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Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 2:29pm On Jan 23, 2015
Hello people!

Now this goes for the guys.


I enjoy talking about relationships and dating because like I love to say " I believe in love but i'm no slave to love"......



Ladies get this saying alot.... they. are too materialist, they go after money, bla bla bla but my question still remains whose fault

I think the only ones to blame are the guys.

All in the name of love or lust some guys will go the extra mile to impress a lady. Throwing gifts and cash at her. The truth is, ladies get use to things as they come.
It's like a guy who has had an active sex life, would he agree to stay faithful to a virgin girlfriend? My guess is as good as yours.

The reason guys are taken for granted these days is because they are too interested in impressing a lady.
When a girl ask and you don't have, out of fear of loosing her you go out of your way. The question you should ask yourself is for how long do you have to go out of your way
What happens when you are out of options
Who is gonna provide for her Another guy of course.

If all guys stopped throwing money around on ladies in a bid to impress them I guess it would be able to reduce a lot of girly/ monetary attitude.
No one is saying you shouldn't spend on a girl you truely love but most times the guys who complain turn out to be the ones who don't know what they want.


If love is now for sale then you can try buying and expect the ladies to seek the highest bidder.






If you truly want to enjoy been in love, don't try to impress a lady it always backfires. Be yourself......
a girl who sticks around because of the cash you throw around her will cling onto the next guy who throws her more money.

Be wise, find love not lust.
Be yourself......

Real ladies still look out for guys who are true to themselves. Any1 can be impressed but it takes a decent lady to see through it.

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Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by ArchEnemy(m): 2:38pm On Jan 23, 2015
Tell them
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 2:42pm On Jan 23, 2015
ArchEnemy:
Tell them
grin
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Nobody: 2:44pm On Jan 23, 2015
unhmmm
mzflexydeeva
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 2:47pm On Jan 23, 2015
signor11:
unhmmm
mzflexydeeva
waat have I done?
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Nobody: 2:50pm On Jan 23, 2015
Mzflexydeeva:
waat have I done?

naaa nothing

you did write that one well

guess you had a bump

did you get my pm from our make friends group
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by yorex2011: 2:54pm On Jan 23, 2015
.... This woman cheated me o.. See d small santana she told me is 100 naira angry
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by iamord(m): 3:41pm On Jan 23, 2015
You blew my head on this one, always bringing up matured and interesting posts, I also blame guys cos a lot of them have made ladies accustomed to what they are today, the truth is that a lot of guys don't have good punch lines, can't hold a convo and have an inferiority complex when there's no cheddars, of course am not comfy when am not on bar. But over reliance on money to do the trick has become a norm, now if u no shake bodi u b dead Guy. Its not Worth it .

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Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:31pm On Jan 23, 2015
signor11:


naaa nothing

you did write that one well

guess you had a bump

did you get my pm from our make friends group
okay oooo! I think I did and I replied
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:34pm On Jan 23, 2015
yorex2011:
.... This woman cheated me o.. See d small santana she told me is 100 naira angry
Pele oooo!
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:35pm On Jan 23, 2015
iamord:
You blew my head on this one, always bringing up matured and interesting posts, I also blame guys cos a lot of them have made ladies accustomed to what they are today, the truth is that a lot of guys don't have good punch lines, can't hold a convo and have an inferiority complex when there's no cheddars, of course am not comfy when am not on bar. But over reliance on money to do the trick has become a norm, now if u no shake bodi u b dead Guy. Its not Worth it .
tell ur people, na dem dey spoil girls
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by iamord(m): 8:11pm On Jan 23, 2015
Mzflexydeeva:
tell ur people, na dem dey spoil girls
the tin be say, some girls deserve to be spoilt, but cos of agro , guys Don join the chaff. But how we go come take unspoil you?? cos u wey b relationship expert, your eye go don tear gan grin
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Mzflexydeeva(f): 9:29pm On Jan 23, 2015
iamord:
the tin be say, some girls deserve to be spoilt, but cos of agro , guys Don join the chaff. But how we go come take unspoil you?? cos u wey b relationship expert, your eye go don tear gan grin
hahahhahahahhahahahha! I no be relationship expert o.
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by mykel25(m): 7:42pm On Jan 29, 2015
Mzflexydeeva:
Hello people!

Now this goes for the guys.


I enjoy talking about relationships and dating because like I love to say " I believe in love but i'm no slave to love"......



Ladies get this saying alot.... they. are too materialist, they go after money, bla bla bla but my question still remains whose fault

I think the only ones to blame are the guys.

All in the name of love or lust some guys will go the extra mile to impress a lady. Throwing gifts and cash at her. The truth is, ladies get use to things as they come.
It's like a guy who has had an active sex life, would he agree to stay faithful to a virgin girlfriend? My guess is as good as yours.

The reason guys are taken for granted these days is because they are too interested in impressing a lady.
When a girl ask and you don't have, out of fear of loosing her you go out of your way. The question you should ask yourself is for how long do you have to go out of your way
What happens when you are out of options
Who is gonna provide for her Another guy of course.

If all guys stopped throwing money around on ladies in a bid to impress them I guess it would be able to reduce a lot of girly/ monetary attitude.
No one is saying you shouldn't spend on a girl you truely love but most times the guys who complain turn out to be the ones who don't know what they want.


If love is now for sale then you can try buying and expect the ladies to seek the highest bidder.






If you truly want to enjoy been in love, don't try to impress a lady it always backfires. Be yourself......
a girl who sticks around because of the cash you throw around her will cling onto the next guy who throws her more money.

Be wise, find love not lust.
Be yourself......

Real ladies still look out for guys who are true to themselves. Any1 can be impressed but it takes a decent lady to see through it.

I so much salute your mentality..want you as my guest on a BBMC kindly add up 74a1edae
Re: Guys Stop Trying So Much To Impress The Ladies: They'll Still Take U For Granted by Tosinville(m): 11:16pm On Jan 29, 2015
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