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Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Cordinachickens: 2:09pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Brother, this is a life time opportunity to give your kids a great future which they will never forget you for. At 48 you are still pretty good to go. There are so many opportunities in Australia which you can jump at. Just like someone wrote Nigeria makes you think you are old but when you get outside you will know that you are still very good to achieve anythingin life. I left Nigeria with the kids for Australia at 42 after my wife had been there for 3yrs. I was also considering my age then but I summoned courage and left my job in Nigeria, I thank God today, that decision I took was the best decision I've ever made in my life. 5 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Belleful: 2:12pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Abeg we fit swap? I promise not to touch ur wife. But will be giving you situation report on what is going on there. 4 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by soccerlite: 2:14pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Stupid question |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Oliboi: 2:15pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by IamMobisola(f): 2:18pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Firefunmi2014: Cc flokii. Stop running your mouth like tap water. This is someone who just called his wife an amazing woman, who earns more than him. Read through the thread and see other men who have similar experiences. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by flokii: 2:24pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
IamMobisola: You didn't see where he wrote.. 'provided she is an amazing woman' right? He is already running errands and cooking for the kids while his wife sits there doing nothing.. He is under the control of a woman but can't fully express it. Use your head before mentioning me next time. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by winner37(m): 2:24pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
De the play when 28 year old starts bleeping her your eye will open ... Why not sending your children and you stay in Nigeria since your are comfortable here and be visiting the once a while? |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Jbmoney(m): 2:25pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Its a new world entirely but u are blessed to have a soft landing. Your wife have prepared shelter and with PR and her job ....u are r kind of secured. I guess she must be a nurse cuz they get PR faster. Forget ur Naija ican/account stuff...wont fly here. U need skill....first bring along ur drivers license cuz u will need it. Easy jobs to get include carer jobs....bro u will be paid handsomely. U need good skills...u can easily join TAFE with ur PR to acquire skills without paying a dime. TAFE is like technical school which enable u to get cert 2,3 etc. Your wife would understand what am talking about. Age is not a barrier here o. Ordinary cleaners live a better life than a bank manager in Nigeria. 1.1m naira is week salary here for most people. U will understand when touch ground.Which city are u coming to? Im inow in Maitland ,Hunter regions. NSW. 3 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by sharone21(f): 2:26pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Interesting thread..... How I wish the mods at Nairaland would bar some people from starting threads so they don't derail it.... I mean for any thread: Politics, Romance, Travel etc..... This will help keep more members. 2 Likes |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by BALLOSKI: 2:28pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
ednut1:He's afraid of being under his wife care as a man in foreign land. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by BALLOSKI: 2:29pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:Go there and get madam pregnant asap. As a father to an Australian citizen, you can always come back to the country at any time. Your 2 young children could become citizens too. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Megabig: 2:29pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Just go, as a man, you are no longer thinking of you, it’s now you and your family especially your kids, where will benefit your kids more? I think it’s Australia, what makes you think you are old? My dear just move, PR is not a small thing and thank your wife, she didn’t disappoint. Go there, get immersed in the society and raise your kids |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by OchuSomtin(m): 2:32pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
You're still very young compared to the people working abroad. Over here, age is but a number. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by NairaLTQ: 2:33pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Kriss216:A good man usually finds a woman like himself. I can sponsor wife to any country in the world as she is a good wife indeed. If your foundation is good, anything you build on it will stand 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by bepositive11: 2:37pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Why not continue as an accountant in Australia? |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Timothyoj(m): 2:44pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Kenn55: This is fantastic....! |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Firefunmi2014: 2:53pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
NNEWIsuper: Okay. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Kobicove(m): 2:54pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
CedarHoldings: Australia has a large snake population |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by RaptorX: 2:55pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Gerrard59:It seems like I am living rent free in your head. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Firefunmi2014: 2:55pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: I saw it and reply to it but it bounced back twice. Is there a way I can reach out to you? |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by UnfairLife7(m): 3:00pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
maasoap:why are you sending him that? To discourage him joining his wife and kids? |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by quickly: 3:02pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Oga na children full here they will give you unwise advice |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Abifarin16: 3:04pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:At the other side of your fear Sir is something beautiful. A door of opportunity has opened to you don't let the fear of I might be too old keep you back. Imagine Abraham leaving his father's house at 75. That must have been scary for him even if the Bible didn't record that. May God Bless Your Endeavors. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by 76Naira(m): 3:11pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Life is best enjoyed in exploration. Keep a positive mind and go overcome your limitations. From all that you shared, it looks like you have a very well functioning family and a wife that you can plan and execute with in trust. Be careful about seeking public advice.....you may not always be lucky with the suggestions you receive. Stop thinking about this from a "japa" viewpoint......this is a relocation that has been well executed so far. She has gone, studied, started working and is passing the baton to you in this relay. She was bold and determined, went alone, saw, and conquered. Please don't give her the impression that you are not brave enough. Finally, you have already weighed your options and you seem to acknowledge that you are hanging on a thread with your current job. Make the move, stay close to God, build the right mindset and behaviours in your home..........you will all be fine......Australia no be Mars bro. 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Firefunmi2014: 3:15pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
flokii: As my neighbor, you always see me when my wife controls me. People like you always think because you go through a rough patch every other person must be in your shoe. The way you treat your wife in Nigeria before you travel will determine how your wife will treat you in abroad. Also, same way you will be treated at old age. Let me advise you, treat you wife better now, so that she can take care of you at old age. Otherwise, you will live your old age in loneliness. You might end up living a mesirable life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by aysnoopy(m): 3:16pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Village people are whispering to you not to go. This I've seen |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by NoChill: 3:17pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense: Col. Sanders, founder of KFC started in his 60s, you are not too old to start anything. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by Sibbb: 3:18pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
felixzo1:In abroad 48 is planning retirement |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by BigIyanga: 3:20pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
At 48, you have reached the quarter final of your life.. take your kids abroad in order to offer them a better shot at life. A solid and quality university education can set them up for life and they can compete globally. Yes at 48, you cant switch up careers. You can start afresh in Australia… it’s not the time in your life that matters…. BUT the life in your time that matters the most. Good luck |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by delpee(f): 3:20pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
@OP You planned well ahead for your family and you have a good wife who has done well to complement your efforts for a brighter future for you and your kids. You have no reason to fear. Please go and continue your beautiful lives together. That doesn't stop you from coming back home on visits or to resettle after retirement as some people do now. You're truly blessed. |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by saysoo: 3:57pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:looks like a trap for me, you may lose those kids to her over there and may be forced to return back to Nigeria alone. She may be talking to another party besides you.dont 1 Like |
Re: Japa: I Am Confused, Please Advise. by geokay777(m): 4:07pm On Sep 02, 2023 |
Usefulsense:If you don't wish to travel for any other reason, PLS go cos of your wife,,,, ẹ get why |
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