Please I need help seriously on how to get my manners, attitude, composture and swag generally right. My fiance is always jokingly complaining that i dont have swag, although he said what he feels for me is the primary but i should please add some swag. So I want to work on it now before it start becoming an issue when we're married. I dont mind enrolling in a school for it. I just need help. Please anybody that knows where or what I can do or go should advise me. No insult please.

How bad is ur manner/swag or composure? We need a hint so as to advice you on the right track.
I expect u r in ur 20's,if so,are you just noticing the flaws ur man pointed out?
U were sure brought up in a family and u'v probably lived amongts friends,did any of these ones complain b4?
There's also a distant possibility dat nothing is wrong wt ur manners,swags and others,maybe ur man wants u in 'his own taste'. Maybe.
So..can u giv a lil brief on d swag/manner/composure ur man seem to have a problem with?

Am in my late 20's nd dat got notin 2do wit it cos I dont look, even dou am robust in nature. Nobody had ever complain abot my swag b4.My fiance wil b d first person 2do dat. Sincerely if I judge mysef, I dont see anytin wrong in my swag, only dat I cant b a judge in my own case. I guess d taste is d probs. He want me 2b sophisticated nd all that.

I think it all boils down to choice: Wl u 'change' to his taste or to his bidding?
If u luv him enough as to want2settle down,i tink it's worth it. Do things how he wants dem..only if he's worth it.
On a personal note,i dnt see reasons why u shd anyway.

When u talk about "swag"wat do u mean?besides if u're getting ready 2 start a family "swag" shldnt be on ur list.As for the composure u said nothing abt it,is it that u can't compose yourself?do u talk and act in a way that raises curiousity when u're in public?is it dat u lack carriage?and your attitude,but what I think is dat he wants u 2 improve ur fashion sense-dress to fit d occassion,wear wat fits u....ALWAYS look gud nd d "swag"will be automatically turned on.Don't assume u already knw it,even d best dresser are still learning.Try to be a bit more conventional.Don't be a 1way traffick!always try new stuffs....MY OPINION

Yea.. Compture has 2d wit d way I act.. He said am too mama'ish in nature. Am not loudsy. U've said it all, evrytin boil down 2my dressin generally. Tanx so much 2 ur time. I so much appreciate it.