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Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by pocohantas(f): 3:44pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary: But “some people” claim they are not benefitting from marriage. When almost every fragment of our culture as a people was designed for them. 2 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Kobojunkie: 3:45pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary:Society isn't always to blame. If women no step up for themselves, who go do am for them? The men who no give a damn? 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Nobody: 3:47pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:how that human being wan take survive? |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by pocohantas(f): 3:48pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Well said. She can choose to live and leave. It is up to her. I don’t know why married women act like they were disowned by their parents at the point of marriage. Such that they have to die in the man’s house. 2 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by ibechris(m): 3:53pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Most times being single is a bliss. U fell into their useless trap. Sorry,for all that u are going through. |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 3:57pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
ahnie: She's actually surrounded by selfish people |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Kobojunkie: 3:58pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
patoski39:Is she surviving as we speak? Does the OP's situation read like a sane one to you? 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Kobojunkie: 3:59pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary:No be selfishness carry her dey born pikin for inside the same situation? Abegi! 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:05pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: That's why I'm harsh sometimes, because crasepeople plenty for this Naija. I remember back in 2016, I was in the process of breaking up with someone, he tried fighting it, so he sent one man to me, I refused to budge, thank God the man respected himself and kept quiet, if not, I was planning to tell him to give the person his 16 year old daughter instead of me. It's just so exhausting to have this society that is hell bent on making women's lives difficult, fighting for myself everyday, mhen, e hard. 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Nobody: 4:06pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:does she sound like somebody that can afford tfare to run? Talk more of feeding herself and her baby? |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:13pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Ah, now it's looking as if I'm making excuses for OP, I'm not. On the contrary, I think she is putting all the blame on her pastor and husband, she has not accepted her responsibility in the problem. 1. Accepting to marry someone she doesn't love 2. Shoddy family planning 3. Taking more than her fair share of home responsibility 4. Refusing to walk away from a horrible marriage 5. Listening to wicked advisers. These are the few things I can observe from her posts. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:14pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
patoski39: You want to give her tfare ni? Tell her to visit the welfare office in the local police department or local government office. 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by UselessBuharist: 4:16pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Makakween: The way you women sees your pastor as God is funny. 2 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:16pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
pocohantas: It's shame, the earlier people drop shame, the better. 2 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:17pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
UselessBuharist: So, you want to lump all women into the same category because of one woman. No be every woman dey worship pastor 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Kobojunkie: 4:19pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary:In 2023, there ought to be no more excuses left for why a woman would choose to sit tight in a situation she already knows is going no where in her favor. Society is no longer to blame as it is more than clear at this point that marriage was never meant as a prison for anyone including women. 2 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Nobody: 4:20pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Op's story is very touching . Ndo The man's attitude is very annoying though. What will Op do now? 3 Likes
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Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Kobojunkie: 4:20pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
UselessBuharist:See this one! You think say na only women dey fall for those conmen? 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by UselessBuharist: 4:21pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary: Nor be all women I know but women easily fall for that bull crap |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:21pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
pocohantas: Buhahahahaha You struck a cord right there The submission is not enough naw If women can lie down for them to walk on, it's acceptable to them. How dare women think they are supposed to be treated like humans? How dare women ask for more? Shebi they are working night and day Omoh, the matter tie wrapper. |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:23pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
UselessBuharist: Easily ke, for where? Maybe we are looking at different kinds of women o, because, nobody has time for that nonsense |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 4:24pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Loud it for those women at the back jare |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by pocohantas(f): 4:41pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary: And the women are at home sleeping. It is only on NL that men work and all their wives are jobless. All around me I see working women. So, I don’t know why they still use that as an excuse to misbehave without remorese. But then, that is for women that would pick them. From my careful analysis of the ones we have here, they don’t even have much to offer a woman who knows her onions. 3 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Nobody: 5:05pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Makakween: I am pretty sure you will get pregnant again. When we tell people to do proper courtship and planning before jumping into marriage and start having kids, they never listen. They always listen to their mumu and illiterate pastors, now the sad outcome is inevitable. |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Nobody: 5:06pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You are on point 100%. They never learn. 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I never listen to any of those pastors, i don't listen to people who do not have real jobs or career. Most are frauds and illiterates anyways. |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Kobojunkie: 5:19pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Skyview01:Na unemployment mostly dey make many enter that line of business anyways. If not, no sane individual would claim say him be pastor or mog. 2 Likes |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Saintmary(f): 5:35pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
pocohantas: There is something called arrested development. Some people are 45 years of age, but psychologically, they stopped developing at 12 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by Mindlog: 6:17pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary: 😆😆😆😆😆😆 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by pocohantas(f): 6:20pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary: 🤣🤣🤣 1 Like |
Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by ahnie: 8:04pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
Saintmary:Free meme. Women oye!!!!
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Re: These Is Breaking Me,i Need Someone To Talk To!!! by ahnie: 8:06pm On Feb 03, 2023 |
pocohantas:Do not forget that .... for better for worst was signed. The bible frown against divorce poco marriage is a woman's birth right. Pls leave us to die in our toxic marriages |
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