It's really sickening for one to have a partner who tells every little thing that transpires in his/her marriage. There's this friend of mine whose hubby finds it easier to tell whatever problem he has with his wifey to his sister,he also seeks approval for everything from her and sees his sister as a standard for his wife's lifestyle. She doesn't hesitate to interfere as well,which to me i feel is sooooo wrong. If you were in my friend's shoes,how do you intend to put an end to such interference?

No one size fits all, so your friend has to understand her hubby's nature to know the best approach,

For my kind of husband (one who respects my views/feelings), effectual communication is key. Let him know the effect this would have on the family, how it makes her feel vulnerable in front of the sister. Tell him to imagine if she (the wife) was doing the same thing to her own family, I.e. Telling them everything that goes on in the home. Lastly, the wife should make herself communicable..like I tell my hubby he can talk to me about ANYTHING,she needs to learn not to over react because some information cannot be easily processed by we women.lol. Infact, now my hubby and I jist like man-man.lol.

If her husband doesn't respect her opinions, then she could get her pastor or someone the hubby respects to talk to him. A couple having similar issues in my church got the pastor to talk to the hubby and for the 1st time the hubby realised what he was doing was wrong.

HerRoyalSexy: It's really sickening for one to have a partner who tells every little thing that transpires in his/her marriage. There's this friend of mine whose hubby finds it easier to tell whatever problem he has with his wifey to his sister,he also seeks approval for everything from her and sees his sister as a standard for his wife's lifestyle. She doesn't hesitate to interfere as well,which to me i feel is sooooo wrong. If you were in my friend's shoes,how do you intend to put an end to such interference?

Oh!! that is so wrong. I know a home it almost destroyed. Infact it can destroy a home..

HerRoyalSexy: It's really sickening for one to have a partner who tells every little thing that transpires in his/her marriage. There's this friend of mine whose hubby finds it easier to tell whatever problem he has with his wifey to his sister,he also seeks approval for everything from her and sees his sister as a standard for his wife's lifestyle. She doesn't hesitate to interfere as well,which to me i feel is sooooo wrong. If you were in my friend's shoes,how do you intend to put an end to such interference?

It's sad your friend didn't discover this before marriage. He is simply immature and doesn't know what marriage is all about.

Recruitment has given a good response.

Op,that guy shuld get a life i just pity that woman.