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Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 2:51pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Good morning, |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Shokoloko(f): 3:13pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55:Why are you bringing this up 4 months later? School sessions would have already started. 4 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by budaatum: 3:19pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Notice how you claim "she gave birth to a baby girl last January", instead of admitting you fathered a baby! What makes you think you can tell her what to do? Can't you take care of the baby girl she gave birth to? 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 3:19pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Shokoloko: School starts in September |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 3:20pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by budaatum: 3:25pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55: Then start learning how to go about it. No one is born with the know how, and many learn on the job. 6 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Klass99(f): 3:27pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 3:29pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by mrrandomguy: 3:30pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Why can't she travel with the baby? Let her travel with her. Something tells me she will abandon the child if she leaves without her, and that she will dump your sorry ass when she gets to the UK. Don't be a SIMP a third time. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 3:33pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
mrrandomguy: Thanks sir, I feel so too,but she says she won't be able to work and support herself in the uk if she goes with the baby. |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Candidlady: 3:39pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
mrrandomguy: You guys over think things all in the name of bin woke or some redpill ideology... So taking care of his responsibility means he is a simp Bloody biri 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 3:44pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Candidlady: Please can u offer an advice |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Klass99(f): 3:44pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Candidlady: 3:52pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55: Don't you or the lady have any family member... Since the kid in question is a girl child iwould never advice that the girl be in your custody, while her mum is away(don't blame my trust issues) Just try to reason with any of your family members Your sister Your mum Your aunts Just promise to always send em the kid's upkeep 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Take your baby and nurture her she's your responsibility. Let her go wherever she likes.You both should enjoy your disobedient actions. 4 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 4:08pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Candidlady: Ok, thanks |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 4:08pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
IconicR: Ok,thanks |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by UnfairLife7(m): 5:30pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55:look for someone in her family or yours to look after the child and send monthly upkeep for the child. |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by mrrandomguy: 5:33pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55:Let her forfeit the admission in that case. UK admission is not difficult to get like European and American ones. When the child is grown up a bit with some level of independence, she can reapply, even you can join her. Don't let her drop the baby for you under any guise. Also try and formalise your relationship within this period if you think you can live with her your entire life. And don't take any advice from Nairaland feminists like the one who quoted me. Their goal is to turn men into women so that women can escape their natural and biological roles. They are already telling you to take off your trousers and put on skirt and bra in the name of taking care of your baby. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Shokoloko(f): 5:37pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55:You have not had peace with this lady in a long while. I am sure at some time you prayed to God to release you from everyday quarrel and strife. Now God is taking her far, far away so both of you can have your peace. Has the prayer not been answered? You must not marry someone because you had a baby with them. Peace is priceless Go your way with the kid, let her go away: the child will search for her later. 2 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 5:46pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Shokoloko: Thanks,she says the baby and I could join her after 3montths and wanted me to have court marriage for documentation which I declined. She still went ahead to add my and the baby as her dependants |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 5:48pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
mrrandomguy: Thanks,she sees this as her only chance as policies keep changing by the day. She was cruel, formalizing the relationship is somewhat scary,am not moved by the uk thing, though she has apologized,but I want to still watch how things play out |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Klass99(f): 5:57pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
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Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by mrrandomguy: 6:02pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55:The UK economy thrives on educational tourism. Policy changes will never affect her future chances of gaining admission. Don't let her use you since you don't see any future with her. Let her stay and take care of the child. The baby may not even be yours. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by kkins25(m): 6:19pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
This is probably the first time her life has changed for the good, and your first thought was to be the devil. It didn't occur to you that the baby and her halted life was the reason for the resentment towards you? She probably warned you about going in raw, but you no gree. 😁 5 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by koolbreeze55: 6:21pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
kkins25: Devil,how? |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by kkins25(m): 6:26pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
koolbreeze55:How don't you understand na? 1 Like |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Mindlog: 6:31pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
mrrandomguy: How is the OP taking care of his own daughter equates to being used? OP, she can't cope if she comes to the UK with the child. Couples that came with a baby are struggling not to talk of coming as a single mother, reason I have severally advised couples not to come with the children. Husband and wife arrives, get a room in a shared house and working as a team, they would have completed paying the outstanding tuition fees by the 6th month , saved to rent a 2/3 bedroom apartment in a cheaper neighbourhood and start processing the relocation of their child/children, then one of them fly down to Nigeria to get their child/children 4 Likes |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Houseofglam7(f): 6:33pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Drama everywhere |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Pacesetterz: 7:08pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Under aged ediots just full this NL. Any guy that's knacking now should use his senses and wear condom...the country we are in now...2yrs ago is far better than it. So many young guys and ladies are trapped with kids gulping up their strengths and resources. Even having just one child isn't child's play in this Nigeria...fornication sabi sweet but what about life after fornication? |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by ahnie: 7:09pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
If you stop her from going, babe Gon hate you for the rest of her life and she Gon hang the setback tag on you. You just gaz carry that lil child n fig out a way how to go about taking care of her. You see the relationship you guys shared,you boths are better off separated,if your preek scratch you go back for a possible reconciliation,you Gon regret for the rest of your life. Most times staying away from some persons is a blessing in disguise 1 Like |
Re: Should She Forfeit Her Uk Admission? by Foodqueen(f): 7:14pm On Aug 13, 2023 |
Why would she retrieve her fee cos of your word. I av a friend that put her baby in a motherless babies home cos she don't have a family to put her with when she wanted to travel abroad. And she do send things to her from time to time. I even go there to check on the child. 1 Like |
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