Can somobody help out on this issue? I met a lady a couple of months ago now and promised to be a virgin but later got to know by her that she was raped when she was fifteen years old and decided to keep it to herself and her parents. And ever since that happened she said she has never had any sex with anybody.The question now is, can I still continue with the relationship?

NOTE: This is the lady I loved so much before the secret was reviewed to me.

What has virginity to do in your Love for a girl? We all have our past, the most impotant thing is Love and Understanding. You must not deceive yourself in stating clearly why you love the girl. Was it because she said she was a virgin? or you prayed over the relationship and God gave the direction?

I wish to state here that Fornicators will not make heaven. Love each other and plan sex after you are married.

hi dear sir, if you really love her then go ahead with the relationship. l believe you also have alot that you did in the past that may even be worse than hers I mean if all of us were to get pissed over our past ,a mean would we be having lovers.so move on after all that was in the past and you instead should be feeling sorry for her and comforting her not running away from her ok.wish you the best