JAZAKALLAHU KHAYRAN

Any thing on males keeping their chastity?

pls note, this also applies to the Male gender. may Allah mk it easy for us all

May Almighty Allah bless u.. ما شاء الله

Thank you very much OP you just made my day... I have learnt a lot may Allah reward you abundantly.... JUmm'at Kareem...

Akikah

alaoeri:
Jazakum llahukhairan op, whenever this issue comes ppl keep saying after all we are in civilized world now everything goes due to our level of immorality but i do say despite the civilisation the English royal family haven't change their traditions despite being non muslims, all crowned prince must marry a virgin besides their wives are nurture & guide from birth likewise the princes, if kufars can maintained such things then why won't a Muslim be conscious of this noble tradition of Islam? May Allah forgive us.

I realized if I had not married a virgin I wouldn't have been able to love her the way I'm doing now...Those awkward moment you realized this leather has been beaten several times by several people....


Another thing...what if you as husband is not a good drummer like the exe's?..lol your marriage is in trouble...bcoz she will locate the better drummer wherever he's on earth,,,,


This one applies to both Male and Female which is the infections, diseases transmitted during sexual intercourse.


It is a phsycological fight, resolving to ignore the fact that you are not the only man who has been to the pond especially if you as the guy never had experience with any lady.


Nice reminder @Op

pls note, this also applies to the Male gender. may Allah mk it easy for us all

May Allah protect and guide our Muslim sisters and daughters aright.

Jazakallah khayran for this wonderful incontrovertible piece.

Jazakhallahu khairan

Allahu Akbar

@op may Allah reward u abundantly, BTW with d rate of our muslim sistas lyf style in Institutions across all states this days is Alarming o. Sistas fear ALLah!!! & to brothers that girl ure spoiling beta have this on mynd: same tin wld be done to ur daughters #jumat-kareem

Masha Allah

Virginity should not only be emphasised on females only bt also on males too cos some men do take it for granted cos they don't have hymen and can be determine whether they have ever had sex or not.
Let our clerics always emphasised on male virginity also.

Like seriously ! We 'll knw what s good for us we re just fond of deceivin ourselvs. We knw evn d degree at wchc nature values this that's why u see those Osun worshippers lookin for a virgin to celebrate their festival wit.

@ OP, May Allah Subhana Wata'ala Protect, Guard And Guide You Always. Your Words Are Very Informative, Jazakumllahu Khairan (AMEEN) .

Alhamdulilahi that we are Muslims

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I realized if I had not married a virgin I wouldn't have been able to love her the way I'm doing now...Those awkward moment you realized this leather has been beaten several times by several people....


Another thing...what if you as husband is not a good drummer like the exe's?..lol your marriage is in trouble...bcoz she will locate the better drummer wherever he's on earth,,,,


This one applies to both Male and Female which is the infections, diseases transmitted during sexual intercourse.


It is a phsycological fight, resolving to ignore the fact that you are not the only man who has been to the pond especially if you as the guy never had experience with any lady.


Nice reminder @Op

My thinking exactly... thanks!!!

Where are the virgin and or chaste sisters on this forum.
Hmm, this world is becoming something else oo.
I can see many brothers on this topic but where are the sisters they are supposed to marry.

Anyway, my daughter must read this!!

It is regrettably lugubrious dat gals of nowadays prefer to sell demselvs cheaply to waiting for d prestige of proper and honorable marriage. Some gals don't see virginity as pride anymore. May Allah safe us frm d evils of d accursed shaittan. JazakAllahu khair for d post

Gud post...I pray to Allah to give me a virgin and God fearing lady to marry...Amin

Nice wrt up, I'm glad I've one...

May Allah reward U Op for a wanderfull write UP...tanks and noted..

Am glad that some people spoke up for men being virgins too because i was beginning to wonder at why the writer focused on just females when it takes a man to disvirgin a woman.

May Allah guide us aright.

tng:
Am glad that some people spoke up for men being virgins too because i was beginning to wonder at why the writer focused on just females when it takes a man to disvirgin a woman.

May Allah guide us aright.

Amin

As aforementioned it's as equally important for men to be Virgins as well. Let's not make it only a female matter.

^^^ you're right.

This article is one sided, should've been addressed to the both gender to bring balance. Nonetheless, it does reflect a pure intent.

Ahmad, Al-Albaani - Saheeh]
The Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, said: “Guarantee six things for me and I will guarantee Paradise for you: tell the truth when you speak, keep your promises, discharge your trusts, preserve your chastity, lower your gaze, and restrain your hands.”

this is actuallly for me. www.nairaland.com/2328184/it-ok-muslim-look-only

Salamalaekum. I cant imagine myself broadcasting this but I just have to because i am losing patience.

I am actually looking for a good virgin muslimah who will be my wife. The goal is to get married and not boyfreind/girlfreind relationship.

I am a 26 year old male muslim virgin. I would also want to marry a virgin. Y have I not seen. Y ar our female loose. I am ready to marry but cant just find one that fits.

Islam enjoin virgins to marry themselves and vice versa.

It would be ideal if I had
someone of similar class, which as per my
definition is a virgin or Am I right seeking
this ideal-ness? Am I right in thinking going
with a non-virgin equates to me going for
someone of lesser class?

I keep on reminding myself. If I go with a non-virgin, I will NEVER get that specialness between two virgins. I'm not sure whether this ringing in my head is justified. it is a psychological and emotional need. I cant just overcome it.

I saw this below on a nairaland thread:

https://www.nairaland.com/2292198/how-many-men-too-much/1

"Me I will never marry a girl that is not a virgin.
Reasons:
1. women that are not virgins tend to have
some sort of spiritual problem like lack of
favour, breakthrough and the likes " since God
is against it"
2. being a virgin shows some level of discipline
and self-whorth.
3. you respect your wife more when you marry
her as a virgin.
4. Let's just say you just happen to meet a guy
in the future who have FUC.KED your wife
countless times. How will you feel.
5. marrying a Virgin is the only assurance that
your wife has not committed murder
( ABORTION) thus reducing the possibility of
childlessness, And even if she can still give
birth, she is already cursed for committing
murder.
I am not and never ever going to marry a girl
that is not a virgin.
After you don waka from Sokoto to Jalingo
finish you wan come carry your silly self come
near me, I go just shoot you. Basterd silly runs
girl"

Also, wat if i cant satisfy her compared to d guys she has slept with or wat if she has std's?

I am afraid of the unknown. For those interested in me for a relationship for marriage or anyone who want to counsel me:

This is my contact:

Email: adekunleman@yahoo.com

Phone number: 08186971526

May ALLAH help us and guide us aright. Amin