DAMISIRE!!!! uhm, well i read your story well enough as dia aint much work for me today.
See, young lady, if ill have to advise you like a brother, sister, mother or father, lets look @ dis together, ure married to someone (ur husband in this case) and there is some1 out there u claim shows you more love, wh from ur story is actually true. but remember dear, a BIRD in hand, in this context, is the only bird. Ow on earth would you leave certainty for uncertainty, reality for a dream.

C'mn girl, dis is a testimony from a guy, we guyz would do anything on earth to get into a ladies panties (trust me real good on this), all d niceties of dis world, form like an angel, spotless, loving etc, bliv me its all mtchhewww (and dont ever tink i dont believe in true love), i believe u have one already with ur husband. Am even surprised all this is going on and ur husby know nothing about it such that he has waded in to put an end to all of this. This other man might be so loving really, but u need to define it, dont ever let urself tink he wld drop dead if you cut off some of his 'excesses' cos i feel that wats keeping u in all of dis.

Sit wt ur married husband and talk tins out, tell him dat part u need him to do more, let him know ways to love you more and ure on ur way to get dat level of love wh u admire. but please just dont tink abt leaving wat u have for wat u aint sure of, pls take ur mind of him and dont let it affect ur marraige. All d best dearie.

Guy, are you 4 real, can you please post the details here pls, thanks.