Nairaland boys will always find a way to shame women! I haven't seen a comment demonizing the men taking part in these "immoralities" it's the women that are the problem. Nonsense

Poverty is a big factor here...

In addition , lust for material things ... to oppress friends. Most of them in school are well taken care of by their parents.

The married men going after undergraduates girls.... Better to stay single than to disgrace your family

SpringofLife:
My experience working in a hotel.

Although I always wanted to write this but I think with the trending story of Chidinma and Super TV boss, it is a good time to do it.

I finished school 3years ago and have been hit by unemployment in the country. Out of no choice, I landed for a hotel work with meagre salary. Well, that story has already been told on another of my thread (check my profile for the thread).

So out of hunger and frustration, I accepted the offer as it was the only available option. About 6 months into the job now, I can say I'm marveled by what I see daily in the place. The level of sexual immoralities in the country is something else.

First, thhe owner of the hotel is a calm gentleman married to a beautiful woman with kids but he still has side chicks. He's someone who travels a lot but he has chicks in all these places. Secondly, the manager is a prolific womanizer. He has this habit of lodging different girls in different rooms and would go round having sex with each and everyone of them. Of course the cost of doing this is no child's play. He probably spends at least 30k or above daily to run these multiple of sex partners. Not castigating the man but the wife is quite industrious trying to pick every penny here and there while the husband is spending big on girls.

Another set of people are yahoo boys. They are the top customers in the place. These guys with their money have been able to bring out the slut in girls. You see them doing all sort of things with our regular Nigerian girls in the street carrying face like they don't know anything whereas they've involved in unexplainable and unimaginable sexual immoralities. Yahoo boys have used them for 3some, 4some and other group/party sex setting. Most times, these boys book a suite to host sex party. it could be 3 boys and 5 girls. I mean even beautiful girls that look calm, homely, innocent and even churchy engage the these act.

And now to the grand patrons, the king of kings and the Lord of lords, the married men. These people take it as a duty to sleep around with young girls. You see them bringing in different girls to the hotel to sleep with them. The case of Chidinma and TV boss was just one out of thousands and millions happening on daily basis. When I look at all these, I weep for us singles guys and the future in general. I may be correct to say there's no decent girl out there again from what I have seen.

Not trying to demonize only married men, married women are not back seat takers at all. They are actively involved in extra marital affairs sleeping with both single guys or other married men.

Finally, I want to dedicate this piece of work to nollywood. Most of the scripts they play are manifesting in our real time encounter.

You wrote all this epistle and outrightly excluded yourself from the story, making you look like a Saint.

I want to ask a question?

How do you know those married, do they have their wedding rings on?

I am beginning to think that black men are more promiscuous than the white men?

If you allow most blackmen, they will have 1k different girlsfriends and still want to have sez with all of them every single day..... 365 days a year.... yet won't be satisfied....

Finally, how do you know who is a yahoo boy?

There are many wealthy men in lagos and they have teenagers who are spioled and living large.... expensive cars and etc,....

TheUndercover:
It seems nowadays, men are more likely to fall on the hands of pussy than bandits or kidnappers.

Sometimes when I read the stories of some randy or philandering men who sees banging many girls as some kind of achievement or status, I don't blame the women when they are being killed like a cheap fool.

For those thinking that they are smart and can avoid situations like this, just remind yourself that the people who got killed thought they can avoid it too until they met their waterloo.

The future is bleak. The coming generation is doomed. It won't get better, it will only get worst, trust me. OP, what you said isn't just starting, it has been going on for a long time, and these are the same hoes one innocent man will lavish his life's investments on. SMH.

This is why I won't be pitying the Murdered ... You die by what you live by ... Chidinma vs Usifo was a case ... None of them is free from guilt but Nigerians will always pity the dead and rain curse on a slut..... it could have gone side ways !

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

lol

CHoccolaTE:


That's how these hopeless goats keep infecting their wives with different stds and aids sef.
There is one man who died recently, infected his wife with hiv and both of them didn't know they were infected or even took treatment until it became full blown AIDS.
To insult women go dey sweet men but they are the ones who sleep around the most.

and who are the men sleeping around with

Don't be a fool.

SpringofLife:
My experience working in a hotel.

Although I always wanted to write this but I think with the trending story of Chidinma and Super TV boss, it is a good time to do it.

I finished school 3years ago and have been hit by unemployment in the country. Out of no choice, I landed for a hotel work with meagre salary. Well, that story has already been told on another of my thread (check my profile for the thread).

So out of hunger and frustration, I accepted the offer as it was the only available option. About 6 months into the job now, I can say I'm marveled by what I see daily in the place. The level of sexual immoralities in the country is something else.

First, thhe owner of the hotel is a calm gentleman married to a beautiful woman with kids but he still has side chicks. He's someone who travels a lot but he has chicks in all these places. Secondly, the manager is a prolific womanizer. He has this habit of lodging different girls in different rooms and would go round having sex with each and everyone of them. Of course the cost of doing this is no child's play. He probably spends at least 30k or above daily to run these multiple of sex partners. Not castigating the man but the wife is quite industrious trying to pick every penny here and there while the husband is spending big on girls.

Another set of people are yahoo boys. They are the top customers in the place. These guys with their money have been able to bring out the slut in girls. You see them doing all sort of things with our regular Nigerian girls in the street carrying face like they don't know anything whereas they've involved in unexplainable and unimaginable sexual immoralities. Yahoo boys have used them for 3some, 4some and other group/party sex setting. Most times, these boys book a suite to host sex party. it could be 3 boys and 5 girls. I mean even beautiful girls that look calm, homely, innocent and even churchy engage the these act.

And now to the grand patrons, the king of kings and the Lord of lords, the married men. These people take it as a duty to sleep around with young girls. You see them bringing in different girls to the hotel to sleep with them. The case of Chidinma and TV boss was just one out of thousands and millions happening on daily basis. When I look at all these, I weep for us singles guys and the future in general. I may be correct to say there's no decent girl out there again from what I have seen.

Not trying to demonize only married men, married women are not back seat takers at all. They are actively involved in extra marital affairs sleeping with both single guys or other married men.

Finally, I want to dedicate this piece of work to nollywood. Most of the scripts they play are manifesting in our real time encounter.

I worked in the hotel for 8months, the things i saw in that hotel is horrible

My question is, would these men be banging with protection or enter straight. Do they still get the pleasure asif they are with their wife?

Making no sense protecting urself while you have free entrance at home.

SpringofLife:


Believe me I don't see it getting better anytime soon or at all.

It shall not get better ... This is the peak of this generation but don't worry ... The earth has a way of cleansing herself and purging all out .... Just a little shift in her tectonic plate ... Humanity will reset and it will go back to very beginning where human all lives in Villages and in few ....

Welcome to Globalisation and the End of an Era !!

BrazilAirport:
See op you made salient points. like our elders use to say," to describe a storm,you must have been caught in the middle.

Back in 2015, I also worked as a bar attendant in a guest house and the things I saw was just so appalling. Those kind of jobs will never make you want to settle down or ever trust a woman.

You'll see married women and men smuggle ecah other in on bike to cum n fvck. The husband will probably be at work and calling the woman to inquire where she is.

Atimes you see very young beautiful girls being brought to have fun with. You see alot of things. These stuff nonetheless are end result of poverty and terrible economy situations. Being hungry with no one to call on will make a woman use the last option which is sex for money.

Sometimes naa to just look away, do your job and try to sleep at night without thinking too much about what you have seen

I disagree with word poverty, better use the phrase... . lack of contentment

You can see chidinma dad tried to close-marking and monitoring her and he believed his child is a good girl, reason he resisted arrest. But the girl is not satisfy with what dad can provide even though poverty not ravaging them.

Meanwhile people result to all kind of sex becos they don't see it as sacred as it used to be and no thank to modernisation and Advent of smart phone / social medial.

am a manager of one small hotel in Abuja here and as am typing this comment now inside this cold weather one married man is knacking one side chick right now in one of my rooms ......some will even call ask for the manger then Conner you one side and ask you get something for me na toto e the find so oo

I manage a hotel!!!! Believe me !! There are no longer decent girls in this generation!!! And it will keep getting worst!!! U see the level of cheating amongst the so called married men!!! Na only God fit judge them!!

dex4sure:



I worked in the hotel for 8months, the things i saw in that hotel is horrible

Tell us the ones that you can hardly forget

Fiscus105:



I disagree with word poverty, better use the phrase... . lack of contentment

Meanwhile people result to all kind of sex becos they don't see it as sacred as it used to be and no thank to modernisation and Advent of smart phone / social medial.

Sir there was a night a man brought a woman.(they used to come often) After the sex he gave her 1,500. The woman told him straight that whats the meaning of what he gave him. That didn't he know she came there because she needed to get drugs for her child..
That even the money, 600 has already eaten into the transportation.

Womanizer:


So long as its consensual sex between adults I see nothing wrong there

Your moniker is enough to prove your statement right without stating it.

doggedfighter:
Seems your major preoccupation and work is monitoring immorality in your place.

You use the word 'immorality' like Deeper Life members

The eyes isn't tired of seeing...every blink of an eye Is a shot taken to the Brain (memory)...At your place of work it's good to be observant generally...I like what he shared,I can imagine it all...truly people have gone nuts in recent time,when u see some things in hotels,u will be marvelled.

A man's seed is his life force. Men in their 20's and 30's are not supposed to released their sperm more than 4 times monthly except they learn how to channel the energy that comes with orgasm to a productive endeavor.



That's why a lot of men hardly crosses age of 80. At the age of 60, they develop one disease or the other.

I don't know about others, multiple partners complicates life.

The little I've seen, very little.o
always calm, Innocent, pretty, "all other adjectives" but POOR.

I fear pretty broke girls that forbid humble beginnings.

Oga face your work or go and look for another job in your church!!!!...stop being monitoring spirit!

Op, this world is a very big place, so you can not generalize on your conclusion, base on your own little experience that the generation is bleep, that there are no more good people. there are still Godly people, God fearing people and there are bad people. it is what you see, the environment and feed your mind is what you perceive life to be

CHoccolaTE:


That's how these hopeless goats keep infecting their wives with different stds and aids sef.
There is one man who died recently, infected his wife with hiv and both of them didn't know they were infected or even took treatment until it became full blown AIDS.
To insult women go dey sweet men but they are the ones who sleep around the most.

Same way men are the one who spend the most, so therefore, they get insulted the most. If he doesn't spend, women will not embezzle. And that's if its true that it is men that sleep the most, which i doubt. Even if its true, then its a tiny subset of males that sleep with most of the women. Just like everything in life, pareto principle applies.

And I challenge your stance that it is men that sleep the most. That is not true. Most men are either too broke, not attractive enough, and totally invisible to most women. A simple mental test you can do right now is this, "do you find most or few men attractive"? Of course the answer is no.

Trying to equate promiscuity to men is like blaming the goat for eating your yam, when you kept it carelessly outside. It is the responsibility of the possessor of value to safeguard it, not the beneficiary.

Tofax:


It seems you've developed some kind of mindset of "i'm holy in an unholy environment, nothing good will ever happen here."
I've managed a 5 star hotel for 5yrs & most of what you wrote there are false.I can confidently say some managers are very professional in their job. Not every men & woman that lodge in a hotel come for sexual or illicit activity. I believe your job description doesn't entails monitoring & taking notes of what adults do with their lives when they lodge in a hotel, or is it?

Oga in a 5star hotel you might not experience it ooo

Go to minimum, "1/2 star hotel ( mo saa fun e to) you would see more than enough


Women are more than ever ready to satisfy man sexual curiosity, provided decent cash is involved

Ishilove:

I am amazed, really. Maybe he works in short time hotels.

I don't who's more naive , u or the guy u quoted. So coz there's a five start hotel means ppl shouldn't use the 2star hotels abi? In a country with high rate of proverty you want to do a survey and you use a 5star hotel? Cold dey catch una brain

BrazilAirport:

Sir there was a night a man brought a woman.(they used to come often) After the sex he gave her 1,500. The woman told him straight that whats the meaning of what he gave him. That didn't he know she came there because she needed to get drugs for her child..
That even the money, 600 has already eaten into the transportation.

I'm not saying poverty not one of reasons, but 90% is as a result of ojukokoro(contentment)

Bro e get as e be the life don spoil kpata kpata

. These guys with their money have been able to bring out the slut in girls. You see them doing all sort of things with our regular Nigerian girls in the street carrying face like they don't know anything.


Hmmm oga oooo

Fiscus105:

I'm not saying poverty not one of reasons, but 90% is as a result of ojukokoro(contentment)

you are right
Yes it's also part of it.

angelfallz:
There's nothing to weep about. There are many good virgins girls. Throw away that mentality that all the girls are doing it.

This is exactly what guys don't know ... for millions of sluts there are millions of Holy girls but they may not be the one enticing, body revealing dress ... they are those ones you may not find attractive because their make up may not balance ... they are the one too studious to even remember their dress sense ... too preoccupied to even remember to fix their hair...

They are the one you find opinionated and too smart for your Brain ... They are the one you called rigid because you can't speak to her level of intelligence.... They are the one that scares you because of her Career and she won't come down to your level for one cent ....
They are the one you find not attractive but their brain is quite sharp ....

Go for the Brain not just the Body ...... A slut can't disguise for long to a sane dude except to a sluttish dude .... a sane dude/gal will know something is not adding up !

@poster. What you saw is true, but do not make the mistake of extrapolating it to the whole populace. For example if you work as soldier, you'll see lots of death, blood and dismembered body that will shake the core of your being, making you see normal people as monster capable of unimaginable terror if opportuned, but its nothing more of confirmation bias.

What you said have been happening for long, it's not new, you just have the chance to experience it. There are lots of wonderful men and women out there, decent, virtuous and responsible. If you're in such midst, you'll think everyone is also like that. Nevertheless, your experience should be a telling sign for people to be mindful and not assume everyone is as decent as them.

Some of those who have commented before me have committed sexual immoralities as related by OP. Some, in their mind, are saying "my own no bad like this," some are saying, "na normal thing now," some are regretting their past acts, some are saying nothing dey happen".


This I have imagined.
And my imaginations do have elements of truth.

The poster is right, and only narrated a tip of the iceberg on this matter!


Bottom line as someone added in his comment: Who no come, no go know.

Lol...you needn't work in a hotel to witness all these, it's a regular happenings in the neighborhood.

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