kpompey:


People like you are the irresponsible husband, 75% sure if we investigate this. #1 he will not drop.Full of mouth.

You mean am ?
Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was inclusive of food stuff

Which markets she dey buy things? This is how you spoils women. When she was living with her father with many children, ask her how much her father dropped for her mother before she her self got married?

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

Na lie abeg there is something else she is using that money....the husband,a baby of less tha . two years and another 9yrs..
Na elephants she the feed?
Is she the only one going to the market?
What happened to her salary,what is her contributions in all this?
She is nothing but a selfish lady if i were the op she will not see anything more than that 50k....i hate women that thinks they are born to enjoy man's sweat without contribution.


I cannot/cannever get hbp because of someone's daughter.

Sadly, he married one of the Jezebels. That woman is bent on destroying him.
When his business finally fails , her true colors will show. She will certainly make him feel worthless.
You better stamp your feet down as a man. If she changes for the better, fine. If she still decides to make her husband’s life MISERABLE, he better kick her out for better training in her father’s house.

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

What is her own usefulness of she can't add extra #15000 to it to augment?

efficiencie:


Reason wetin. You for sey make d man go kill himself na. Did you read the post? The man foots all other bills and buy food for the home outside the 50k. That woman is an ingrate and if she is not careful a side chick that has not seen 30k per month will snatch her man easily. She had better snap out of that childish mentality and start being a wife. Wives support their husbands and not constitute a threat to his wellbeing. She is lucky!

Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

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BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.



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Please He Needs Advice.

safarigirl:

You no read the story complete

The wife has a job, she's just greedy

Thanks.
She's a thief.

Kajaard:

You nairalanders only read headlines and rush to contribute.
The wife works and has a good job.

No vex, I just dey road dey go house and traffic is crazy.

Newton2024:
She might be saving.

Very possible.

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

Shut up. . I mean shut up. .

You spend more than 50k in a week. . On what necessity please? Can't the woman also get a job or biz to support the man?

zedegit:


What is her own usefulness of she can't add extra #15000 to it to augment?

Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

My people, please learn to read before you comment. Learn to listen before you talk. That is the root of our problem in Nigeria, not Buhari

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

O boy you are not in that young man position. 50k can be managed by a family of six even in this harsh economy. The wife work also can't she support the husband?. Well, the problem with most young married men is that they are not strict with their wives when it comes to family economy. For me i am a down to the earth person. Women don't need petting in some areas if not they can send some one back to the village and they will still haul all the balme on the man.

BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.



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Please He Needs Advice.

Make e use am do ritual jare!

MrMcJay:

Thanks.
She's a thief.



No vex, I just road dey go house and traffic is crazy.

No worries bro

Commanderinpips:


O boy you are not in that young man position. 50k can be managed by a family of six even in this harsh economy. The wife work also can't she support the husband?. Well, the problem with most young married men is that they are not strict with their wives when it comes to family economy. For me i am a down to the earth person. Women don't need petting in some areas if not they can send some one back to the village and they will still haul all the balme on the man.

Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

Cardealer2021:
The truth is that with Nigeria current economy 50k(less than a $100) can't sustain a family of four, make the husband reason am
*She will buy food stuff
*Transport
*Snacks for the kids and miscellaneous on her own side.
Let the man make it like 70k at least.

Even me single guy with no responsibility spend more than that a week sometimes not to talk of family of 4

Modified:
Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

u end up saying notin...

BluntNigerian:
FROM MY INBOX.


.. .. Please He Needs Advice.

Why some man month payment is below #30,000 .

Basicend:


Shut up. . I mean shut up. .

You spend more than 50k in a week. . On what necessity please? Can't the woman also get a job or biz to support the man?

Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

Dear poster,

This is an easy problem to resolve. I am sharing this with you as someone who also supports the wife monthly.

You have given her 50k for the past two years? From your perspective are prices still same across Nigeria in the last two years? Inflation is on the high side and you need to consider her request more compassionately.

Here is what you can do. Both of you should seat and plan how to increase your family income. Either she starts a business or you check for a new job. You need to respond to her more compassionately showing that you understand that things are on the high side.

Responding without compassion would make her feel you think she is spending your money on something else or stealing from you.

God has special favour on the marriage union when the couples are united. So you should both agree and pray on how to increase your income. This can be resolved easily.

God bless your home.

Goldbw122:
Well before you marry her, I know that you it was manageable because the country was easy before but now the country is a more complex situation now, we are at war in a silent way, 50k will not be enough to take care of family a month trust me, she is not doing any job, so how will she cope.. and everything rely on you.. so there is a problem, so you need to fix the problem by telling her to start a job or do something like a trade.. and make something good..

You didn't even read the write-up before giving your half baked advice.

Didn't you see where he said he gives her #1000 as transportation to work?

esanmantruth:
Which markets she dey buy things? This is how you spoils women. When she was living with her father with many children, ask her how much her father dropped for her mother before she her self got married?

The thing taya me o...some women are just parasites and devourers in nature...if you check now she is saving that money in her account for only God know why without the husband's knowledge..or she is busy feeding one dick with part of the money..

If you want to marry a "wife" go to UROMI....

Most of this girls are ex oloshos that has zero management skills.

Hhmm.. family issues. OK, let's get practical. You said the money is for the food y'all eat and nothing else, right? At the core of the issue here is the fact that you believe she's using it for her personal stuff. Since she dared you to go the market and ask the prices of food stuff, could you actually do that? I mean, she said that cause she knew or thought you wouldn't do it, why not shock her by going to market to get the actual prices of food items? This way, you'd know for sure she's cheating and she'd also know she can't easily play you like that next time. If you don't know much about food stuff, ask a friend to help you.

The goal here is to make data driven decisions. It's not enough to say your wife doesn't appreciate the money you give to her. The money is for the family, not for her. N50K is big and we're likely going conclude she's keeping some of it to herself. But what we don't know for sure is your living standard. We don't know what you expect to see on the table when you get home, the kind of drinks you take, etc. That's why you alone can tell if she's actually cheating or not. Do a little market survey and watch her jaw drop if she's guilty.

Good luck!

Mercychen:


True now.

She see who give her Sha.

Frugality is the word I was looking for. Are you married madam ?.

If a girl cant share 10naira with you, she can never support you financially when you marry.


Guys please date a woman who is a giver.

Toktee:
Na lie abeg there is something else she is using that money....the husband,a baby of less tha . two years and another 9yrs..
Na elephants she the feed?
Is she the only one going to the market?
What happened to her salary,what is her contributions in all this?
She is nothing but a selfish lady if i were the op she will not see anything more than that 50k....i hate women that thinks they are born to enjoy man's sweat without contribution.


I cannot/cannever get hbp because of someone's daughter.

Abeg forgive me I didn't even read the part that the lady also has salary.
Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep

I will advise you divide the monthly allowance and make it weekly(12,250) . Am sure she will be able to manage it better . However you should also try to increase it to N60,000 because of the high price of commodities. If you can afford to remove N50,000 from your business, an extra N10,000 should not be an issue.
Am sure she will appreciate an increase of N10,000 in the short run. Atleast peace will rain for something because pushing for higher allowances

Money too small. Give her 50k per week country hard

It is not all women that know the value of what their husband or boyfriend give to them
If she has been spending more than that value or exact value when you guys are not yet married.
It will be hard to value it now

I think you need to sit her up and talk things together