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|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 3:57pm On Nov 04|
Dear mamas good day. I sincerely want to say kudos to every mother in the world. After all I saw with my eyes last night I couldn't help but respect women the more. I saw my wife go through the most horrible pain i wouldn't wish for my enemy. She started contracting althrough the night till 4am when I drove her to the General Hospital. On arrival, she was already 6cm dilated. So I paid all necessary bills and went back home to do final clean up. On my way back from home, I received a distressed call from the nurse telling me that my wife had put to bed but.. ....? Wow! I literally fainted on hearing But. .
.. As her last statement. Much later I managed to ask but what? She then said there were complications!! This time I fell dumb until she said the baby came out with wrong position
So they had to tear part of the cervix or so. The baby almost gave up. It was beaten severally till he cried out. Baby admitted in paed. While my wife is still recuperating. This is not BA neither is it BS. I thought I should share my little experience from Father's perspective. In all, we give God the glory!! My wife is unable to stand on her fit at the moment. She lost so much blood. Feels weak and dizzy! But responding to treatment. It was a VD with Tear. To God be the Glory! !! Our son VICTORY is here with us. I want to use this medium to express my profound gratitude to all the mamas that gave me the chance to interact on this forum. It was a beautiful experience. I learnt so much in the course of this pregnancy journey. Many thanks! ! You all! !! Much love! !! To the rest waddling mamas, God will make it easy for you all! !! There shall be no loss. To other TTC mum. .. God is ever faithful. He will cause you to smile soon.
Cc: cappo Anugod
EDD: 2nd Nov.
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|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 9:39am On Oct 14|
Hello good morning dear mamas!! Been quite a while. Let me be quick to congratulate all the mums that just birthed. Your Los shall bring abundant blessings to your home. And to all the waddling mamas including my wife, God will make it easy for everyone. And to the TTC mamas, you shall have cause to celebrate in no distant time.
Please, I'm posting on behalf of my Dearest wife @Mbliz because she's a bit depressed if that's the right word to use. Last night while I was at work, she called to inform me that she just discovered water gush out of her body like five consecutive times mixed with Red blood. After a while, she used the restroom to discover another set of mild red blood. So I rushed down home so late like around 11:30 pm. Took her down to the General Hospital and Boom! They got her admitted and stated she's already 2cm dilated. Though she's been have contractions but not quite strong. It comes irregular just normal nothing so serious! Since last night till this morning she's still on 2cm. Please sabi mamas does this call for worry? The doctor says she would remain admitted. And Dear wife is already having Teary eyes asking me to tell the doctor to get her discharged till contraction gets stronger enough. Thanks as I await responses.
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 12:58am On Jul 25|
Good evening mamas! I noticed my moniker has been repeatedly Mentioned on this thread either for good or bad. So I think it will not be out of place to clear your doubt. Before I proceed, let me be quick to tender my unreserved apology to Damsel21. I admit my utterances towards her plight were unguarded even though I had no bad intention. I deliberately choose to leave the thread since I have little or no business here as many readily think. After all, it's a woman's world. Let me also be quick to say Sissie is not in any way related to me. For those calling her Mrs mrking, pls kindly take note. The October capo (pweetiebabe) knows my wife's moniker. The reason why I'm actually active here is that my wife isn't social media savvy!! So most times I'm here to learn from meaningful contributions arising from first hand experience... So to that lady that thinks it's abnormal for a man to be in the midst of preggy mamas don't be unmindful of the fact that no knowledge is waste!! What I have learnt here especially from the likes of Ifyalways is unimaginable!! Pregnancy is a serious issue! As much as the woman takes the bulk pain In carrying the baby, the man should be supportive...
@sissie, @giddyperson! Thanks for the kind words!! @damsel21 I guess I've been forgiven? Pls no hard feelings!!! Finally, I officially take a bow out of this thread!! God bless everyone with Hitch free delivery!!! Amen.
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|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 10:48pm On Jul 19|
Damsel21:I recall you brought this same marital issue here some days back that almost took up to 5 or 6 pages there about! Heavily preggy mamas had to suspend all other pressing issues just to find possible means to resolve your marital crises! In my own candid opinion, I think it would be reasonable to channel this issue to family section or any other section on nairaland that deals with family related problems or crises! There's no need to derail this thread.. This thread is strictly for pregnancy related issues anything other than this is a pretty distraction!!!
|Agriculture / Re: Pls Help!! ! Cockroach Is Eating Up My Vegetable Plants by mrking3(m): 10:22pm On Jul 19|
shakyriri:thank you so much
|Agriculture / Pls Help!! ! Cockroach Is Eating Up My Vegetable Plants by mrking3(m): 10:32am On Jul 18|
Hello guys please I need your assistance on how best to deal with cockroaches eating up my small vegetable plant. I came out last night and found loads of them eating them up. Pls what can I do? Thanks
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 9:28am On Jul 18|
Pregnancy can be funny! ! Really funny I mean! Just when I'm about going to work this morning wifey says she wants to eat Akara! Lol. ... Where person won see that kind snacks this morning? Beside, already late for work. ... I bow for una lol! So I managed to plead with her to endure the appetite till I come back !! ! Ooooo today na bump Tuesday sef! ! Let me see if I can upload on her behalf! ! Lol she got Low Battery!! ! OK see wifey at 24+ ........... OK bye! When she comes online she'll carry on from where I stopped!! ! #Teamoctober
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 6:40pm On Jul 12|
Pweetiebabe:lol nothing like jealousy! Just a bit Nervous!! Lately, I literally find myself sleeping on my wife's belly just to feel the kicks!! The kicks has been so tensed this period ! So you are practically a week and few days ahead of my DW? Interesting!!! From sunday I would begin my vigilante!!! Lol. ....
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 12:17pm On Jul 12|
Pweetiebabe:lol beautiful! !! Can't wait to physically feel the kicks on Dw belly. .. Between what week are u at now? Really need to find out the exact week to begin my watchnight!! !! Lol wify is in her 24th week now! Na only she dey enjoy the kicks!! I'm yet to see!
|Health / Re: HIV Test Is Like A Death Row: My Experience by mrking3(m): 12:03am On Jul 03|
I know a lot of guys that would readily shy away from doing the test for obvious reason. Let Me tell you, a time will come and you'll have no option! The best bet is to stick with one partner or wife!! With this, you are 50 percent safe! Recently I took my wife to General Hospital to register her for ANC and part of the registration requirements is to do HIV test.. Right there and then they asked us to do the test!! While other men were there lamenting, I boldly joined my wife to do it! And we came out clean!! We couldn't be happier!! It's good to know your status! It will help to put you in the right direction! And staying safe will remain your watch word.. This is the 5th time we checked our status!!
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Npower VAIDS/TAX Applicants 2017, by mrking3(m): 11:51pm On Jul 01|
andergirl:my wife successfully wrote the test few minutes ago without the SMS. I think once your bvn and phone number is accurate, you'll have access to the portal. They cannot possibly send SMS to everyone same time. I also read about someone that is currently participating In the 2016 scheme that didn't get the SMS invite but wrote the test and got called up.
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 6:11am On Jun 20|
Benignasweety:Like I said, I just had a discourse with my wife on this splitting stuff. So she explained that it does happen in most cases. Children too have emotions! I remember when we were TTC part of the advice was to live in peace and love with DW because babies don't like a fighting and quarrelling environment. Also, if the baby has gotten used to his dad at such a tender age, the split might affect his health adversely and in rare case, the baby might die if the case isn't handled well and timely. The issue with your DH is similar to that of my wife's parents. Her mum walked out Of marriage because of the promiscuous nature of Her DH. So it affected her growth as a baby! Always sick and down. So the elderly persons In the community told her mum that her frequent illness is as a result of her split with the husband. So they had to use blade to cut most part of baby's body (dw) just to remove the bad blood causing the convulsions. I'm not saying all this to scare you or justify your stay with a man that doesn't value you. This is just the reality. Babies destiny are different. What affects one baby might not affect another. Your case is that of irreconcilable differences with your DH! Hence he has fully made up his mind at this point. Just for the sake of that innocent baby! Plead with him to come check on the little child once in a while where ever he is. My dear, move on!! !! Also pray for God's direction and guidance he won't forsake you.
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 12:41am On Jun 20|
Benignasweety:I'm lying close to my wife right now on bed with a teary eye as I type!! ! Just can't sleep over this your issue. So you had to apologize again and only for him to say you guys should pretend like all is well before your in-laws? What a man!! Pls just as the poster above me rightly said, make haste and leave his house. Don't wait till month end.pls!!!! Find a safe place to cool off. Will find out more about the split stuff and get back to you.
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 12:21am On Jun 20|
Benignasweety:you love this man!! !! Well, never heard of such. We've seen or read about couples going their separate ways when baby is still tender. Tonto dike and tiwa sef wouldn't risk it if it were true.
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 11:43pm On Jun 19|
This story of benignasweety and damsel is really heart breaking and sickening to say the least! Some men are beast in human form!! Really unfortunate! ! This is 21st century! If it's not working for you quit! !there's no point being in marriage where domestic violence is the order of the day! Marriage is beautiful and apparently the biggest blessing to mankind provided you're with the right partner. I don't get how couples sleep comfortably at night with grudges? The moment I have any issue with my wife it takes just 5 minutes to get it resolved! And that's all. No reason to hit your wife not to talk of a nursing mother that just got out of labor pains!! You see, I keep telling people take your time to get to know your partner before tieing the knot! Once you say I do! That's it!! Long courtship too can be very helpful hence you get to know all the hidden characters of your partner. Once the foundation is faulty, my dear! The marriage is bound to hit the rock!! No marriage is flawless! Yes! But all depends on how you go about resolving issues when they occur. There's no formula for a successful marriage! You both should make it work in your own way!! Insecurity is such a big issue when it comes to dating! But shouldn't come into marriage! If your husband can't trust or confide in you in marriage then something is wrong!! All through the 8yrs I dated my wife @mblizz we were on distance relationship. Her love and trust were never in doubt!! And she's the only woman I ever dated till marriage! !! No reason to cheat on a good woman. Everyone have a past either good or bad and shouldn't be used against you by your spouse! Not right!! ! I don't know what it is thats going on with you and your husband but what ever it is, keep your cool my dear!! ! Commit everything to God and find a safe place to put your head. When he's come back to his senses, he will come looking for you!! Men like initial gra gra well well. ... I tell you!! ! Follow your instincts! Decide whether to stay or walk out of the marriage after you've weighed all options... Takia my dear!! ! The lord is your strength! !! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and lo.
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 1:55pm On Jun 18|
jreyez:[b]Hello my friend sincerely No one have the right answer to your question here!! This forum is the wrongest place to seek advice on your ill intention. So many couples are seriously praying and spending millions of Naira just to conceive! People are praying for the miracle you've taken forgranted!! Let me talk to you man to man!! ! Immediately I got married to my wife we decided that we don't want to make babies till after one year just to enable us balance well as newly married couple. My wife was working outside Lagos So I felt it would be tough having kids on distance. So after one year I asked her to resign to join me fully in Lagos. My friend, we TTC for one year and half till God answered our prayers!! We had all the chance to make babies but we felt it was in our powers to decide when children will come never knew God has a different plan. You see, you won't understand until you're legally married to your wife. You will hunger for kids!! You might not stand the shame when people start to pokenose into your marriage asking you stupid questions!! I don't know what is just wrong with you guys that you can't control yourselves when you think you're not ready for Marital responsibilities. I dated my wife for 3yrs without sex. When we eventually got married we still played safe!! ! Till we decided to make babies!!! Now we can't wait to welcome our little one with all the happiness that comes with parenthood. Lastly, take full responsibility of the pregnancy!!! Never Never!! ! Abort the child! Never!![/b]
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|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: VACANCY : 100k Salary , Who Is Interested, Come For Interview by mrking3(m): 2:46pm On Jun 13|
emmanuelbrown26:yes I totally agree on that of corporate mails some jobs are like that!!! No argument ! When I see genuine jobs without corporate mails I will know!! !!!
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: VACANCY : 100k Salary , Who Is Interested, Come For Interview by mrking3(m): 10:36am On Jun 13|
captainking:Lol you're already the head marketer! !!!!! I see!
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: VACANCY : 100k Salary , Who Is Interested, Come For Interview by mrking3(m): 10:16am On Jun 13|
captainking:I know it's not every company that uses corporate Email but when I see a job advert from scammers and or marketing network agencies I will know!! Not even sure you are meaningfully engaged else, you won't rush in to apply and equally drop your full name on a forum like this? Those working As cleaners or office assistant can also claim to work in an office Lols! !!!!!!
|Jobs/Vacancies / Re: VACANCY : 100k Salary , Who Is Interested, Come For Interview by mrking3(m): 12:21am On Jun 13|
captainking:from all Indication, you sound like one of this freshers that recently passed out of Nysc or someone that has been idle for years. Let me clear you bro!!! No reputable organisation or coy will display their salary structure for the world to see. Secondly, No one takes any job advert with little or no qualification and or experience seriously!! eg inviting Ond, hnd and bsc for same position. Thirdly, Every reputable company has got a corporate email addy or website. No serious company would use yahoo mail or gmail as it domain or corporate mail addy. I can point out 100 reasons to prove to you that this job advert is clearly bullshit! !!!! They obviously used that 100k salary to attract gullible job seekers like you and the rest folks that would fall prey!!! This is public forum bro! You don't have to be too desperate and forward to apply for any kind of job. When you see job advert like this, take some chill!! Think out of the box! Then wait for experienced folks to do a review on the job before dishing out your mobile number and email addy... The job advert could be real! No doubt! ! But from the tone of advert, they are likely this GNLD guys or something related to that!! Pure marketing! !! They'll end up paying you 10k with a promise to pay you good commission on meeting target. Lol!! ! Bro shine your eyes!! !! This guys are agents nothing more!!
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 7:49pm On Jun 03|
Sabi mamas I hail una ooooooo pls which is the best kind of diaper to get for a new born that won't cause rashes? Foreign or Nigerian made? Thanks!! !!
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|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 6:26pm On May 29|
Pweetiebabe:thanks dearie! !! Her EED is 6/10/2017 LO sex still unknown.. . Maybe she'll find out on her next scan!! She's 17 weeks today!! !! (her moniker is Mbliz)
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 4:22pm On May 29|
Mbliz:welcome my DW to this wonderful thread. As an expectant father, I've learnt so much from all the sabi mamas here.. Pls October capo kindly welcome my wife and carry her along. Thanks!! ! Wishing everyone here a hitch free delivery in Jesus name! !! Amen.
|Celebrities / Re: Bassey & Debie-Rise's 'Joy & Pain' Cover Photo Got Fan's Talking by mrking3(m): 11:19pm On May 22|
|Crime / Re: Another Facebook User About To Commit Suicide! by mrking3(m): 11:15pm On May 22|
micronut:OK. Create a thread and mention me. Maybe with a new moniker. I don't drop my number or email addy on social sites.
|Crime / Another Facebook User About To Commit Suicide! by mrking3(m): 8:03pm On May 12|
I just saw this on my timeline this evening so thought I should share . Dude needs help asap!! ! The rate of suicide attempt this days is becoming sickening!!!!
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 6:08pm On May 07|
Liftedhands:thank you so much !! Actually her case isn't as serious as diarrhea!! No fever, No blood in stool or vomit. Though she vomited couple of times yesterday with little or no stool till last night when I made noodles for dinner. I gave her some slice of mangoes and water melon yesterday. She only vomited once this morning but has used the toilet like thrice today. Though she has had some sleep now and feels a bit better....... So will prepare the plain rice now and get her lucozade and 7up as you suggested... I noticed she's selective now. Doesn't want anything at this point. Even the boiled chicken is a NO for her!!! Asking what exactly do you want to eat? Only to get a big NO after suggestion.. Chai!!!!!! pregnancy is indeed another phase of life.... All women need to be adored at this point. God bless all you pregnant women!!! Its not easy!!!! Except the man is closed to the wife he won't know what the lady is passing through. Thanks dear!! Will keep you posted.
|Celebrities / Re: Celebrities At Banky W & Adesua Etomi's Introduction After Party (Photos) by mrking3(m): 4:13pm On May 07|
Nawaooo!!! If introduction dey gather this kind momentum I Wonder how the proper wedding will look like. The hype is just too much. There's life after wedding. Some weddings start on social media and end on social media. I don't think introduction requires all this paparazzi!!! Introduction is simply a Private stuff that doesn't require public attention. Sigh
|Health / Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by mrking3(m): 3:57pm On May 07|
Hello everyone! I'm actually a guy following this beautiful thread. Though I have advised my wife to sign up on Nairaland so she can be active here. Well, that's by the way. She's in her 13th week of pregnancy and through out the first trimester, she haven't witnessed any form of morning sickness or whatever! So just yesterday, she started stooling and vomiting. I thought it was as a result of the noodles I prepared coz I added little ginger, sardine fresh pepper and other spice... But she's been stooling and vomiting seriously! Also feels weak. Pls is it advisable to get her lucozade boost or any energy drink so she could regain some strength? I'm seriously disturbed. Pls what can I prepare for her to eat to enable her take her routine drugs? Pls those with similar experience kindly help. Between, I noticed I've been stooling also. Lols
|Celebrities / Re: Efe Changes The Polo, Rocks Yomi Casual Designers by mrking3(m): 11:53pm On Apr 29|
Mhen!! EFE need to work on his dress sense!!! Between, its time he dropped this street talks!
|Celebrities / Re: Efe Donates Food Items To The Poor (Photos) by mrking3(m): 2:27pm On Apr 23|
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