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Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 7:14pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
You asked him N5,000, and your dad told you he will give you in the morning before he leaves for work. This was after he has thoroughly scrutinized what you needed the money for, all the questions he asked were already making you angry. Throughout the night your dad couldn't sleep because he was thinking as to why he must sacrifice his last N5,000 for you In the morning he calls you into his room and give you N4,500-00 instead of N5,000-00 You were not happy and squeezed your face in discontent, and reluctantly said thank you after complaining that it was not all you requested Your mum after seeing this does not utter a word but meets you in your room where your dad is not present and give you N500 from her own money and say "don't mind him, add this to meet your needs . You began to smile and quickly run to Facebook, Instagram and WhatsApp to write. "I have the best mum in the world, I love my mum". Now your dad had gone out with just N250 in his pocket with no fuel in his car. Because of you, he uses public transport that day to work. He gives your mum N250 to enable her handle any emergency while he is away. At work, he worked overtime. After closing late, everyone keeps saying "daddy is never always around except mum". Your good dad will never allow you to see how much he suffers for the family because he is a MAN. Always try to appreciate your dad your husband and brothers. It's not easy at all. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by chatinent: 7:16pm On Aug 28, 2022 |
What of we who suffered from small ourselves? 2 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 6:44pm On Sep 03, 2022 |
chatinent:I don't understand |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by HarunaWest(m): 11:55pm On Sep 04, 2022 |
chatinent:Appreciate yourself then. 3 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by 2Radii: 5:06am On Sep 05, 2022 |
chatinent:that one is different oga. If u have a genuine father pls appreciate him, if he's not den relegate him. In general, what op is saying is that the effort of the father deserve great appreciation. I used to tell people, when mother dies, the children would miss the closeness of their mum to them but life continues. But when father dies, everytin in the family crumbles, the children start suffering, the ladies among them start doing coded oloshow. Why?? They lack the father figure which they didn't realize when he was alive but are force to realise wen he dies. There is one lady i met, she was ill and mommy refuse to send her money for hospital bill, i told her to call hus daddy she said daddy is no more, that if not he wouldn't have bn like this. Then i ask her to go back to mum, afterall mum are the best tins after oxygen, she went mute Not discrediting mum in anyways, but bn a father mysef, i know how it drills. 4 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 10:03pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by HarunaWest(m): 11:22pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 6:49am On Jan 11, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by HarunaWest(m): 8:42am On Jan 11, 2023 |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by Foodqueen(f): 5:11pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Very true. 1 Like |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 11:31pm On Jan 11, 2023 |
Foodqueen:Being a dad is a thankless job |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:32am On Jan 12, 2023 |
2Radii: you nailed it i also mentioned it in one of the thread, that children tend to see with thier own eyes what the mum does eg selling fruits but they dont see the working of the father raising the money for wife to have money to start fruit selling hustle, or the small monies daddy brings in Remember the saying when a women start providing for the family the whole village will know. but when men is providing for his family there is no one to whistles about it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by luvyaself95(m): 7:56am On Mar 15, 2023 |
In whatever and whatsoever father are the best they will surely teach you one thing about life whether bad or good. 2 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 10:01am On Mar 24, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by wunmi590(m): 12:35pm On Mar 24, 2023 |
In my next life nah to just go and become a Rev. Fr sure pass 1 Like |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 12:48pm On Mar 24, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by Kobojunkie: 12:51pm On Mar 24, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by Nazgul: 5:19pm On Mar 24, 2023 |
The major reason why most kids are closer to their moms is because a lot of dads out there don't bother to build working relationships with them. They just settle the bills and move on. Whereras the mom is there all day with them, moulding or manipulating them to love her more. When I was growing up I hardly knew my dad, in fact he was almost like a stranger to me, cos by the time he comes back from work, it's very late and I'll already be in bed sleeping. I began appreciating him when I started growing older, and saw the magnitude of sacrifice he was putting into the family. Father's should learn to cultivate the habit of spending quality time with their kids as well. The quality time most men spend in bars, clubs, hotels...etc, if they devout it to building working relationships with their kids, believe me, those children would love and appreciate them till death. Take them out on weekends, talk to them, tell them stories, crack jokes, take pictures, play games...etc. If your impact and presence on your kids is only felt when you're dead, it means you failed them as a father during your lifetime. 4 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by malaria(f): 5:38pm On Mar 24, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 4:05pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
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Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by bukatyne(f): 5:21pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Nazgul: Well said. A number of women are sole providers and still manage to build a relationship with their kids. The excuse of daddy is working hence not available is so 20th Century. 1 Like |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 5:27pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
bukatyne:Have you worked on the Island and you stay on the mainland? |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by bukatyne(f): 5:33pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
lavylilly: Do only men work on the Island and stay on the Mainland? Sis, don't let any man gaslight (who knew I would use this word ) you with his unwillingness to engage his family. I know a number of mothers working the Island/Mainland daily and the number of hoops they cross to be there for their kids in their little capacity. Same man who doesn't 'have time' for family has time for friends, football, work extra curricular activities, other affairs, clubbing, movie nights, game nights etc. Don't let them deceive you. They will make time for what they deem important. 2 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by Kobojunkie: 5:41pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
lavylilly:Dads who are involved in the lives of their kids receive the thanks they deserve. 1 Like |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 5:51pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Really? how many dads in Nigeria work only Mon-Friday aside from Govt workers? Kobojunkie: |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by Kobojunkie: 6:00pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
lavylilly:There are equally mothers who run the same schedules are these dads you mention yet they make out time to cook and take care of their kids. So, I am not certain what you are driving at here. This is all a case of you getting what you put in and nothing more. 2 Likes |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by bukatyne(f): 10:48pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
lavylilly: Won ti gbe baby yi ni handicap sha. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 1 Like |
Re: Always Try To Appreciate Your Daddy by lavylilly: 1:58pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
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