Don't just demand an apology. An apology would not fix resentment. You have a bigger problem on your hands if you don't handle this carefully and with maturity.