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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Caleb15(m): 8:12pm On Jan 20

Thats the highest of all lows

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by iHateFraudsters: 8:12pm On Jan 20

Kukutente23:
This is a thread for broken hearts and frustrated souls

I sell handkerchiefs

Business man grin

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by amnesty7: 8:12pm On Jan 20

Divorced feminists and wife beaters up, over to you.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by ravensckar(m): 8:12pm On Jan 20

Kukutente23:
This is a thread for broken hearts and frustrated souls

I sell handkerchiefs

You again? cheesy

This thread go too sweet! The very moment I saw some monikers whom I personally knew to have never been married sharing their stories, I knew this thread will be filled with tales by moonlight. cheesy

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Saspi718: 8:12pm On Jan 20

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by dkidd: 8:12pm On Jan 20

woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

But for 6 years u didn't suspect once?
The more u forgive them the more wings they grow. Thank God u switched on the boss moves in the end. 💯 Bro

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by adewale2011(m): 8:13pm On Jan 20

Elon Musk

Jamesclooney:

Bill Gates
Jeff Bezos (divorced, even though he’s engaged to that Dracula)

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Uniquekriss(m): 8:16pm On Jan 20

[quote author=Notfogotten post=128028657][/quote]It sounds so sweet as you narrated but many of us have chosen to be responsible family men. In one way or the other you're still gonna do relationships, if you don't do relationships, you'd have to pay to get sexz, that's not it for me though.

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Emma09(m): 8:17pm On Jan 20

Religion differences. (This was from her father though), incompatibility, lack of communication, Emotional trauma, lack of respect for my parents and family, Very lazy...... Now I am happily reminded. Pls no body should quote me or come and threaten me with what God says about divorce o. lolzzzzz.....

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by dkidd: 8:21pm On Jan 20

DaddyRochie1642:

He had the audacity to publicly insult you because of the rubbish your wife was telling him about you.

Of course yes. When they're both sharing the same woman and she's probably belittling him before the boy toy. Na so women dey take set their husbands up for fatality grin

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by nedekid: 8:22pm On Jan 20

woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

Were kids involved?

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by tonicyril: 8:30pm On Jan 20

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Na only juliet, Catherine and Anita own u see..

U no see Johnson, Edward, Emeka, Jide and Danjuma own...dey play..u no go marry

When wrinkle finish ur face and ur kpekus u go mellow grin

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by MrSly(m): 8:31pm On Jan 20

woginid967:

For what exactly

I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.

So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...

Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.

Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

All you said was exiting except the emboldened. Why tea in a child of an unknown origin when your seed is viable? At worst cinerio you opt for sorogacy. More than 90% of married men did it for children.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by AMAUCHESKY(m): 8:32pm On Jan 20

Bible said that you should not divorce but is better you divorce than spent the rest of your life behind bars, and in case you don't have child, u can get via baby mama and remain unmarried as commanded

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Ambassadors: 8:35pm On Jan 20

Bill Gates, Elon Musk and lot more marriage is overated. Esp when disrespect, lack of submission and infidelity is now the order of the day.

woginid967:

Danjuma shaibu
Dangote
Selman
Pastor chris

The list is endless.

Proof is, MAN who has lots of money will never need woman.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kukutente23: 8:41pm On Jan 20

ravensckar:
You again?

This thread go too sweet! The very moment I saw some monikers whom I personally knew to have never been married sharing their stories, I knew this thread will be filled with tales by moonlight.

Wetin you too dey find for here

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Amayabor1: 8:42pm On Jan 20

GloriousGbola:

You KNOW you can catch stds from the toilet, right? /s

Keep quite dunce! You can't get STDs from the toilet.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 8:42pm On Jan 20

MrSly:
■ All you said was exiting except the emboldened. Why tea in a child of an unknown origin when your seed is viable? At worst cinerio you opt for sorogacy. More than 90% of married men did it for children.

Does knowing origin make your children better than those other children? See African man delusion! Look around the see the end of the seeds wey una don sow so far in the name of being viable. Are they any better than the children with unknown stocks? lipsrsealed

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by UnemployedGradu: 8:42pm On Jan 20

woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

was she your wife or girlfriend?

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 8:44pm On Jan 20

AMAUCHESKY:
Bible said that you should not divorce but is better you divorce than spent the rest of your life behind bars, and in case you don't have child, u can get via baby mama and remain unmarried as commanded

Bible never said any such thing. Your pastors and mogs are not supposed to be replacements for commonsense abeg! Open the book and read it for yourselves. lipsrsealed

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by princemillla(m): 8:44pm On Jan 20

dkidd:

But for 6 years u didn't suspect once?
The more u forgive them the more wings they grow. Thank God u switched on the boss moves in the end. 💯 Bro

ladies cheating can be so funny in their dumb smartness.

Had rough experience where my gf then was busy having affairs with my tenant.

Each time I go out to cover events (2-3 )days. This bachelor would sneak to my apartment to knack her
I got to check voice note on her phone only to discover my tenant calling my gf baby. "Baby I want to be with you" how she pack the gut to even record that still surprise me. We had argument about this....BOOM.. she packed her load, move into my tenant room that nite. That's the most shocking thing a lady has done to me. Mo foooooor straight. Since then omoooooo.
I had to call my tenant n warn him that nite. Sha to cut the long story short, she is now a community purry.

Unmarried till now.

Marriage is not for everyone indeed, owo ni koko

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by MrSly(m): 8:45pm On Jan 20

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Preek seeker. You dont have to brag with what you don't have. When you get married finally you can brag about leaving. For now you got no choice.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Meself: 8:46pm On Jan 20

He is a narcissist

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by adams123: 8:47pm On Jan 20

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

AHH, your last paragraph though...you can get infection without necessary having to contact it from someone.

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by nedekid: 8:50pm On Jan 20

dkidd:

But for 6 years u didn't suspect once?
The more u forgive them the more wings they grow. Thank God u switched on the boss moves in the end. 💯 Bro

Bros, the truth is that you should not have any links to where your spouse works, do not work in same company or have paddies that work in same place, why, you go hear tori you no suppose hear.
See, either you like it or not, possibly as high as 80% of women would cheat or misbehave in their place of work. The issue is does it get to your ears as the spouse? Walai as high as 90 if not 99% of women are cheating or close to. As they say, the only cheater is the one caught.
The one you look as innocent, God fearing, you met her as virgin and other crap are the ones that will likely even fall for infidelity. The issue is that it should not be too much ie if you marry a hot pant.
See, all the smallies my paddies had as girl friends, those that have now married young men are still disturbing, wishing to continue the sugar daddy runs, codedly. Some still sleep with them. There are the ones that will disturb, sending nudes, discribing how they are still "tight". One even wanted to bang while 8 months pregnant, another 2 months after giving birth.
Point is very few marriages will remain if on some misadventure homes are broken. As I always say, when a man gets a child, do DNA immediately, applies to all kids. Make sure they are yours, further to that, marriage is then companionship which we all need. But if you are over 50, omo, no need for DNA, your kids are already grown and you don't need the heart attack. Take life as it is.
If you doubt and want wahala, this night, suddenly take your wife's phone from her and go through it thoroughly. Just try it, if it is not divorce you will be talking about by tomorrow. Lol

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by dkidd: 8:53pm On Jan 20

princemillla:

ladies cheating can be so funny in their dumb smartness.

Had rough experience where my gf then was busy having affairs with my tenant.

Each time I go out to cover events (2-3 )days. This bachelor would sneak to my apartment to knack her
I got to check voice note on her phone only to discover my tenant calling my gf baby. "Baby I want to be with you" how she pack the gut to even record that still surprise me. We had argument about this....BOOM.. she packed her load, move into my tenant room that nite. That's the most shocking thing a lady has done to me. Mo foooooor straight. Since then omoooooo.
I had to call my tenant n warn him that nite. Sha to cut the long story short, she is now a community purry.

Unmarried till now.

Marriage is not for everyone indeed, owo ni koko

Omooooor that girl is the lowest of the lows. In the same compound and ur tenant haha. I will give him quit notice. Make them leave my yard. She's always been a community kpekus na u nor quick know sha.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by adams123: 8:54pm On Jan 20

GloriousGbola:

/S means sarcasm.

Back in the day Once one of my mums friends caught an std from her husband and was thinking she caught it from a toilet. My mum as a nurse knew what was up but I don't think she told her friend.

I remembered the story. There is also a joke among doctors that you can't catch stds from toilets but it is an excuse people make up.

Because your mum is a nurse she will now know how person contacted STDs? Your mum shouldn't go scatter people marriage oo

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Caleb15(m): 8:55pm On Jan 20

Pls buy your handkerchiefs from the guy above

Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Jangbajantis: 8:58pm On Jan 20

Date for a long time and get more than just acquainted with your partner before jumping into marriage. At times, marriage can be a cage with no exit.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by leisuretym: 8:59pm On Jan 20

Not yet but will soon, she started listening to Joyce of Nigeria info, stopped cooking, joined the feminist radio gang, always waiting for me to come back home to practise everything Joyce taught them that day, well she will soon move in with Joyce, I've told her she will have to move in with Joyce.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by October1960: 8:59pm On Jan 20

Well said sir.
Plus PLENTY of single and divorced women for companionship as we age. No need to marry them.

woginid967:

For what exactly

I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.

So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...

Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.

Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by greggng: 8:59pm On Jan 20

woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

Wow go and write a book ...let the tittle be she said am not man enough ....

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