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Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by egorov(m): 8:00pm On Jan 11 |
Valoromega: Highly ridiculous. My wife spent about 300k, and she got most basic things the baby needed. My baby is now 6months and we still use some of those things. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by XOGBADO(m): 8:00pm On Jan 11 |
bigiyaro: It's really pathetic |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by gudugudumeje: 8:01pm On Jan 11 |
@larryUG - I believe you must be out of ur mind to guess a N1million would be what a firs/ baby care set should be for. Obviously you mean to destroy the future for upcoming young couples. And humanity will never forgive you. Nor would you ever stop having recompense and nemesis paying you and your children's children. Except you repent, you will reap inhumanity..... As for the one being extorted by his mother-in-law and his wife, you must stupid to keep mute in the face of such tyranny and extortion.... Stop giving them money. Go to the market and ask the baby product market seller to stuff you average list. Or, a nearby maternity... And give it to her on near D-Day..... Protocol to extortion unbreached.... Then after that baby stop having baby from her.... Period.... Or else, you would fall for remote control and when you are finished you will be deserted and left to rot away.... |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by PastorOku: 8:02pm On Jan 11 |
Manuella4ace: Baby bed is just waste of money. They never sleep on it. My baby prefers the main bedroom which is big enough to accommodate all of us to her baby bed. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by olusamuel01: 8:03pm On Jan 11 |
larryUG: |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by egorov(m): 8:04pm On Jan 11 |
Pecoleee345: I didn't want to reply that guy.manual breast pump is 6-8k. Electric is 12-25k. She stopped using the breast pump at 4months, waste. Baby rocker was 40k, my baby doesn't even like the rocker. That one dey there. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by albert2512: 8:07pm On Jan 11 |
larryUG: If you like, you can spend as much as you wish on baby things, like your case, you can decide to buy gold plated baby bed if you wish but we are talking about basic things and 400k is more than enough. We bought breast pump(12k(check Jumia)) which we never used till date. Even 150-200k can even work for some people. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Akalia(m): 8:08pm On Jan 11 |
Pecoleee345:Don't mind the pedantic fellow. Going by his submission it would seem as though preparing to welcome a baby is only meant for the rich. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Simonsmg: 8:09pm On Jan 11 |
It won’t be bad idea if you go to the market with your wife next time ! She’s your wife . A Good Samaritan should help , final yr university student, have been the one training myself singlehandedly, my condition is very bad at the moment, no food stuffs nothing! Surviving by God’s grace 🙇🙇🙇 2060152871 nothing in small pls , God bless you 🙏 |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Oyithemilkman2: 8:09pm On Jan 11 |
You have to step in and assert your authority unless you have excess money to throw around. Valoromega: |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by BodyCount: 8:10pm On Jan 11 |
1Sharon:Or deh Coming from some they're still feeding... |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by vatiqan(m): 8:10pm On Jan 11 |
Your mother in law is very wicked. My own dry fear me like plague! Just confront both of them |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Hezmatosky: 8:13pm On Jan 11 |
Hmmm you haven't seen anything. Na everyday i dey thank God say i don hang boot In the first place, you have fault. Your first child, you supposed to be more active in running the whole parol. You were given list when you register in the hospital abi? This for the baby, things for the mother shey? And things to be used in the hospital ba? Now see your fault here. You should be closer to your wife at this time more than anyone. Na both of you suppose dey run the package of buying things for the baby, the one you buy you mark, that's the joy there o. Maybe you be Yahoo guy wey no dey stay house, because i wonder wetin her mother dey do for your house when your wife never put to bed. Anyway just focus, leave them. Even the drinks wey you go buy for bobos las las pass the money |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Kdgal(f): 8:13pm On Jan 11 |
Make her write a list of what is remaining to be bought. Then take from there either to give her the money for it or you go with her. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by stevups(m): 8:14pm On Jan 11 |
Valoromega: That mom will scatter your marriage if care is not taken. Active your fighting spirit |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by ibrahim55(m): 8:14pm On Jan 11 |
Request for the list of items needed…buy them your self don’t give her any more money to buy items her self your wife and her mum are definitely diverting the money for some other things |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by otokx(m): 8:15pm On Jan 11 |
larryUG: You don't need any baby bed, they grow so fast. Some of the other things can come later. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Afedotcom(m): 8:15pm On Jan 11 |
No gree for anybody.. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by otokx(m): 8:16pm On Jan 11 |
PastorOku: Wish I was told this earlier, it is just a waste. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by tallfish145(m): 8:17pm On Jan 11 |
larryUG:shut up. Babaolowo |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Aplaudez(m): 8:28pm On Jan 11 |
EriMma1: You seems to know a lot about Balogun market, I work in tradefair can we meet ? |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Acidosis(m): 8:30pm On Jan 11 |
Esthered: No mind me 🤭 I know right. He needs to open up to his wife about the state of his finance. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Prince202020(m): 8:34pm On Jan 11 |
Omo na me and my wife follow go market o, she is also due this month, 150k was enough to get almost all neccessary items including hospital items, clothes wan full one rice bag (including first grade oks and ready made). So 400k is more than enough. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Focusmind: 8:39pm On Jan 11 |
I didn't even spend up to 20k during my own first child. We got all children's things during my wedding. Lots of baby gifts ranging from bed, sets of feeding bottles, cartons of pampers, baby carseater, Player and bicycles. After the birth, those coming to see the new born came with Lots of things. I was at the peak of my banking career then, so office people came with their own loads of baby things, friends, alma matre, church societies and town union. At least, I visited those before me to present gifts to them , so, most came to repay back the gifts I gave them during their's . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by HopeSpencer: 8:46pm On Jan 11 |
larryUG: You mean those that don't even have what they will eat next week are not giving birth? Be deceiving yourself. . |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Yampotatocarrot(m): 8:48pm On Jan 11 |
It's funny how although I'm not married nor expecting, I diligently read through the thread and have learnt a lot about the do's and don'ts of baby shopping, alongside important things to get and things to forgo Seun, thanks for bringing Nairaland back 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by KillahPriest: 8:49pm On Jan 11 |
Valoromega:you're the man of the house, the moment you show any sign of fear that is when women will use you and do mugu. Ask your wife in the presence of her mother what happened to the money you gave her for shopping or if she thinks you're an armed robber abi yahoo boy. Tell her you're not bringing out one single naira again so if she knows where she hid the money you gave her, she should bring it out then walk out without waiting for explanations from any of them |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Ashirioluwa: 8:50pm On Jan 11 |
Don't allow your mother-in-law to take control of your household; you won't like the end result if you do. |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Pweetyccee(f): 8:53pm On Jan 11 |
Your wife and her mum are wicked and greedy. Pls go and get those things your self |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by saphiere(f): 8:53pm On Jan 11 |
XOGBADO:Wow! The economy is so friendly even 50 naira is enough |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by maasoap(m): 8:54pm On Jan 11 |
ppogba:What type of topics would you like people to bring to this forum? Na by force to click on the threads you don't like? Hypocrite |
Re: My Wife And 1 Are Expecting Our First Child And This Is What Is Happening by Esthered: 8:55pm On Jan 11 |
Acidosis:Apt. 1 Like |
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