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How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Tiemo(m): 10:26pm On Mar 06, 2012
How To Make My Ex Love Me Again

 If you broke up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you may be wondering, how to get your ex to fall back in love with you? My advice; Get your ex back with dignity and self-esteem.    

You will be shocked after you watch this video to the end to see it's possible to get your ex back into your life:

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First off, remember to be nice.
 You might think that goes without saying, but some people think nagging is the best way to get what they want. It's not. Any nagging, complaining or otherwise acting unpleasant will just remind him of things he wants to get away from. If you make things uncomfortable every time you see him, he'll only want to see you less and less.

 If you're thinking "I want to get my ex boyfriend/girlfriend to love me again," then the last thing you want to do is drive him/her farther away. Be as pleasant as you can whenever you're around him/her, unless the only way you can manage it is to absolutely fake it.
 If you really want to get your ex back it is important that you control your emotions, at least in public. To understand why you must control your emotions think back to when you met your ex initially. Certainly, you were not walking around with red, teary eyes and the attitude of an emotional victim  or depressed.

 To get your ex to fall back in love with you, first you need to be the person he fell in love with initially, not an emotional wreck that needs attention.
 He/she should see you having a positive countenance and you should appear as a very high maintenance person. This will make you attractive again.
 While you were together he/she has, for sure, seen both sides of your personality, the good and bad sides. Now, during your first time meeting him/her, he/she saw a part of you that was charming and irresistibly attractive. To get him/her back, be that attractive person. Be the happy, in control, loving person he fell in love with, let your presence lighten up everyone around you.

 If you'll take my hand and listen to my advice, I'll show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your ex lover back in your arms. Download this eBook by Clicking on the link; https://www.affordabledeals.ng/2022/03/09/ex-back/

Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by NextGuest: 2:13am On Jul 02, 2014
It is always what you say that decides the fate of your relationship. While saying the wrong things will end your relationship, saying the right words can help you salvage it. Here is what you should avoid saying and what you need to say to your boyfriend to get him back.
Wait it out before you do anything
The thing is if you say anything too soon then it's most likely to backfire badly. Before you make a move and attempt to say anything to your boyfriend you must make sure that you have let a bit of time pass. Make sure that your boyfriend doesn't hate you and is willing to at least hear you out.

Admit your mistake
The first thing that you must do is to admit your mistake. The fact that you are taking ownership of your actions and are willing to go beyond and even take ownership of what was beyond your control is something that won't go unnoticed. This is bound to make your boyfriend feel a lot better.

Apologize
Just admitting your mistake isn't enough. You have to follow it up with an apology. Tell your boyfriend that you are very sorry for what you have done. Tell your ex boyfriend that you really feel bad for hurting him and it was never intentional. Don't validate what you did or try to justify your actions unless he asks you to. Just make the apology heartfelt.

Say you were lucky
Make your ex boyfriend feel a little better by telling him that you feel that you were really lucky to have him in your life. All you need to tell him is how enriched your life felt because of him and how much you have grown as an individual because of his presence.

Keep the spite and negativity out
When you are talking to him he might say some things that you feel are unfair. It's in your best interests to just swallow your pride and hear him out. Trashing out negative things about him now is only going to make things worse.

Hear him out
Listen to what he is saying. Sometimes listening is as important as saying things. When you give him a patient hearing you get to understand his side of the story and figure out your next move.

Wish him well
Once your conversation is over, all you need to do is wish him well like you mean it. Tell him that all you want is for him to be happy even if it means that you have to be sad. He will see your good side and will soon be back with you.

Give Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex boyfriend begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex boyfriend crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed.

Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by tiemod: 7:59pm On Jul 06, 2014
I Want My Ex Back - How To Get Him Back To Me. Long distance relationships are much harder to work out than regular relationships. Along with the regular set of problems that each relationship faces, long distance relationships have to deal with the additional challenge of distance. And when this relationship breaks getting your ex back seems like a mammoth task. Here is what you need to do if you want to get your long distance ex back.

Understand the problem
In order to get back with your ex you will have to solve the problem and identify where the disconnect actually happened. Such opportunities are abundant in a long distance relationship. So start thinking with a clear mind and figure out where the problem lay in your relationship. I Want My Ex Back

Don't go overboard with the calls and emails
You need to be a little objective here. Since you both are miles apart from each other and are angry and hurting, sending too many emails and calling too much isn't going to help. I Want My Ex Back I Want My Ex Back

Let the silence ring
Leave your ex alone for a while till such time he/she is ready to talk to you. Once you have made an apology all you need to do is to wait and be silent on your end. Let your ex begin to miss you more and it is this feeling that will bring you two closer. I Want My Ex Back

Send a non committal mail
After letting some time pass you should initiate some communication with your ex. Send a non committal email or letter to your ex. Explain how things are at your end and tell him/her how you have realized your mistake. Also mention the steps you have taken to change things. I Want My Ex Back

Make a peace pact
Once the letter has been sent and received you need to extend your hand out in a peace offering. Tell your ex that you would like to be friends even if you can't have a relationship. I Want My Ex Back

Send thoughtful gifts
Send an occasional thoughtful gift. It could be a silly package of things or photographs of some of the funniest times you've had. Don't forget birthdays or other special occasions and send gifts. That will make your ex see how thoughtful you are and will pull at his/her heart strings. I Want My Ex Back

Reconnect physically
Once some time has passed, you can start to do a bit of light flirting over the internet. Once your ex responds to your advances go ahead and make a trip to where your ex lives. Once he/she sees you all will get sorted and the two of you will be able to resolve your differences and will be able to get back together. I Want My Ex Back

Pay Close Attention Here-

Now listen carefully! Take 2 minutes to read the next page and you'll discover a stunning trick which will have your ex begging you to take them back. There is a set of easy to follow psychological tricks which will make your ex crawl back to you within a few days guaranteed. I strongly urge you to read everything on the next page before it's too late and time runs out. I Want My Ex Back
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by joanrivers(f): 1:20pm On Jul 16, 2014
About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Rossieb: 8:57pm On Jul 20, 2014
Hello Tiemo, my ex is dating another girl he seems he loves her i guess. but she broke up with him today, my close friend talked to him so that perhaps we can get back together into a relationship but he told my friend a lot of things Which hurts a lot my ex boyfriend said that he no longer loves me and he doesn’t want me in his life and he hates the day he met me, and all what we had wasn't real, but in the same time he was dating that girl something took place it was when our soccer national team went to the second term we all went to celebrate in the streets so in that time i lost my little brother in the crowd so i started freaking out and crying so my ex boyfriend followed me and helped me to find him and we did after that we walked alone in an empty street and it was 1am and then he kissed me and said that he loves me and never wants to see me cry again, no we never talked and i really miss him i want him back i just need some help please
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Tiemo(m): 11:26pm On Jul 23, 2014
1. Your ex boyfriend needs some space and time to remove all the negative associations from the breakup and start missing you. People have a common misconception that if you don’t contact your ex, they will forget about you. But in reality, if you don’t contact your ex boyfriend, you will give them time to miss you more and they will be wondering all the time why you are not contacting them. Remember all the mistakes in Part #1 of this guide. Every one of them made your ex think of you as a needy person. By not contacting them, you immediately become not needy in their mind.

2. You also need some space and time. You need to get a hold of yourself and gain some perspective. The fact is, you are a mess after the breakup. And you need to calm down and analyze your relationship thoroughly to realize whether or not being with your ex boyfriend is in your best interest. It could be that you are just missing your ex boyfriend. You need to learn to enjoy your life without your ex boyfriend. You need to prove to yourself that you can be happy without your ex boyfriend. You will eventually realize that you DON’T NEED YOUR EX to be happy. Maybe you’ll still WANT them, but there is a big difference between needing something and wanting something.

3. You must become an attractive happy person during this time. You need to take a step back and reevaluate your life. You should make a lot of positive changes in your life. When you meet your ex boyfriend after the no contact period, you want them to be attracted to you. And the best way to do it is to start enjoying life and being an overall happy person. Don’t take this point lightly. This could be the difference between getting your ex boyfriend back or losing them forever.

Contacting Your Ex Boyfriend aka Re-attraction

Remember when your ex boyfriend left you? They thought of you as a needy, clingy and desperate person with little to no self-respect. After not being in contact with you for a while, they must be wondering what the heck happened to you. They will slowly start to forget that image of yours (the needy desperate one) and start remembering the things they liked about you. They will start remembering the things that they found attractive in you.

And that’s when you contact them, you talk to them and then meet them. Just as they lay eyes on you, BOOM. That’s the new and improved you. YOUR version 2.0. They can’t help but wonder what brought so much positive change in you.

For that to happen, you need two things.

1. You should actually bring a positive change in your life and become a confident, happy and attractive person.
2. You should contact your ex and meet them somewhere.

If you have been following this guide till now, then you know how to go about the first point. So, let’s get straight to the second point.
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by mabelbrilliant: 11:39pm On Aug 03, 2014
Hi Tiemo, I really need your advice on how to get my ex boyfriend back. I love my ex so much and am sure he also love me when he told me he cant live without me, we share everything together even our account details and password. We had a fight and lost communication, a month later i saw him with another lady of on street kissing and i felt a pain go through my heart. Brad please come to my rescue, am in pains.
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by mabelbrilliant: 3:08pm On Aug 07, 2014
I taught about the no contact rule

1. I get the feeling there is another factor you aren't getting from him. Just act all breezy and happy like you said but don’t text him until NC is over.

2. Once no-contact is over [i]gchat [/i]isn't my favorite but you can make it work.
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by evastefanni: 12:00am On Aug 14, 2014
Hello, you are my last hope I pray you have the solution to my problem. I dated this guy for 2 years, been trying to cope with his lapses because i love him so much but he doesn't take me serious, i don't know if its because am black and his white but i pray its not the case. since he came into my life things has been working great with me, i find joy in him, his my heart but keeps playing with my feeling making me cry every time. He keeps breaking up with me every time and i keep accepting him back. I don't want to loose him, please how do i get him to miss me, so he will take me serious and adore me.
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Tiemo(m): 12:19am On Aug 14, 2014
You may have come on too strong. Try leading up to "ask your ex boyfriend out for a date" via text.
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by wyankimberly: 1:30pm On Oct 15, 2014
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Many good love spell casters are out there in the world (Africa, and so on) Yes, love spells really work, whether you are in a situation where you want to bring back your lost lover (lost lover spell), you want to get married to someone in a relationship (marriage spells), to increase love in your relationship (love affection spells) and many other related love spells, you will get help. It does not matter where you are or where your partner is, you don't have to be unhappy of a situation in life you can solve it all: it is all about finding a good love spell caster to change your life status for ever.

Contact Dr. Ikhine email: agbadado@gmail.com or call him on +2347060552255 is a celebrated love spell caster whose works have won his friendship all over the world from the people met him to know more about spells and his wonderful works. For reading worldwide!.

ALL HEART BROKEN PEOPLE ALL OVER THE WORLD, FEEL FREE TO CONSULT HIM FOR INSTANT READING AND REUNION WITH YOUR EX LOVER IN 72 HOURS ONLY[/b]
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by hope2sweet: 11:03pm On Nov 07, 2014
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Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by cornie11: 11:03pm On Nov 14, 2014
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Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Nobody: 9:56pm On Aug 01, 2015
Sucreplum
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by SucrePlum(f): 10:17pm On Aug 01, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Sucreplum
Yea, sowie ah wuz busy snitching on you guysgrin
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by SucrePlum(f): 10:18pm On Aug 01, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Sucreplum
Is this your hideout?
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Nobody: 10:20pm On Aug 01, 2015
Snitching on me? Lol. Trust me I wouldn't brawl him. I'm a known lover, not a fighter *in Mrcork 's voice*
SucrePlum:
Yea, sowie ah wuz busy snitching on you guysgrin
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Nobody: 10:21pm On Aug 01, 2015
Hideout? Hmmmmmmm. If that's what you call it, then it is
SucrePlum:
Is this your hideout?
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by SucrePlum(f): 10:25pm On Aug 01, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Snitching on me? Lol. Trust me I wouldn't brawl him. I'm a known lover, not a fighter *in Mrcork 's voice*
Lmbo. Told you i know you. I know you're a lover. Lover boy
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 01, 2015
Just being sarcastic tongue tongue now that you know me, who are you?
SucrePlum:
Lmbo. Told you i know you. I know you're a lover. Lover boy
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by SucrePlum(f): 10:27pm On Aug 01, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Hideout? Hmmmmmmm. If that's what you call it, then it is
You are a womanizer Jack, and i know. Dont you think your lil love nest wont tickle me?undecided
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by SucrePlum(f): 10:29pm On Aug 01, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Just being sarcastic tongue tongue now that you know me, who are you?
Im sucreplum, my old moniker was sipstea.
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Nobody: 10:31pm On Aug 01, 2015
Hehehehehehe. Womanizer? C'mon! How can I be? I'm not. I'm just a lil pirate tongue
And my nests? Don't underestimate it
SucrePlum:
You are a womanizer Jack, and i know. Dont you think your lil love nest wont tickle me?undecided
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by Nobody: 10:31pm On Aug 01, 2015
Did you deactivate? And why?
SucrePlum:
Im sucreplum
Re: How To Make My Ex Love Me Again by SucrePlum(f): 10:34pm On Aug 01, 2015
Jacksparrow0712:
Did you deactivate? And why?
is this some sort of screening excercise?

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