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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by legallyminded: 1:24pm On Apr 27, 2021
Twale!!! Good riddance to bad rubbish

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by mmadu4: 1:25pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:
I actually cannot rent an apartment for her as she isn't my responsibility and I am a student, every money is valuable to me


well something has to be done otherwise she might wake up one day and said you raped her then you might get into serious problem . they will believe her over you . do what you gotta do fast . to avoid stories that touch the heart, i dont know why you allowed her to stay with you in the first place . some women are out to destroy men be careful bro

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by legallyminded: 1:25pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:
My neighbor called that she's stranded that I should return


That's her headache jare, action speaks louder, let her be stranded so she'll learn the hard way before you return

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by daveyjay(m): 1:27pm On Apr 27, 2021
CalmElder:








Even if she was planning to leave she won't make the choice herself again, she will rather push you to the wall so that you will evict her, so that she can keep grudges with you.
Are you sure that she's not developing feelings for you?


I don't know, I haven't given that a thought.
It's not like anything can materialize between us tho

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by daveyjay(m): 1:28pm On Apr 27, 2021
Good input, thanks
mmadu4:


well something has to be done otherwise she might wake up one day and said you raped her then you might get into serious problem . they will believe her over you . do what you gotta do fast . to avoid stories that touch the heart, i dont know why you allowed her to stay with you in the first place . some women are out to destroy men be careful bro

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by legallyminded: 1:29pm On Apr 27, 2021
Richochett:

You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.

Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house cool

Allow her to enter the house.

Who be this mugu?

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by JerySmalls(m): 1:31pm On Apr 27, 2021
U nailed this one Bro...
1 cold Heineken for you...

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by legallyminded: 1:31pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:
Bossy by vacating my bed and sleeping on the floor since January??!
Bossy by tolerating her insolent behaviour for one full week??!

C'mon


Don't mind the fool jare, not everyone reasons well. I was expecting such comment and this efulefu didn't fail to disappoint

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Lilpen3758: 1:31pm On Apr 27, 2021
She want Bleep!! if u Bleep her well i mean hot Bleep ooh she will become your house girl
God when this kind girls go cross my path?

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Lilpen3758: 1:33pm On Apr 27, 2021
CalmElder:








Even if she was planning to leave she won't make the choice herself again, she will rather push you to the wall so that you will evict her, so that she can keep grudges with you.
Are you sure that she's not developing feelings for you?
Exactly my point.....

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by daveyjay(m): 1:36pm On Apr 27, 2021
Lol, man's focused, I never follow my department girls finish

Lilpen3758:
She want Bleep!! if u Bleep her well i mean hot Bleep ooh she will become your house girl
God when this kind girls go cross my path?

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by MickzyDonald: 1:38pm On Apr 27, 2021
When i thought I've seen it all, OP's reaction really cracked me, some people might have done worse but the response you gave her will help reset her brain, that's if she's a responsible girl grin

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by MickzyDonald: 1:39pm On Apr 27, 2021
Lilpen3758:
She want Bleep!! if u Bleep her well i mean hot Bleep ooh she will become your house girl
God when this kind girls go cross my path?
He hasn't bleeped her see the way she's misbehaving, what if the Guy has now been f*king her nko, she will even lock him outside out of respect

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by LordDarius(m): 1:44pm On Apr 27, 2021
Richochett:
At least I'm more intelligent than you.
Maybe, depends on your definition of Intelligent... No vex, you dull...

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by CalmElder(m): 1:44pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:



I don't know, I haven't given that a thought.
It's not like anything can materialize between us tho





Good one.
It's this kind of self discipline that enabled me to dodge bullets, severally.
I have accommodated ladies too, my friends also have, after comparing stories, I have come to the conclusion that self respect is way more than whatever pleasure she has to offer.

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Richochett: 1:46pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:
Bossy by vacating my bed and sleeping on the floor since January??!
Bossy by tolerating her insolent behaviour for one full week??!

C'mon

Allow her to enter the house.
But wait o.. Why are you avoiding her since you're not related? Sleeping on the floor while she sleeps on the bed. Why you can't sleep on the same bed smiley
You have underrated and despised her, now she's trying to level up with you.
I'm sure she first gave you greenlights before the attitude.

I have had similar experience in my time as an undergraduate. I have slept in the same room with a girl (she did not relate to me in any way) but I was afraid to make moves due to unknown fear despite all the greenlights.

My advice: stop underrating her even she's a jambite. Play games with her e.g ludo, whot etc and watch how everything play out naturally.

How old are you both?

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Richochett: 1:49pm On Apr 27, 2021
legallyminded:


Who be this mugu?
Just chill first, your real pictures will soon surface grin

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by ekene101: 1:50pm On Apr 27, 2021
Richochett:

At least I'm more intelligent than you.
No,you are just senseless and brainless..Native Goat.

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Richochett: 1:53pm On Apr 27, 2021
ekene101:
No,you are just senseless and brainless..Native Goat.
Lol
I feel your pains from here grin

Due to the total flushing you have now realized you are just a common pathetic gay

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Bigdik70inch2(m): 1:55pm On Apr 27, 2021
Richochett:

You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.

Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house cool

Allow her to enter the house.

Well............I just knew one guy will definitely SIMP!!!
Ur type wouldn't even accommodate a male friend with good character for a day........
Ode!!!!

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Richochett: 1:59pm On Apr 27, 2021
Bigdik70inch2:

Well............I just knew one guy will definitely SIMP!!!
Ur type wouldn't even accommodate a gay man with good character for a day........
Ode!!!!
You all should know me by now cool

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Bigdik70inch2(m): 2:05pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:



I don't know, I haven't given that a thought.
It's not like anything can materialize between us tho

Well.........yo grevious mistake was leaving the bed to sleep on the floor........in the first place bro.........

Girls see u as a king........when u put nobody above you.........they r all bird brain

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by legallyminded: 2:05pm On Apr 27, 2021
Richochett:
Just chill first, your real pictures will soon surface grin
What has my pictures got to do with that? It seems you're not well mentally.

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Paramount01(m): 2:09pm On Apr 27, 2021
Call yor parents and inform ur mum, tel ur mum the decsion you want to take,trust me,she will give u the best advice
Open up to your mum fully, she will even know how to talk go her,there is life after skull ooo...if u like take the advice if u like leave it, but what an elderly man sees while sitting a small boy can't see it even of he clumps irokto tree

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by daveyjay(m): 2:15pm On Apr 27, 2021
I am a nursing student, I have em girls...
I don't need to take advantage of her staying with me
Richochett:

Allow her to enter the house.
But wait o.. Why are you avoiding her since you're not related? Sleeping on the floor while she sleeps on the bed. Why you can't sleep on the same bed smiley
You have underrated and despised her, now she's trying to level up with you.
I'm sure she first gave you greenlights before the attitude.

I have had similar experience in my time as an undergraduate. I have slept in the same room with a girl (she did not relate to me in any way) but I was afraid to make moves due to unknown fear despite all the greenlights.

My advice: stop underrating her even she's a jambite. Play games with her e.g ludo, whot etc and watch how everything play out naturally.

How old are you both?

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by daveyjay(m): 2:17pm On Apr 27, 2021
"There's life after school..."
hmm

Paramount01:
Call yor parents and inform ur mum, tel ur mum the decsion you want to take,trust me,she will give u the best advice
Open up to your mum fully, she will even know how to talk go her,there is life after skull ooo...if u like take the advice if u like leave it, but what an elderly man sees while sitting a small boy can't see it even of he clumps irokto tree

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by MajesticKris: 2:27pm On Apr 27, 2021
Hehehe... I remember my days....


No wory na when admission show, and her name no dey there she go comport cheesy..



daveyjay:
She go well, na why she feel say she don arrive.

Ordinary pre degree o

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by FORWARDEVERLY: 2:39pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.

A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now

I offered a roof over her head.

The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed

I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.

She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!


She got angry and took some money and left


That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies

The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.

On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...

Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.

What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.

She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...

Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!



You should have reported her to the parents and if she didn't imorove on her attitude then you send her out of your space officially and communicate that to the parents ..
Do it the right and proper way coz anything aside this, her parents would definitely ask you questions ..

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Olatoman(m): 2:39pm On Apr 27, 2021
What you did is right OP, but I do not think that you need to move out of your place to your friends.

Go back home, its your apartment, if she can't be civil and adjust, then she can excuse herself permanently.

What you are doing her is a favour, albeit at your expense (floor sleeping).

You can't do all you do without any form of contribution by her, and that's whats really annoying.

She needs to understand that while you may be her guardian of some sorts, it also behoves on her to take some responsibility in the house.

You were cooking before she came, you were doing things before she came, and you'll continue to do so after she leaves, so she should not think that her refusal of taking up shared responsibilities mean you a dodoyo....

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Qatar2022: 2:41pm On Apr 27, 2021
daveyjay:
What I'm concerned about is how both families will receive the news...

Her parents will believe whatever lie she sells

Did you know her and her family before?
Thinking of what people will say you won't make right decision in your life

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by ekene101: 2:43pm On Apr 27, 2021
Richochett:

Lol
I feel your pains from here grin

Due to the total flushing you have now realized you are just a common pathetic gay
Idiot,I am not the op,I just smelt your stupidity millions of miles away,if you are so daft not to no know how to put an erring lady in her place,how can you notice that I am not the op. You are SIMP-ly stewphid.

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Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by soundOsonic: 2:56pm On Apr 27, 2021
Kingcalls:
Thats the entitlement mentality women have...imagine say u decide to de hammer am , she will do worse... thats the difference between guys and girls...if na man u accommodate freely...he will sleep on the floor and still act like house boy to u...he will b going on errands free for u and will b fetching the water without u knowing that the is water problem...men are more appreciative than woman and never forget the help u gave them when they were in need ... women act like entitled spoilt kids

You never live with guys wey go show you shege

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