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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by PROPEACE: 8:01pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:Next time read before spewing trash! |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by kenzysmith: 8:01pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Malory:maybe Her Dad his wealthy |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Harddiskng(m): 8:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: Lool when your wife is also good earning You are a joker! Sir |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 8:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
PROPEACE:Okay 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Thinktwicemybro: 8:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen:You are wrong. Your are obviously not married. The problem is the man. 50k a month is average of 6k every market day. That cannot feed a family of 4 when you have to buy rice, oil, grandnut oil and beans out of it. Why I say the man is at fault? He should not make his wife a full time house wife. He should open business for her. If what's the business brings a month is 30k profit for instance, that will make the total 80k and she won't complain again. A man should not complain when they make their wife full time house wife, except she is lazy and refuse to work, then the man can complain. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by PROPEACE: 8:02pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Goldbw122:Did you not read where he said she has a good job? Read or shut the fuçk up! |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by WoundedLamb: 8:03pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
esanmantruth: But we need to ask ourselves, did her father have the same standard of living as her husband, the OP? We don't know the kind of things OP eats, the kind drinks he takes, etc. 50k is big but it's not up to N1,500 per day and depending on the family lifestyle, that may not be much. That's why only the OP can tell if the wife is cheating or not. I suggest he shocks her with a market survey based on what the family eats and see what her defence would then be. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kajaard: 8:03pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
harsysky: You were making little sense until you ended it with that: one yahoo guy of 17yrs go carry your wife. That's absolute nonsense. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by esanmantruth: 8:03pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Na you first start am. Marriage is of two not one person. Children are not much she is saying all this? Market days normally is every 4 to 5 days right? Now if we have 6 market days a month that means you are sending her market with 9k every month. The truth is that do you have everything in the house like grand-nut oil and red oil with other things ? My brother the truth is that it will not be enough but you must teach her how to manage, because baby food will still be there. Just try and encourage her and she should learn how to manage pls. Is not easy this time. Please she still need to bring her money into the family because if you start it alone like this you will faint and die. Many are working both couples earned less than 60k and with 3 children and they will pay school fees, house rent and other things but still happy and okay. Change your plans learn to buy everything at home and be giving her just 5k every 5 days to buy only meat or fish to cook the food. BluntNigerian: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Toktee(m): 8:04pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
on4a:Ask your self this oga...how many people is she feeding with 50k? The poster buys rice,pay bills outside this 50k yet she is complaining for what? What and what did she normally buys with 50k? 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by abbey621(m): 8:04pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Did you marry your wife or did she marry you? This question is very important because based on the answer you'll be able to get appropriate advice. If she's the one that married you, basically she did your ugly babboon looking ass a favor and she's out of your league then my broda step up your game or she'll leave your ass. Now if you're a real nigga and you married her then for freaking sake MAN UP! Even if you no get shin shin, she has no right to disrespect you but that's not even the case here. You dey drop 50k, dey buy food items dey pay for utilities and extras and she still carry fire head? Make I no talk say thunder fire her left yansh . Guy listen well and listen well well, you are already exhibiting signs of serious health conditions, no woman no matter how much you love her is worth dying over. I repeat NO WOMAN! First thing is first, take back control of your home by sitting her down and laying down your grievances, if she refuses to yield, tell those grievances to her parents or family memebrs, if that also fails, find someone she respects and let it be known to him or her. Finally, if all else fails, create space. Leave on a trip of one month or more, NO DROP SHIN SHIN, I repeat NO DROP SHIN SHIN. What you'll realize is that she'll do one of two things when you return, she'll either have a brain reset and appreciate what you have been given her or she'll leave. Either way the problem goes away. For a woman that appreciates the days of 50k will surely appreciate the days of 200k and one that does not appreciate the days of 50k, will surely leave your ass sooner or later........PEACE! 1 Like
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Ombudsman1: 8:04pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: Try dey read things well, make them no go kill you 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Tie ba e!!! |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Thinktwicemybro: The man buys the basic foodstuff. Read it again. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Seankhalifa: 8:06pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen:oil dey ur head... because this guy dey among the middle class in Nigeria... plenty people no fit give 50k for food stuff and she dey work join.... he should just tell her to add from her salary... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by MPESA(m): 8:06pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: Please irrespective of your modification, how much are you giving to your wife every month if 50k is too small?. Apart from 50k for feeding another 30k for her transport on daily totalling 80k per month... Hopefully you are giving your family more than 80k per month, if not kindly delete your post. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Jmichael1(m): 8:06pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Toktee: my kind of niggar...notin do u bro 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kajaard: 8:07pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Ombudsman1: Lol |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 8:07pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Ombudsman1:As in bro the mood when I take first open thread na very bad mood, so I no fit comprehend anything I be think say the 50k na for foodstuffs and the wife upkeep |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Thinktwicemybro: 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen:He buys only rice. Either way, he cannot carry the family load alone. The woman should start business. Women like certain independence. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by reidkrugger(m): 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
chatinent: You try, but I was thinking something like agonyi ewa 100 in the morning plus bread 100. She skips noon, we get together in the evening for dinner. Sometimes you fit jus do her 010. Na noise she go make. After like 6mths or 1year, she go use her brain. Na she go de advice you sef. Be guarded though, you could lose her in the process as in make she pack out. So think am well. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Mrbenny001: 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
What does couples discuss when they are together, Or when they are on bed before sleeping at night... No matter how much you give a woman with no plan, no communication... infact she is even working... how much is she putting into family upkeep...how do people have joy in being irresponsible. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Emmanuel30a: 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:O man... What d victim(husband) is giving 2 her wife is manageable & reasonable.The wife can assist with her own money 2 compliment d husband. Imagine giving 50000 just 4 food per/month- the wife can compliment it with 15000-20000. Imagine other expenses man would always come across including daily #1000 4 wifes' transport fare. Cut ur cloth according 2 ur size&available material... There is no need 2 buy d cloth let alone cut it if or when d available material is not up 2 ur size. Manage ur marriage dont damage it.But y marry without talking abt how&what Harry(H)&Mary(W) wud carry? 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Toktee(m): 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:No sir.... It is well. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by seyz91(m): 8:09pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Read the thread well before commenting The lady works and a good job at that and the man also gives her 1k daily for her transport Goldbw122: 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by maak400: 8:10pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Don't mind him, he's a bloody liar. BluntNigerian: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by andyanders: 8:10pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Goldbw122:Why can't u read and comprehend what op stated? That he gets bulk food items. She works and he gives her #1k everyday. She is a thief. Op, make sure u grow ur income to the like of dangote, if not, ur wife will take off, or start fvcking outside to get money. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by nnenwa5: 8:10pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Since the Lady is working, she should help out. Anywhere the 50k finish, let her continue from there with her own money. When I was a stay-at-home, aka housewife. It is from the savings from the upkeep money that I use to supplement before month-end. I understand her plight because I have been there, but she needs to consider the man's income and use that to plan. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by jagjag: 8:10pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
This will be really hard on you. You need to stop giving her money for a while. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by slimjohn2k5: 8:11pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Sincerely it is not easy. I give my wife 60k, we HV a baby but it is not enough 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by wallrichy: 8:12pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
I love your contribution but that wouldn't bring any peace to this guy for now. Remember he has HBP already and doesn't need any aggravation right now. Some women don't know or appreciate a good husband when they have one on a platter of gold. Who get cap no get head kind of situation. Mercychen: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by ransomed: 8:12pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Stop giving her 1k every day, increase the monthly kitchen budget to 70k and let her return the boy to his parents. Whoever can kpekus and it results to a baby should be able to father the baby. Do not listen to sentimental plea from an unappreciative Eve. 1 Like |
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