Incited by the fashion fails I've seen all over, I must ask: Are you a real friend?

If your friend leaves the house looking crazy or is about to leave looking crazy, do you stop and help her get it together? Or do you just shake your head and talk behind her back?

I see so many women looking like they don't have friends. I'm wondering if they do have friends who don't care.

I'll share: I will not let any of my friends go out with me looking crazy. Not that I police their style or believe myself to be all knowing, but sometimes my girls need help and other times they help me .

Friend: Girl, your thong is showing
Fashion Fail: OMG I couldn't tell
Friend: No problem, you should wear a different style and color
Fashion Fail: I'll go change

10 minutes later

Fashion Win!