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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by TrustedLawyer: 10:58am On May 04
Pastor Damina is right. The more you try to run away from doing something, the more you see yourself doing. Just keep doing it, and after a while, you will discover that the thing would become boring. Eat rice everyday for one month, and you will hate rice afterwards.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by NoToPile: 10:59am On May 04
Loool.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by donforeign: 11:04am On May 04
Kobojunkie:
There are no true prophets out there either. grin
there is ..
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by olaodun: 11:12am On May 04
It shows he is not a true Pastor it is like telling a person continue drinking good water and small poison or snipper the person will die even a small drop of poison

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by TemmyT002(m): 11:12am On May 04
People who are addicted to porn and masturbation and other addictions will understand where the man is coming from.
The more Bible you read, the less you watch porn until you stop it totally.
You can NEVER stop it at once when you are not a robot.
Lol
People don't think deeply; they just react anyhow
The man is probably speaking from experience.

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Exceed15: 11:24am On May 04
Hypocrite are the ones condemning him. Addiction is hard to stop eg smoking. The fact that u try hard praying, reading the word won't drastically make u stop. It is a gradual thing. Devote more time to spiritual things.. dats what he meant.

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Exceed15: 11:24am On May 04
NOC1:
He was saying it is not by your strength to stop and dedicate your time to doing meaningful things; that's why he said to put about 3 hours into reading the scripture every day.
When you dedicate 3hours to Bible, what other time is left for porn?
None
So he is teaching well, just that most of you do not reason deeply.

Oil dey ur head.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Babaibeji2020(m): 11:25am On May 04
NOC1:
He was saying it is not by your strength to stop and dedicate your time to doing meaningful things; that's why he said to put about 3 hours into reading the scripture every day.
When you dedicate 3hours to Bible, what other time is left for porn?
None
So he is teaching well, just that most of you do not reason deeply.


Idiota.......

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Slimtuns(m): 11:37am On May 04
I see nothing wrong with what he said tho. Psychologists would recommend that if you have any bad habit or thought you want to put an end to, don't fight it but instead let it establish itself and train your mind gradually to live without it. As time goes on, you would see the desire wearing off and eventually, you no longer have the impulse to do it again.

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by musicwriter(m): 11:38am On May 04
OkpaNsukkaisBae:


me and my friends we do sleep in the forest for days in the name of fasting and prayers. 😂🤣😂. Foolish old days

And after the payment, I emailed him to acknowledge receipt but he didn't reply. Sent text messages to him as well and no reply, until I realized he deliberately just refused to reply because he probably regard it as "small money"
I then began to wonder whether he didn't receive it and from then on I began to question such a person and the religion he profess. These little things and more eventually helped me come to my senses and to free myself from Christianity
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by GardenOfGod(m): 11:42am On May 04
The man is right... You can't stop addiction immediately... You need something to redirect your attention from it... By gradually turning attention from your addiction to reading and listening to the true word of God, porn addiction will naturally be killed in a person's life.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Dennisochampa: 11:44am On May 04
It's only unintelligent people who will attack this man... An abrupt stop to addiction is never possible..... It takes grace, patience and consistency to stop addiction to anything....

Let's even leave God out of this..

How many people who have been addicted to something are able to stop immediately they get tired of it??
It's a gradual process...
Thick stain no dey commot for cloth only once wen u wash am.... Small small... U go dey alright...
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by AbahJFK: 11:48am On May 04
Drugs/cigarettes addictions are quite very different from porn/masturbation. Abrupt withdrawal from drugs may cause withdrawal symptoms which vary in severity and may lead to death in some people. But on the other hand stopping sex/Indecency at once will not lead to any physical symptoms (but may have some emotional) and therefore no threat to Life. So u don't gradual withdrawal from sex. More over who will monitor the amount of porn u r supposed to watch, as against drugs, where you are monitored and gradually wean off.
Spiritually these two things (porn/sex and prayers/reading the word) can not mix, they are like oil and water. Therefore flee porn(do away with all Indecency materials) the devil can force anything on u, you need to take that step first. Run first (Joseph ran) and God will help you with the emotional battles. Porn/Sex will reduce you to a piece of bread, pls flee and have faith and God will help. But playing with the fire will just get u burnt. If u do away with all the gadgets and avoid persons/things that trigger you, God will help you. If ur right arm will lead you to sin pls cut it off, if not the gangrene will spread n u loss ur whole body

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Billmos: 11:53am On May 04
Abel damina is always correct he understand d gospel more than any men of God in niaja n beyond
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Azazyel: 12:01pm On May 04
The pastor is actually being realistic in his teaching. Porn addiction doesn't stop overnight. It is a continuous process of rehabilitation. Those people condemning him are pretenders I can assure you. They watch it in private but come out to condemn openly
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Azazyel: 12:04pm On May 04
AbahJFK:
Drugs/cigarettes addictions are quite very different from porn/masturbation. Abrupt withdrawal from drugs may cause withdrawal symptoms which vary in severity and may lead to death in some people. But on the other hand stopping sex/Indecency at once will not lead to any physical symptoms (but may have some emotional) and therefore no threat to Life. So u don't gradual withdrawal from sex. More over who will monitor the amount of porn u r supposed to watch, as against drugs, where you are monitored and gradually wean off.
Spiritually these two things (porn/sex and prayers/reading the word) can not mix, they are like oil and water. Therefore flee porn(do away with all Indecency materials) the devil can force anything on u, you need to take that step first. Run first (Joseph ran) and God will help you with the emotional battles. Porn/Sex will reduce you to a piece of bread, pls flee and have faith and God will help. But playing with the fire will just get u burnt. If u do away with all the gadgets and avoid persons/things that trigger you, God will help you. If ur right arm will lead you to sin pls cut it off, if not the gangrene will spread n u loss ur whole body


If you speak to any teenager like this, believe me he or she would stop telling you anything and run away from you. Addictions are difficult to stop. All of em. It's psychological. People stop gradually

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by SIRTee15: 12:20pm On May 04
While his answer may provoke dissension in Christendom, the solution lies in his answer.

Porn, mastubation, wet dreams are addictions driven by sexual urge- this urge is the most powerful known to man. Man can do anything to satisfy his sexual urge- anything.
We don't know this things because people who indulge in them are to ashamed to discuss it openly thus it's a non-criminal habit done in secret.
Even married people who indulge in it do not tell their spouse.

If U think U can motivate yourself out of sexual urge- U must be joking.
The problem is sexual urge is natural, it's part of your body system that makes u human. Without sexual urge, how can U fulfil God's commandment to procreate and be fruitful

U can't wish sexual desire away, it will surely come.
The only way to overcome the sin that comes with sexual urge is to be filled with the power that overcomes sin- Holy spirit.

And the holy spirit comes by regular meditation and constant reading the word of God. The more U enmesh yourself in the word and let it fill your mind, U will notice your desire for sin will be gone. Its a mystery but it works.
Sexual urge will remain but will only come at the right time. That's what THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT CAN DO.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by SIRTee15: 12:21pm On May 04
AbahJFK:
Drugs/cigarettes addictions are quite very different from porn/masturbation. Abrupt withdrawal from drugs may cause withdrawal symptoms which vary in severity and may lead to death in some people. But on the other hand stopping sex/Indecency at once will not lead to any physical symptoms (but may have some emotional) and therefore no threat to Life. So u don't gradual withdrawal from sex. More over who will monitor the amount of porn u r supposed to watch, as against drugs, where you are monitored and gradually wean off.
Spiritually these two things (porn/sex and prayers/reading the word) can not mix, they are like oil and water. Therefore flee porn(do away with all Indecency materials) the devil can force anything on u, you need to take that step first. Run first (Joseph ran) and God will help you with the emotional battles. Porn/Sex will reduce you to a piece of bread, pls flee and have faith and God will help. But playing with the fire will just get u burnt. If u do away with all the gadgets and avoid persons/things that trigger you, God will help you. If ur right arm will lead you to sin pls cut it off, if not the gangrene will spread n u loss ur whole body

I think U need to attend bible study more. What U wrote here is simply theory.
The outcome is constant struggle with son.
Lots of Christian don't even understand why Jesus came.

Let me ask U this questions

When did Zaccheus perform restitution, was it b4 he met Jesus or after he met Jesus.
When Jesus was annointed by the woman in Bethany, was she known in the community as a sinner as at that time?
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Neddyogu(m): 12:22pm On May 04
Many people lack comprehension skills. They listen or read to react without having understanding of the subject matter. What the clergyman is saying is what every shrink knows, you don't yank out an addiction or fight it with brute force, rather u replace the addiction with another more tolerable one; this time, with God's word. Treating addictions is a gradual process.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by ufotunang: 12:28pm On May 04
It will not be easy to be watching porn and still be reading bible and study the word of God...that porn and whatever the man and lady are doing there will still be a distraction in your mind, the sexual urge will still be there in you, the temptation ..so all this will not make you to be serious in reading the bible and studying the word of God.....is just for him to discipline himself and decide to stop watching the porn and start reading the bible and study the word of God
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by DrMuzungu(m): 12:29pm On May 04
Kobojunkie:
There are no true prophets out there either. grin

Exactly. The last true prophet died 2000 years ago.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Benjamin4388(m): 12:31pm On May 04
NOC1:
He was saying it is not by your strength to stop and dedicate your time to doing meaningful things; that's why he said to put about 3 hours into reading the scripture every day.
When you dedicate 3hours to Bible, what other time is left for porn?
None
So he is teaching well, just that most of you do not reason deeply.

he made a lot of sense.. watch porn and read bible later...imagine just knowing that..after sometimes you start feeling quilt..you will have to drop one eventually..cuz u can't cope

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Fred55: 12:32pm On May 04
Is it porn or masturbation that's the problem of this country while we have not eaten since morning??
Kidnapping, rituals, corruption, bad governance etc are worst than pornograhy and masturbation.
Remember that jesus said what goes into a man don't defile a man but what comes out.
There is a place they normally take drunkard to in my place to stop them from drinking alchohol in Benue State,how they stop it is by giving you excess alchohol to drink, by the time you drink to stupor and you wake up there, you wouldn't take alchohol again except village people follow you.
Let's stop judging this man
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by cybertron88: 12:34pm On May 04
I have to agree with Damina on this one. Porn addiction is very difficult to stop abruptly I am speaking from experience. While I was praying to God to free me from porn masturbation and gambling I always find myself going back. At a time I felt that was my own poison and I can't be free. Until I started replacing watching porn with watching the teachings of apostle Joshua Selman on YouTube. I always get the urge to watch porn and masturbate in the morning while preparing for work. What I did is when I go to the bathroom I just open YouTube and start listening to his sermon and prayers. I did it for some time until it became a norm. Surprisingly I went more than 6 months no porn or masturbation. The urge still came but it wasn't as strong as it used to be. For gambling it's a bit different I just had to tell myself I don't need to gamble to survive. I had a job that pays well why should I be looking for one life changing encounter from gambling. Had to enrol for online data analysis training which keeps me occupied on weekends I don't even have the time to watch matches not to talk of cooking games. It's more than 6 months I deactivated all my betting accounts and I have been better for it. Pastor Damina as controversial as he always sound, I think he is spot on on this.

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Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Bluntemperor: 12:38pm On May 04
Kobojunkie:
There are no true prophets out there either. grin

From your own point of view! NO.
They are still many and the fact that you don't believe, doesn't change others who are fervent in Spirit,serving God!
Stop the lies!
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by lacasera14(m): 1:46pm On May 04
dominique:
I agree with him. If you abruptly cut yourself off any addiction, you will relapse and fall in deeper. Best way to beat the addiction is by reducing your attachment to it while doing other productive things. With time you'll adjust to doing without it.
Yeah right. I know of any lady who breaks her fast with weed and alcohol. She wanted to be a devout Christian but her addictions were still there. She kept doing it until one day it disappeared. So Abel Damina is right. In fact there's a way you'll masturbate and watch porn till you'll get tired of it. But if you quit early without getting tired, you keep going back. Now that's another controversial method to quit that conservatives will certainly frown at.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by captaininiobong(m): 1:55pm On May 04
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by anu3: 2:02pm On May 04
Kobojunkie:
There are no true prophets out there either. grin

There are... Just that they're very few, of course ... Check men like bro Gbile Akanni, Zac poonen, etc...
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by DeGLORIOUS: 2:17pm On May 04
I don't see anything wrong in Damina's reply. People only have problem understanding what he meant and why he is saying that. Leaving porn is a great battle and not by your power shall you win. You need extra grace and power to get it done
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Germi9: 2:21pm On May 04
People have misunderstood what he meant
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by ebenholer2(m): 2:28pm On May 04
If you all know what we call addiction…you will know that it is not something that just seem easy to leave and therefore involved having a personal encounter through the word of God that leads to conviction.
The pastor is just being creative in perspective.
When you see someone sinning what will you do, you bring the word to him.
That is the perspective but the pastor has taken it beyond normal by saying those addicted should not stop. He should rather say incase they find it hard to stop, they should take to watching it and listening to the preaching same way. That is the reality.
Re: Pastor Damina's Porn Addiction Remedy Enrages Conservative Christians by Gboom: 2:53pm On May 04
Abel Damina said you should continue to watch porn and be reading the bible and later you will lose interest in porn. I tell it will only work for those who are ready to discipline themselves and fully ready to focus on God by prayer and studying and reading the word of God.

Porn is a menace that is too addictive, and it is a glued sin that needs serious continuous deliverance prayers to be free from it

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