Why are SIMP like this?

You see why I always pity married guys?

What a simp you're



Buying a car for woman that'll use it and pick her sugar bomboy



Well done oga simp



Never buy a car for a woman ever if your own wife

Freethought:


Calm down bro, I'm not that close to the boy and besides he's way younger than i am.

what this means is that both you and her brother owns the car. don't accept. just hustle more and buy your own car .

EreluRoz:
A teenager calling a married man simp. What faceless forum is causing ehn

Is it his fault. ? It's the fault of the person bringing his life and family to the forum. I can't spread my cloth by the roadside and now complain cars are splashing muddy water on it....

AchrafHakimi:
If you open your mouth and tell him will you die?
This simp dey fear him wife family!!


Bloody simp.

I don laff tire

Freethought:


You can't get a good toks for 3.5 dou.

c180 Mercedes classic is a very good car. Very low maintainance and fuel cost. Its not flashy but its a very good car to start with and it's less than 3.5m

Freethought:


Well, i can boldly say, none of what's in your first paragraph is the case. The boy is comfortable to some extent and i believe i know my wife to some extent.

My only worry is your last paragraph.

The boy is comfortable but may want to be more comfortable

If you reject it, you wife would forever hold it on you.. if you accept it, you have no claim on it..

You just bought your wife a car... simple!!..

advanceDNA:



What happened to a 3.5M car if he actually wants to buy a car for his sister?? Why must it be 5M naira car...... Either ur wife wants to run u marital street or the brother wants to run ur wife//you confirm street..

Wateva the case is ...u won't like the outcome after u drop the money

Exactly my thought

Either wifey wan scam am or her brother wan scam her

Freethought:


You can't get a good toks for 3.5 dou.

You can o. A very good one. Unless you are looking at specific model/year.

seanfer:


Big daddy tokunbo is about 4.6 million naira.
Even EOD and DC you can't get less than. 4M naira.

C180 mercedes. Old school but very rugged. Plus low maintaining cost and low fuel consumption. Less than 3m for the tokunbor

Hmm...it's a little complicated.

Even after her brother offered to put in N3.5m, your wife could have told him, that's very nice of you. I will discuss it with my husband and get back to you since he's the one providing the N1.5m balance.

It's just a respect thing.

But that didn't happen so the next best thing is for your wife to ask his brother to call you and discuss the purchase.

Again, that'll be a subtle way for your wife to send a message to her brother that her husband's participation in the decision to buy the car is necessary.

You calling your brother in law is not the right thing to do.

Tell your wife to ask his brother to call you.

If he calls, thank and appreciate him, and inform him you will give your wife the N1.5m to add to the purchase price.

If he refuses to call, then clearly your wife should not continue with the purchase.

You need to assert authority in a sensible, and considerate manner.

You sound like a gentleman and I appreciate you want the best for your wife. But certain things must be done.

DO NOT CALL THE GUY. YOU WILL LOSE RESPECT.

advanceDNA:


U say wetin??
Must it be a big car ..
What happened to small Toyota..big daddy nor be car....?? EOD nor be car?? Discussion continue nor be car??

Abeg, no deh mention Honda Cars. Their front tyre go pull out for middle of highway.

Anything Toyota or Lexus.

Freethought:


Calm down bro, I'm not that close to the boy and besides he's way younger than i am.

Don’t mind such comments. Those are losers consoling themselves with what another loser taught them - redpill.


Women that are so easy to handle, they went all emotional in the name of ego. Mtcheew.

If you are so concerned about letting the guy know you own the money. You can either call him or make schedules to make sure you are in the sane place at the same time. Then start a conversation and casually mention it that you been buy a car but have to sell it when it got faulty. Then appreciate him that your wife collected the money from you saying he wanted to add to it. Then thank him for that.

Better still, forget about it and just focus on your hustle.

Your wife should have told her brother that you, her husband, will bring the 1.5m, simple.

advanceDNA:



What happened to a 3.5M car if he actually wants to buy a car for his sister?? Why must it be 5M naira car...... Either ur wife wants to run u marital street or the brother wants to run ur wife//you confirm street..

Wateva the case is ...u won't like the outcome after u drop the money

Good cars start from 5m upward these days. If you don’t have 5m, better buy bicycle.

CollectMoney:

Abeg, no deh mention Honda Cars. Their front tyre go pull out for middle of highway.

Anything Toyota or Lexus.

Exactly. And eod I'm this time of fuel price na like camel.

Freethought:


Calm down bro, I'm not that close to the boy and besides he's way younger than i am.

You're still simp who can't put his feet down. I wonder where guys like you get the idea that the internet has answers to your personal problems

I think the OP's wife should tell her brother that her husband would be the one to come get the car on her behalf. That way he can make sure the money is going to the right quarters and put some respect to him too.

Simple phone call... " ring ring... Ah my inlaw, happy new year, how family? My wife told me that you want to give her a surprise gift for the new year... that if I bring the 1.5m I got from the sale of that mumu car I bought last time, you will top it up and get her something more reliable... thank you o, may God bless you real good. Do I give her to send to you or should I just forward it myself like this? ... ok, will do. Thanks so much! Bye! "
Shikenan, story don finish and your family will be blessed with a good car in no time. A good wife from a generous family is a blessing to you and not a threat. You are not competing with anyone.

Peterobi90:
If you reject it, you wife would forever hold it on you.. if you accept it, you have no claim on it..

You just bought your wife a car... simple!!..

My worries exactly.

Stevenbright:


You said your wife told the brother she has 1.5m, that is where the issue is. The right thing for her to say is that we have 1.5m (you and her) from the sale of our car. By so doing, the brother will know you have contributed to the purchase of the car.

So, you don't really have to interface with the guy. Just tell your wife to clarify the issue with her brother.

That was my question when she told me. I asked where she got the 1.5m she told her brother she had and she said she's talking about my 1.5.

If you feel it will bring disrespect or see finish....just tell her to exercise patient until you have complete money to get her a car.

Mom007:
Simple phone call... " ring ring... Ah my inlaw, happy new year, how family? My wife told me that you want to give her a surprise gift for the new year... that if I bring the 1.5m I got from the sale of that mumu car I bought last time, you will top it up and get her something more reliable... thank you o, may God bless you real good. Do I give her to send to you or should I just forward it myself like this? ... ok, will do. Thanks so much! Bye! "
Shikenan, story don finish and your family will be blessed with a good car in no time. A good wife from a generous family is a blessing to you and not a threat. You are not competing with anyone.

Thank you.

CHRISTFUCKER:
What a simp you're



Buying a car for woman that'll use it and pick her sugar bomboy



Well done oga simp



Never buy a car for a woman ever if your own wife

And why do you think he will marry a woman he can’t control. Why do you think every man is as foolish as marrying a woman that will be bold enough to cheat under their roof.

You are not man enough if you think your wife will cheat on you. From the moment you are building a relationship with a woman, you plant your fear in her heart and maintain that fear till after marriage.


A real man have no business dating or marrying a woman that does not genuinely fear him. So I find these una redpill bulaba confusing and childish. Learn how to handle a woman properly and stop calling others simp because a confused lot ask you to embrace bitterness towards women.

Life is more beautiful than that.

Greenfaces:
Honestly. Just jumps into adult talk like it's a joke. If it was that easy will he be asking. I perfectly understand the questioner. Its a complicated existence if you can't provide basic comfort for your family. So many things happen that you just have to cope with.

leave all this singles and teenagers they think marrige life is bf and gf.

The desperation of your wife will soon ruin ur marriage. Later she will desperately want to get another thing and if you can't provide it she will definitely source it from anyway possible you know what that means right. Stop putting ursef under unnecessary pressure thinking u want to make someone happy u go die be4 ur time..

Freethought:


That was my question when she told me. I asked where she got the 1.5m she told her brother she had and she said she's talking about my 1.5.

Ya, she should clarify this. It should be through a call in your presence and if possible it should be on speaker so you can hear it.

Are you a man? If you are, then give yourself sense according to what is happening in your family

Do not subject yourself to unnecessary pressure. Feel free to tell your wife your feelings about it. You are the man of the house. You want to do what you want to do.

EreluRoz:
A teenager calling a married man simp. What faceless forum is causing ehn

They know little about marriage but they are quick to form I too know on top marriage. If e easy make dem go marry.
The guy cool o. Meself dey cool sha but if you can carry am come hot hot I go give you hot hot. Respect begat respect.

Fryx:


And why do you think he will marry a woman he can’t control. Why do you think every man is as foolish as marrying a woman that will be bold enough to cheat under their roof.

You are not man enough if you think your wife will cheat on you. From the moment you are building a relationship with a woman, you plant your fear in her heart and maintain that fear till after marriage.


A real man have no business dating or marrying a woman that does not genuinely fear him. So I find these una redpill bulaba confusing and childish. Learn how to handle a woman properly and stop calling others simp because a confused lot ask you to embrace bitterness towards women.

Life is more beautiful than that.

Fear? Hahahhahahha even ladies on dis platform go dey laugh u so na fear go stop woman from cheating. If u @ a married man thou nt sure but if u @ 1 l'm so sorry for you 4 dis ur mentality u go cry u no go see water