| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Pzpropertylimit(m): 3:44pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Bros don't let the enemy come in . Nothing so serious there forgive her . Go in and make love and return the bond back immediately. |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by michaelwilli(m): 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
What happened before she made the statement? The statement alone looks offensive, but the backstory is important. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by zoghys: 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? . Listen dear don't let any woman disregard you has a man. The fact she said made such comment about your mother is not just disrespectful, but signals more will come if you don't reject this vehemently. Note am never said you should fight your wife, but let her know such won't be tolerated. If possible involve your family spiritual mentor, if any. This is a sign of something worse is on the plate if you let this slide. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Acidosis(m): 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
clems88:
Wife and mother matter is a very sensitive one that a person has to be careful about, if not it will always bring problems. I always ignore my wife if such comes up. When she complains or says something that maybe annoying about my mum or sisters, I'll just ignore it because me no get time for all kinda wahala Really? Your wife says annoying things about your mom and sisters? It is well. |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by forexprophet(m): 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
You are just a weak man. There a 1000 ways to deal with a woman and humble her. Dm me for strategies.😎 Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by LikeAking: 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? Divorce! |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by DEBJOCH1(m): 3:45pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
LooneyLester:
You're a woman in a man's body
I know simps like you
Imagine a woman challenging you and flaunting your orders
Very soon she'll slap you and you'll be watching her do that
If your wife doesn't agree with you , it's up to you to discipline her and teach her a lesson that she won't forget
After that resort to hot fork
Don't apologize
She should be the one doing that after forking on her knees
If you are odogwu , she'll be submitting her salary to you THIS KIND OF ADVISE HAS BROKEN ALOT OF HOME, REASON WHY MATURED MARRIED COUPLES HAVE TO BE CAREFUL ON WHERE THEY SEEK MARRITAL ADVISE FROM. |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by coputa(m): 3:46pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
clems88:
Women find it difficult to say sorry if they are wrong . Most times I just say my mind and let it rest after vexing of not receiving a common sorry Yes, most women prefared to apologize through their actions and behaviours than the use of the mouth. Please try to understand your wife,so that little things won't cause big problem in the home. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Mhizzard(m): 3:47pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Ijaya123:
How many times is he supposed to sir her down to express his displeasure to such statement? then is it the silent that develop between them would be the solution. |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Prettychild(f): 3:49pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? But I don’t think she said anything wrong na. I didn’t see any insult to your Mum who is also her Mum too. |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by FireUpNow(m): 3:50pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Just be careful so that your wife don't mess your life up 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Psoul(m): 3:51pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? How old are you bro? Marriage is not by muscle. Moreover, keep your marriage out from Social Media. I repeat, KEEP YOUR MARRIAGE OUT FROM SOCIAL MEDIA. |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Tzar(m): 3:53pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
If you are afraid to call your wife to order, what do you want someone like me to do for a WEAKLING like you?
For you not to know how to deal with a bad woman, you deserve her.
Enjoy your misery…simp! |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by TheOnlyKing: 3:54pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:
Wetin concerns me concerns ur wife...? Bring her to me and let me deals with her/disciplines her... I sense clout chasing... Are you a tout..., or you just finished drinking small stout...? I can't shout, so shut your mouth or keep your mouth shut... You are looking for actions, reactions, interactions&transactions... It may end up in/with sanctions... For your mind like this, u make sense abi? |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by stormborn28(m): 3:54pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:
What is wrong with mentioning his mother?
If OP doesn't want his mother mentioned at all in his marriage then OP should cut his mom off completely so she holds no place at all in his life and his marriage. You can't make a god out of a human being, and cause that god to feature in the lives of others around you, while expecting them not to mention the place that god occupies. It doesn't work that way.  Always writing rubbish... So OP should cut off his mother from his life because he married a woman abi 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by FertilityH: 3:57pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? You married a coconut head woman... whether right or wrong a good woman should learn how to pacify and apologize to dr man. Note: As long as d man is a reasonable man and not a wife beater |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Wizpa(m): 4:00pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN:
As long as I'm concerned. I feel like my relatives need to stay off my wife's mouth. They are not play things for wordplay.
She can possibly bring about her points without comparisons with my relatives.
It's even wrong for a wife to put herself on the same level with my mom. That's disrespectful.
My wife is my wife for as long as she wants to be my wife but my ma is my ma forever.No one compares sleep to death. Wittyness 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Rhozabeth(m): 4:02pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Is your wife from Ekiti state? because thise people getvstrong head too much. I will advice the you warn her never to refer to ur family that way again that you fint it offensive. Once you do that then let go of the issue. You have already registered your displeasure. I believe she will not do such again but if she does you mustvstand your ground to demand for an apology and make sure u get it. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Mayplays(f): 4:04pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Shezzman:
I love the way you arranged your words... |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Belafonte(m): 4:06pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? Next time she does something you don't like ask her if she'd do that to her father. Ojoro cancel |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Mayplays(f): 4:06pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? Be a man and ignore her She will apologize by herself |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by luminouz(m): 4:10pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Plus4you:
Few days ago my wife was angried and utterred some statements that I do not like.
The statement was that she relating an issue by using my mum
The statement was "had it been it was your mum that did that you would have find means to repay her'.
I find it offensive for uttering such a statement, I was offended immediately but I kept my calm because we are already prepared to go out.
So when we came back I informed her that I am annoyed with what she said.
Her reply was that she did nothing wrong with such a statement because she didn't insult or belittle my mum.
I told I'm not but she decided not to apologize for that.
After two days our communication has not been normal and it only greetings.
So the next day I called and discussed it with her but still stands that she isn't wrong.
We have not been in good terms since then,
Please isn't she supposed to apologise despite that I told her I don't like the statement? That you are bringing this here shows you are soft!!! What kind of man will allow such disrespect from his wife? Your wife thinks she is equal to your mum and you should have cleared her early enough. Your wife and your mum occupy different places in your heart. They are not the same or equal |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Belafonte(m): 4:10pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
santaclaws:
Technically, she didn't insult your mom. It just happens that you think your wife shouldn't mention ur mom like that, but it happens, women have sharp mouth and you need to find a way to just playfully caution her when she says such things.
Fighting your wife or keeping malice with her is a very childish thing. She doesn't need to apologize, you both should end it in the other room and move on. This is a wrong mentality to have. Disrespect should never be tolerated. Why should he laughingly caution someone who disrespected him by disrespecting his mother? Is it fear or respect or madness? Anybody that can disrespect your mother needs to be swiftly and brutality corrected not beating around the bush 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by armyofone(m): 4:11pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
mariahAngel:
What exactly was it about her words that offended?
This is how they start bringing problems where there are none - she did like this or like that or talked like that about my mom ..... grow up mon! Mom has your dad - your wifey has you - face front. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by santaclaws: 4:17pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Belafonte:
This is a wrong mentality to have. Disrespect should never be tolerated. Why should he laughingly caution someone who disrespected him by disrespecting his mother? Is it fear or respect or madness?
Anybody that can disrespect your mother needs to be swiftly and brutality corrected not beating around the bush What exactly was the disrespect? That she said he would have considered something if it was his mother? Or did she say something else? Bro, abeg chill... She neither insulted the mom nor disrespected her. The OP himself is childish for bringing his family issues here. Maybe he should turn her into a punching bag to show y'all that he's a real man or an alpha male. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by efe21: 4:20pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Acidosis:
Really? Your wife says annoying things about your mom and sisters? It is well. That guy is a simp..... A wife have no right whatsoever to reference the husband mum in a argument between herself and her husband... If I am the husband I will charge aggressively immediately as if I want to beat her up but would not beat her... Then give her a very stern warning at close range eyeballs to eyeballs that if she ever in her life mention my mum like that again, she wouldn't like my reaction at all because she will see a side of me she don't know exist.... After this warning, I will walk out on her. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by MrDoGood(m): 4:20pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
NoahHadNoArk:
Next time switch off your data if you have nothing reasonable to contribute
It’s not your fault that you have a low IQ and find it hard to comprehend simple English…..we understand with you
Too many kids on this faceless forum. Just imagine what he's saying |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Josywhyte: 4:20pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Evolutionism:
Stuupid people always bothering us here with my wife, our wife, our nonsense all the time. Mtcheeeew. If u no feel like to advice the nigga just shut up or u scroll past the topic. No be everything person dey carry play or insult put |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Belafonte(m): 4:21pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
santaclaws:
What exactly was the disrespect? That she said he would have considered something if it was his mother? Or did she say something else?
Bro, abeg chill... She neither insulted the mom nor disrespected her. The OP himself is childish for bringing his family issues here.
Maybe he should turn her into a punching bag to show y'all that he's a real man or alpha male.
Is it safe to say he can use her father as comparison in her dealings with him? For example, "you'd never talk to your father like that" 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Emmanuel30a: 4:22pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
TheOnlyKing:
For your mind like this, u make sense abi? Yes, for your mind; you don't make sense-not it don't make any senses...in&for your mind... Your blind mind...is one of a kind, so much that you can't rescind or so much that it can't be rescinded... Rewind, I don't need to reminds...you... You are not kind, not gonna say or not going to say-you are not that kind... |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by Belafonte(m): 4:22pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
forexprophet:
You are just a weak man. There a 1000 ways to deal with a woman and humble her. Dm me for strategies.😎
Please open a thread and post your strategies here. People like me would love to learn |
| Re: My Wife Decide Not To Apologize For Offending Me by ViceGovernor: 4:24pm On Dec 15, 2023 |
Emmanuel30a:
Wetin concerns me concerns ur wife...? Bring her to me and let me deals with her/disciplines her... I sense clout chasing... Are you a tout..., or you just finished drinking small stout...? I can't shout, so shut your mouth or keep your mouth shut... You are looking for actions, reactions, interactions&transactions... It may end up in/with sanctions... Are you a songwriter sir? 1 Like |
