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Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:47am On Feb 16
Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now?
By Jeannie Ortega Law, Christian Post Reporter Sunday, January 27, 2019


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsa4dzv1g7M
R Kelly gets prayed over by Dione Sanders, Paula White and Carvin Winans, video posted 2014. | Youtube/lifechangingword1

Grammy award-winning R&B star R. Kelly has had multiple allegations against him since the 1990s, but despite the pedophilia and sex cult claims, some in the church embrace the singer and his gospel music.

Early this month, Lifetime aired a six-part documentary series, titled "Surviving R. Kelly," a series detailing sexual abuse and misconduct allegations against the singer. The documentary led to condemnations against Kelly in the mainstream media. The #muteRKelly movement took off, and artists such as Lady Gaga and Nick Cannon apologized for their musical collaborations with him.

The Christian Post wanted to see where all of this leaves Kelly and his longtime passive relationship with the church. The gospel music community has been known to love and support Kelly for his songs, such as "I Believe I Can Fly," Whitney Houston's "I Look to You," Marvin Sapp’s “Listen” and his collaboration with Kirk Franklin on a new version of "Lean on Me"

According to commentator Candice Benbow, Kelly's gospel songs are "commonplace in black congregations" and she thinks the church has turned a “blind eye” to his alleged crimes.

"There are so many black girls and black women who have experienced violation, who look to gospel music and who look to pastors," Benbow said in an NPR article on Jan 12. "If they can't hear their favorite gospel artists or their pastors say 'this is wrong and we have to address it,' then we really have to think about what is the true message of the church and ... of gospel music."

Chris Williamson, senior pastor of Strong Tower Bible Church in Nashville, told The Christian Post that people will have different reactions to Kelly’s allegations. Some will continue to support him, some are not even aware of his gospel roots and others will join the #muteRKelly protest. However, the former Christian rapper turned pastor advised believers to tread lightly.

"We have to leave room for people to make up their own minds. That being said, this may not be the best time for a church to sing an R. Kelly song, or for a gospel artist to collaborate with him. The Bible encourages believers to be mindful of the company we keep," Williamson suggested.

"The church can be a voice by using its pulpits to preach the unwavering truth of the Bible on these kinds of issues, no matter who it might offend. The church cannot be silent any longer. The church can also use its voice to encourage victims of abuse to use theirs. The code of silence that exists in many families (i.e., 'what happens in this house, stays in this house’) must be done away with," he added. “Too many perpetrators are going along unscathed for fear of embarrassment, victim shaming, or retaliation against the abused."

He emphasized that both "the Catholic church and the Protestant church" need to provide a safe haven for the violated to find safety and support, declaring, “We must change the narrative that the church is a place where this kind of foul behavior is quietly tolerated."

DeVon Franklin, a New York Times best-selling author and Hollywood producer, is gearing up to release a book, The Truth About Men, in February that will teach men how to avoid falling into the pitfalls of negative male stereotypes. When asked if he thought men such as R. Kelly could change their alleged wicked ways, he said, "of course."

"I do believe, without a doubt, it can absolutely be done. But it starts with that man being willing to do his work and to admit, 'just because I am who I am, it's not an excuse for me to do what I want. I need accountability and responsibility in my life. And I need to put myself in a process where I don't allow my lower self, that lower man that wants what it wants, when he wants, to ruin and wreck my life,'” Franklin told CP.

Kelly has often made appearances at churches and televised gospel events. In 1997, Kelly took the stage at a Chicago concert alongside his "spiritual mentor," gospel singer Kirk Franklin, and admitted that he had fallen short in his life but is amazed at how God loves him.

"Here stands a broken man. Every day I seem to be falling in love with the Lord. I've come to find out that whatever it is you want, it's in the Lord. I used to be flying in sin — now I'm flying in Jesus," Kelly, who was raised in a Baptist church by a single mom, said.

"I'm a human being who has made mistakes. I struggle like everyone else. I sin, I ask God for forgiveness, and I try to move on and do better."

That night, he also admitted that although fans often ask him to do a gospel record, before doing that, he wants to make sure he could mean what he’s singing about without being a "hypocrite." The crooner is known for interjecting sex and salvation in his music, different songs for different moods.

Gabrielle Jenkins, a licensed minister at Daytona Christian Center, finds it surprising that “the church” has been silent on what's been happening with R. Kelly.

“People have either sided with what the world's perspective of ‘muting’ him is or haven't said anything,” Jenkins shared with CP. “In order to promote God's heart, I really believe that the church should voice how much His heart aches when we are trapped in a life of lust and sexual perversion, but how Christ gives grace to empower us to break all strongholds.”

Jenkins, like the other ministers CP spoke with concerning this issue, holds that Kelly needs to have a “true relationship with God” in order for these strongholds that have followed him for decades to break.

“Should we 'mute' R. Kelly's gospel music? I'm not really sure if that is the answer. R. Kelly needs to see who God really is and that his relationship with Him needs to go beyond the occasional gospel song that he writes. He needs to be held accountable and he needs to be given grace, not one or the other," she continued. "Only 'muting' him is seemingly just an attempt at holding him accountable without showing him the mercy of God."

Pastor Renn Law of Most High King Ministries in Orlando, Florida agreed with Jenkins and believes this issue is "two-fold."

"For one there is the total need for moral accountability and the safety of other children/adult victims," Law explained to CP. "On the other hand, growing up with influential people like Bill Cosby and R. Kelly has its pros and cons. The gifts and talents of God are given without repentance but an unrepentant and spiritually uncircumcised heart can produce all sorts of wickedness as well."

In February 2002, a sex tape surfaced allegedly showing Kelly engaging in sex with a 14-year-old girl, and urinating on her. In June of that year, he was indicted on 21 counts of child pornography in Chicago, yet just days later and after less than a day of deliberations, a jury found Kelly not guilty of 14 out of 14 counts.

Since then, there have also been claims against him for domestic violence and running a sex cult, which is reportedly tearing families apart, but no further legal action has been taken.

The Most High King minister went on to say that he believes both Kelly and his inspirational music have an assignment during these obscure times.

"Withholding inspirational content in a dark world is making room for more darkness and not holding all people accountable for ungodly acts is not justice," Law maintained. "God alone is qualified to make the final determination on all of our lives and what His Church is required to do is provide a sacred sanctuary for all sin-sick people to be healed and redeemed before Christ's return!"

The gospel music community, for the most part, has stayed mum considering all the attention Kelly’s allegations has received in the media. Both his collaborators Kirk Franklin and Marvin Sapp have not spoken out. CP tried to contact both Franklin and Sapp and will update the article with a response upon receipt.

After the "Surviving Kelly" series aired, Kelly was dropped from his record label, Sony Records. Many venues have also canceled his tour dates.

Kelly has vehemently denied all claims against him and says he will sue all the people involved in the documentary.

ChristianPost

Compare the denials here with the ones folks are making with TB Joshua's of this world today. shocked

Now showing on Channel 4: https://www.channel4.com/programmes/surviving-r-kelly
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:52am On Feb 16
Surviving R. Kelly: Bonus


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OeDXSSEf-9k

Survivors Asante McGee, Kitti Jones, Lizzette Martinez, Lisa Van Allen, backup singer Jovante Cunningham, performing artist Sparkle, and ex-wife and survivor of R. Kelly, Andrea Kelly, address R. Kelly directly in this bonus clip from Episode 6 of Surviving R. Kelly, "Black Girls Matter." #SurvivingRKelly
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by Kwaramustgoodag: 4:28am On Feb 16
He will surely have second chance
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:36am On Feb 16
Kwaramustgoodag:


He will surely have second chance

Second chance to do what?

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Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:49am On Feb 16
Surviving R.Kelly Documentary (Part 1)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2iwa3dwK48

R&B superstar R. Kelly’s musical accomplishments have long been shadowed by allegations that he sexually abused women and children. Now the singer has been found guilty in his hometown of Chicago on child pornography charges, but acquitted of a conspiracy to obstruct justice charge accusing him fixing his state child pornography trial in 2008.

The verdict comes after he was sentenced in June in New York to three decades behind bars on federal sex trafficking charges. While Kelly, born Robert Sylvester Kelly, has vehemently denied the allegations, his accusers testified that he subjected them to perverse and sadistic whims when they were underage.
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 12:43pm On Feb 16
OLAADEGBU:
Surviving R.Kelly Documentary (Part 1)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e2iwa3dwK48

R&B superstar R. Kelly’s musical accomplishments have long been shadowed by allegations that he sexually abused women and children. Now the singer has been found guilty in his hometown of Chicago on child pornography charges, but acquitted of a conspiracy to obstruct justice charge accusing him fixing his state child pornography trial in 2008.

The verdict comes after he was sentenced in June in New York to three decades behind bars on federal sex trafficking charges. While Kelly, born Robert Sylvester Kelly, has vehemently denied the allegations, his accusers testified that he subjected them to perverse and sadistic whims when they were underage.

Surviving R.Kelly Documentary (Part 2)


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1E5Pz3AfYQU&t=0s
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by Pastoshizzy(m): 1:33pm On Feb 16
Kwaramustgoodag:
He will surely have second chance
Didn't you watch them videos. A second chance to molest more underaged girls. This guy feels no remorse, he be getting away with sh×t for a loong time.
So his music is good, but it doesn't mean he should get a second shot at vulnerable women and girls.
He's been forgiven, justice has been served. End of story.
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 6:47pm On Feb 17
Pastoshizzy:


Didn't you watch them videos. A second chance to molest more underaged girls. This guy feels no remorse, he be getting away with sh×t for a loong time.
So his music is good, but it doesn't mean he should get a second shot at vulnerable women and girls.
He's been forgiven, justice has been served. End of story.

He needs to be forgiven by God if he truly repents otherwise he will continue from where he stopped.
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by Pastoshizzy(m): 8:21pm On Feb 17
OLAADEGBU:


He needs to be forgiven by God if he truly repents otherwise he will continue from where he stopped.
"Those who are sinning rebuke in the presence of all, that the rest also may fear."
‭‭1st Timothy 5:20 NKJV‬‬

God forgives, the only issue is being delivered of that sin that evidently resides in a sinner's mortal bodies (Romans 7:23). In Kell's case he lives in a carnal establishment. He sings religious music so he can easily be identified with the church but he's not (definitely not) a child of God. He's had the scriptures preached to him in every way imaginable but he cannot yield to God's word because he's a slave to lust. The consequence of ignoring warning from God is depravity. The same trait can be found in Pastors who have secret sins (who choose to use their God given liberty to seek carnal pleasure). Romans 1:28 describes them saying - "and even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient." However, if he runs to God to be truely delivered of this condition he has put himself (and his truely repentant) then the next line of action is to have him delivered of this demonic chain of command that has made him deteriorate from lust, inordinate sex, pornography, sexual perversions into pedophilia.
Lucky him the US Justice Department rehabilitates convicts that are found to be genuinely repentant. If that is the case he wouldn't be coming out of the slammer as R.Kelly of the 'R' in R&B that we know but as a person the world does not know...a different person that the world can only celebrate as someone who's life has been touched by the redeeming power of the Holy Spirit of God.

That's my prayer for him.

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Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 5:45am On Feb 18
Pastoshizzy:

"Those who are sinning rebuke in the presence of all, that the rest also may fear."
‭‭1st Timothy 5:20 NKJV‬‬

God forgives, the only issue is being delivered of that sin that evidently resides in a sinner's mortal bodies (Romans 7:23). In Kell's case he lives in a carnal establishment. He sings religious music so he can easily be identified with the church but he's not (definitely not) a child of God. He's had the scriptures preached to him in every way imaginable but he cannot yield to God's word because he's a slave to lust. The consequence of ignoring warning from God is depravity. The same trait can be found in Pastors who have secret sins (who choose to use their God given liberty to seek carnal pleasure). Romans 1:28 describes them saying - "and even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient." However, if he runs to God to be truely delivered of this condition he has put himself (and his truely repentant) then the next line of action is to have him delivered of this demonic chain of command that has made him deteriorate from lust, inordinate sex, pornography, sexual perversions into pedophilia.
Lucky him the US Justice Department rehabilitates convicts that are found to be genuinely repentant. If that is the case he wouldn't be coming out of the slammer as R.Kelly of the 'R' in R&B that we know but as a person the world does not know...a different person that the world can only celebrate as someone who's life has been touched by the redeeming power of the Holy Spirit of God.

That's my prayer for him.

Do you think the likes of TB Joshua and their protégés can truly repent? undecided
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by Pastoshizzy(m): 11:53am On Feb 18
OLAADEGBU:


Do you think the likes of TB Joshua and their protégés can truly repent? undecided
The last time I checked he was dead smiley
There's no one that cannot be met by Jesus. If Apostle Paul (a persecutor of Jesus' followers became an icon in the gospel as we have it) can be saved, with Jesus ALL things are possible.
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:01pm On Feb 18
Pastoshizzy:


The last time I checked he was dead smiley
There's no one that cannot be met by Jesus. If Apostle Paul (a persecutor of Jesus' followers became an icon in the gospel as we have it) can be saved, with Jesus ALL things are possible.

Do you think he repented before he died if he truly is not beyond redemption? undecided
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by Pastoshizzy(m): 4:04pm On Feb 18
OLAADEGBU:


Do you think he repented before he died if he truly is not beyond redemption? undecided
I don't know.
I don't judge and to be sincere it wouldn't be my (or your) business 🤷🏾‍♂️. I never knew him.
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by OLAADEGBU(m): 12:11pm On Feb 19
Pastoshizzy:


I don't know.
I don't judge and to be sincere it wouldn't be my (or your) business 🤷🏾‍♂️. I never knew him.

Only God knows. smiley
Re: Surviving R. Kelly: Will The Church Embrace The Accused Singer Now? by Pastoshizzy(m): 12:39pm On Feb 19
OLAADEGBU:


Only God knows. smiley
Dassrite bro wink

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