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Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG: While I'm not in support of a divorce, you don't tell a man such an expensive lie and expect him to accept it and move on cos he's a "man" come on. God forbid, if a lady hid her HIV+ status from you, would you also be a man and accept it? Can we be honest for once in this country and stop sweeping things under the carpet? If the guy was AS, that's how they'd give birth to an SS baby, please let's be sensible in our judgements. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by AreaFada2: 11:25pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
weslay:True, but what of her health issues? Can they afford the care if she gets ill? And the regular blood transfusions? Yes we should de-stigmatise illnesses and recognise improved life expectancy with good management. But it is not a journey anyone should embark on based on deception. If the guy knew, great. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by nedekid: 11:26pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
First and foremost, has he checked to see if the child is SS? What is his own genotype? |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by kingsceemark(m): 11:26pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Deeprooted: He's going nowhere oooo, the marriage must continue |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Paulheyman: 11:27pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Gbogbowa: Many. I have met two. One only knew he is SS during marriage mandatory test by the Catholic church. The second one was already through with youth service and went for mountain climbing. I have also, witnessed an AS that had sickle cell crisis, she went for the same mountain climbing. My experience though yours may differ |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by kay29000(m): 11:29pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
flourishing247: You're correct... I had to go check her out on Instagram. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by alingo2013(m): 11:30pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Deeprooted:Wahala |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by alingo2013(m): 11:32pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Justbehave: 😂😂🤣🤣 DEY PLAY 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Paulheyman: 11:33pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
AreaFada2: Misconceptions about SS 1) not all sicklers needs transfusion. 2) not all sicklers are thin with protruding stomach 3) not all sicklers have vaso-occlusive crisis 4) life expectancy in sickle cell disease have improved tremendously over the years. Male 50-60, female 60-70. 5) on stress: not all sicklers have crisis when subjected to physical stress 6) With advances in science any sickler who is judiciously taking his medication and visit the clinics at least once in two months will look strong and healthy. Note: I am talking from experience. I am a sickle cell patient with a PhD 10 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Birminghamvirgo(m): 11:35pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
@OP, your brother wasn't deceived, he only failed to do his due diligence... Hence, the penalty for being lackadaisical 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by mastermaestro(m): 11:35pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Justbehave: You haven't seen. Maybe, you are only used to seeing the tiny-looking ones. I personally know a girl whose genotype is SS, but she looks very beautiful and fleshy. Her parents are doing very well. They have done a good job in caring for her. If she didn't tell you, you would never know in a million years. It all comes down to prompt, quality care. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by POTUS9ja(m): 11:38pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
If your brother is AA, he needs have no fear for sickler children. Besides I'm aware and of the fact that SS is no longer a threat. There is underground cure here in Nigeria with testimonies and proofs. I am a publicity consultant for the specialist. 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by jekky10(m): 11:41pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
flourishing247: Don’t mind him no one knew AdeKunle Good was SS until he speak out last year |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by POTUS9ja(m): 11:41pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Woow! Thanks for contributing. Very motivational. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by zedegit: 11:41pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Shalommy: He was deceived according to op |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by LZAA: 11:42pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
FreeStuffsNG:Shatap |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by donhils: 11:42pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Deeprooted:Then there's no need for them to remain in the marriage cos it's going to end in tears. The lady is also wicked, why will she fake result in such a delicate matter? All because she wants to get married at all cost |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by BlueDuck: 11:45pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Deeprooted: If he's so set and ready for divorce it means he never loved her from the first instance...they deserve each other lol |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Agunesinjaweola: 11:45pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Deeprooted: Marrying SS woman should not be a BIG DEAL If you're an AA and an SS Man or Woman too deserve life just like our family or relatives and we should not stigmatise them. Go for your own test and If you're an AA, you have no reason to leave the marriage. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by hezekiah84(m): 11:50pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
Do medical test before wedding,they said no.This is the end result.Just tell your brother to exercise patience because she has few years to live before he can now decide to marry another babe |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by crossbreedwears(m): 11:54pm On Jan 23, 2023 |
It's chronic SS that shows physical and eyes colours. Adekunle Gold is SS but he doesn't look like one Justbehave: 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by AreaFada2: 12:02am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Paulheyman: PhD in Pathology? Haemoglobinopathy? Hemopathology? Haematology? How will the hubby know to what extent the lady is affected or crisis that could arise? Do we know if the guy is a carrier and may fear for their kids in the future? Dude, I am familiar with the roll out of perhaps the most advanced SCD treatment in recent decades. You may have experience with your own condition but I have seen dozens of kids suffer severely and families strained by it. Also some who hitherto managed well but had serious issues in their 30s. Unless you can honestly answer one of the above in the affirmative. Even in climes with excellent care and ground-breaking research, it is still not done with levity. The main issue here is the deception. Just because HIV can be managed well now is no excuse to conceal its infection from a spouse. Would you like your brother to be deceived into such a marriage, misconception or not? 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by BigIyanga: 12:08am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:Tell your bro to continue since he was too busy to go check genotype with his partner. You are also absolving your brother of his responsibility. He failed from Day 1 |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by iezeiyida(m): 12:08am On Jan 24, 2023 |
See negligence o Some people don't really take serious life-issues serious. Anyway, if they have money, and your brother's Genotype is AA and he has the right Blood group too, the couple can have up to 3 healthy children.. All they need do is meeting and allowing expert haematologists to educate, guide and assist them in making it a reality |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Lexusgs430: 12:15am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Where that guy wey wan use prayer & supplication, change this SS to AA .............😜😂 |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Vello(m): 12:17am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:The woman is most likely an Oyo or Ogun State indigene. They are just too manipulative and dishonest. I am saying this from personal experience. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Regex: 12:26am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: Damn. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Johnn78: 12:41am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Love is sweet and blind |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by TheGiftedOne(m): 12:44am On Jan 24, 2023 |
This life sha! Me and wifey dey here dey write AA AA for wall when person dey find one A to dey alright. Our parents didn't even do any test, na you jam love you marry. Thank God fit this my genotype ooo. Even my wife's fam are all A's. Life is not fair. Modified: " for better for worse, in sickness in health" I hope those lines you recited during the vows doesn't sound like an anthem. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by charles614: 12:46am On Jan 24, 2023 |
No try am, As+As will be mixed with As and ss Enddy50ty: |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Memberclub(m): 12:53am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Justbehave:these niggas think we all here are dumbAss or something 🤣 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by toprealman: 1:03am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Shalommy:Nah, it is not necessary at this point. Deceptive people should be left alone. |
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