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My head has been in the clouds for some days now,I am a microbiology final year student and with my knownledge on STIs infection i know they are aquired if not 100% from haveing multiple sex patners and haveing unprotected sex. Symptoms of STIs infections includes, for the female viginal discharge,itching,flow smell from viginal e.t.c while the males will experience painful micturation(passing out urine) pus or blood stained urine,discharge from manliness in chronic cases these sympton can also be manisfested in the female gender. I am currently going out with a 200LEVEL computer sciences student, when we started date she never welcomed the idea of sex in the relationship telling me she is a "VIRGIN" i was happy about it because i've never had any experience with one. After months of dating we finally agreed to do it, when i entered inside her she complained it was painful even when my full lenght has not penetrated i wasnt suprised because my friends who had been with Virgins shared there experience with me and the lady involved feeling pains was part of it. But something happened that was worth taking note of, when i finally penetrated with my full lenght she started to enjoy it and morn like a Indecency star, i was expecting cry of pain just as what my friends told me. After a great time of sex i started to ask her questions.. Our conversation after sex Me: Sandra Her: Yes honey Me: Why was your Pu**y very free? i tought u said you were virgin and besides you did'nt bleed? Her: It pained me initially but i started enjoying it later, and moreover i have masturbated in the past with some objects i believe thats why its was free. Me: But you did'nt tell me this before now, what else have you not told me? Her: Ok i once escaped molestation,honey you the 1st man i ever Were Intimate with trust me on that you are. I was suprise and scared when she told me all this because i just had this feeling she was lieing about the virgin thing and i already had unprotected sex with her. I did my IT(Industrial Training) when i was in 300LEVEL in a medical lab so i know how to carryout some test myself. The next day i bought HIV test kit and tested her it was negative i was reliefed. After some days spending time with her in her own room off campus i discovered Cantab A drugs with inserter and Mycoten viginal cream in her cupboard all of which are used for the treathment of viginal infection(STI/UTI). When i asked what she was doing with it she told me it was her room mates own, I took her answer with a pinch of salt. I later discovered that my "VIRGIN" girlfriend was having viginal discharge i was shocked to my spinal cord, i asked her how long she has been experiencing it she said since last year but that it comes and go from time to time that she once went to a lab for testing and the lab attentent recorded no growth on her request card. Just yesterday the discharge was too much and it scares the crip out of me. I did my urine MCS and screening for STI when working in the lab last year and all were negative so no way she got infected from me.can a VIRGIN have STI if she really was one? Please give me reasons to comfirm she is a liar.Expecting your responce NLers.

Ehimax: My head has been in the clouds for some days now,I am a microbiology final year student and with my knownledge on STIs infection i know they are aquired if not 100% from haveing multiple sex patners and haveing unprotected sex. Symptoms of STIs infections includes, for the female viginal discharge,itching,flow smell from viginal e.t.c while the males will experience painful micturation(passing out urine) pus or blood stained urine,discharge from manliness in chronic cases these sympton can also be manisfested in the female gender. I am currently going out with a 200LEVEL computer sciences student, when we started date she never welcomed the idea of sex in the relationship telling me she is a "VIRGIN" i was happy about it because i've never had any experience with one. After months of dating we finally agreed to do it, when i entered inside her she complained it was painful even when my full lenght has not penetrated i wasnt suprised because my friends who had been with Virgins shared there experience with me and the lady involved feeling pains was part of it. But something happened that was worth taking note of, when i finally penetrated with my full lenght she started to enjoy it and morn like a Indecency star, i was expecting cry of pain just as what my friends told me. After a great time of sex i started to ask her questions.. Our conversation after sex Me: Sandra Her: Yes honey Me: Why was your Pu**y very free? i tought u said you were virgin and besides you did'nt bleed? Her: It pained me initially but i started enjoying it later, and moreover i have masturbated in the past with some objects i believe thats why its was free. Me: But you did'nt tell me this before now, what else have you not told me? Her: Ok i once escaped molestation,honey you the 1st man i ever Were Intimate with trust me on that you are. I was suprise and scared when she told me all this because i just had this feeling she was lieing about the virgin thing and i already had unprotected sex with her. I did my IT(Industrial Training) when i was in 300LEVEL in a medical lab so i know how to carryout some test myself. The next day i bought HIV test kit and tested her it was negative i was reliefed. After some days spending time with her in her own room off campus i discovered Cantab A drugs with inserter and Mycoten viginal cream in her cupboard all of which are used for the treathment of viginal infection(STI/UTI). When i asked what she was doing with it she told me it was her room mates own, I took her answer with a pinch of salt. I later discovered that my "VIRGIN" girlfriend was having viginal discharge i was shocked to my spinal cord, i asked her how long she has been experiencing it she said since last year but that it comes and go from time to time that she once went to a lab for testing and the lab attentent recorded no growth on her request card. Just yesterday the discharge was too much and it scares the crip out of me. I did my urine MCS and screening for STI when working in the lab last year and all were negative so no way she got infected from me.can a VIRGIN have STI if she really was one? Please give me reasons to comfirm she is a liar.Expecting your responce NLers.

It depends on d kind of infection she's got! If its syphillis, gonorrhea n d lyks den, somtin is wrng. Bt, if its candida, staph., n d lyks, it might b frm toilet. Have her do d hvs to knw d exact infectn...... It is only on fews occassions d hymen is expectd to break witout sex, lyk doin sports.. For a virgin d 1st experienc shld b painful, tight n blood stained. U r in d best positn to knw if truly she's a virgin......

Tanks 4 ur reply, i will take her to a lab 4 diagnosis.