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When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by miniziter(m): 8:27pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Am just tired and don't even know how to handle this parental issue about my choice of marriage due to tribalism. But what's bordering me is that can God also say NO just because they're also saying NO. |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by olu77(m): 8:30pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
No. Many parents are just selfish and some others are over protective in the end they lead their children astray 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by Nobody: 8:30pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
NO... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by phabuloz(m): 8:31pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Remember what is bound on earth is bound in heaven,but for me I think it aint right for parent to interfere since they aint the ones to be in the marriage 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by mrwonlasewonie: 8:35pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Not necessarily 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by naijaboiy: 8:35pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Sometimes parents are wrong in their decisions too. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by ROYALTIPPERS: 8:41pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
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Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by BreezyRita(f): 8:54pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
No. Sometimes, parents tend to be selfish in their decisions. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by okotv(m): 9:02pm On Jun 12, 2015 |
Well am glad my parents have no say in my marital choice. One less thing to worry about. Never @ poster. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by tmosco(m): 7:19pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
Advice from a parent is usually good. There are somethings that a parent sees that u cannot [depends on ur parents] as an adult u can as why dey don't like ur intended. There will come a time in which u will quarrel in d marriage and unconsciously u will tell ur spouse that ur parent were right about them. Like I said it depends on the type of parents. 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by tpiander: 8:49pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
i for comment, but its only a matter of time before the op starts raining invectives on women from here or there. |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by coogar: 8:57pm On Jun 13, 2015 |
tpiander: tpia, say what's on your mind. invectives should be water off a duck's back for an oldie like you. miniziter: when nigerian parents say no, best believe it's directly opposite of what God is saying. don't let anyone manipulate you - if you love the woman in question, go for her. 3 Likes |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by mrwonlasewonie: 8:27pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
tpiander:Oya talk I dey your back jigbi jigbi 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by mrwonlasewonie: 8:28pm On Jun 14, 2015 |
coogar:seconded |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by miniziter(m): 8:24am On Jun 17, 2015 |
TPiander please comment |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by Gloriagee(f): 10:07am On Jun 17, 2015 |
I guess it all depends on the calibre of parents involved and the quality of their decision making. My parents have one of the most beautiful marriages n complement each other and happen to live wat they teach. I'd be a fool not to listen to their opinion. On the other hand, if they are violent, tribalistic and just like dishing opinions for the sake of hearing their voice, I'd listen to them n make my informed decision. At the end, it's ur life, ur choice n u bear the brunt of ur decisions. 2 Likes |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by Jennifer89(f): 10:18am On Jun 17, 2015 |
despite the fact that ur patents say no doesn't mean that God is saying same . most parents r tribalistic. inasmuch as we want to obey them we should ruin ourselves. I am Igbo and married to an Ijaw man. i am very happy in ma marriage. |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jun 17, 2015 |
Gloriagee: U've said it all! Before you take advice, look at the quality of life of the person dishing it out 1 Like |
Re: When Parents Say No To Marriage Choice, Does It Mean God Is Saying Same? by tpiander: 8:23am On Jun 20, 2015 |
lolaredvelvet: wrong. the person may know more than you about the step you want to take, that's all. if you listen only to someone whose life is "polished to your liking", you will miss road. 1 Like |
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