unmask: it is a sin and big sin at that.....the only christian approved s3x style is "missionary".....i.e where the woman lays on the bed, and the man stays on top to show he is the head and not the tail.....any other method will lead you to hell I can assure u....check (jer 45v 8. )

U no well for head!

unmask: it is a sin and big sin at that.....the only christian approved s3x style is "missionary".....i.e where the woman lays on the bed, and the man stays on top to show he is the head and not the tail.....any other method will lead you to hell I can assure u....check (jer 45v 8. )

mitey:

@unmask, Jeremiah 45 does not have a verse 8.
Please get your scripture quotation right.
Thanks for your contribution.
But nowhere in the Bible was missionary method mentioned as the only approved se.x style.

mitey: @Alfa, what Bible reference do you have to back your statement?

mitey: ^^^ Yes, there are numerous Bible references on sex. I listed one above.

Again, please if you have nothing meaningful, backed with Biblical references to contribute, just read along, and let others comment.

Thanks.

mitey: @Ubenedictus, thanks for your contribution. But those verses you quoted are not solid proofs. They do not expressly talk about o.ral sex.

mitey:
[size=5pt]By or.al sex, I don't mean just kissing, but oral-genita.lia sex including cunni.lingus(female) and fell.atio(male).

The reason for my question is that some time last year I visited a church and the Pastor shared a story of someone came to him for deliverance. The man had been having problems in his life, and so he went to see the man of God. The Pastor told the man that he was seeing something on his lips and if he wants to be delivered, he has to confess.

The man then told the pastor that he has been giving or.al sex to his wife, after reading about it in a novel. The pastor told him that that was the root of his problems, because he was using the wrong body part for s.ex. Then the pastor prayed for him and he got his deliverance.[/size]

In all my reading of the Bible, I have not seen any proof of this.

I want to know if it is wrong for a married couple to pleasure each other the way they see fit.

[size=5pt]Please don't comment if you don't have something meaningful to contribute.[/size]

I need conclusive irrefutable proofs, according to the Bible, and not doctrine or emotional gibberish.
[size=5pt]Thanks.[/size]

mitey: There are numerous instances where the Bible talks about sex. I'm not here to argue Bible with you, so I will ignore you.

Btw, what's the meaning of backdoor?

mitey: There are numerous instances where the Bible talks about sex. I'm not here to argue Bible with you, so I will ignore you.

BabaGnoni:
Sin, at times, is relative, so to some degree and in this context, (i.e. married couple) this is not sin

BabaGnoni:
Song of Solomon 2:3 is your conclusive irrefutable proof, according to the Bible, and not doctrine or emotional gibberish

Adeebiwa09: K, as of my own present opinion its nt a sin bt wen it bcmes perversion it wl lead 2 sin. Bible says we shld nt deny each other ur bodies so if one wants it unda obligatn he/she s 2 v it. Bt it shld b dne wt ful agreement, ryt retrictns and ryt mindset.

mitey:
Whatever sexu.al activity is done outside marriage is sin. My question is for married couples only.
Songs of Solomon 2:3 - As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.
As Ubenedictus said earlier, most of the scriptures in SoS is figurative and hence subject to various interpretations "as the Spirit leads". From the underlined, we cannot tell if they are kissing or staring into each others eyes. Or if indeed, they are having ora.l sex.