carzola:
Abeg! Abeg!! Abeg!!! why did ther post pictures of the boys and leave the girl out? i thought she took the bold step of coming out lets all she what is rapable on her... bye the way the guys age range from 25 to 27 raping a girl when their mate are making millions i pity their up bringing. finally 80% of guys have rape a girl before lets all face the truth guys.

Is that what you feel? In fact I see that most of you guys do not reason with your brain but your anus. You want to see the pix of the lady.That shows the kind of animals we have here/ Too bad for this country.You must be one of them.

CaptainJune:
True, but how does the trial of rape suspects remove the stigma and emotional trauma of the rape experience? It lasts FOREVER...unforgettable. That guy is right. Prevention is better than sacrifice.

Never be found with guys in lonely places or in their den of crime. Do yourself the good of not falling a victim to their insatiable libido is my message to ladies.

Exactly!

SocialRecluse:

You are not blaming the victim, but by focusing only on the girl and completely neglecting to condemn the heinous act, you are subtly enabling your gender folk.

You are subtly saying 'Yea, we are men', 'We have no self control', 'We answer to nobody', 'Beware of us' 'If we admire you, don't come near us or we'll pounce on you'

I can hear you loud and clear.

Lol

I said clearly, that I did not blame the victim.

That said, I feel that a girl owes it to herself to avoid putting herself in a vulnerable position at all costs, and also shares the responsibility to certain extent in this case.

It really is that simple. Everyone believes that armed robbers are criminals and bad people...but instead of waiting to let the conscience of the robber judge him, We install burglary-proof bars on our windows.

Tapout:



chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

mu.mu if she was having an affair with him, was she having an affair with the two other goats Or how on earth would you take turn with your friends to rape your girlfriend Mu.mu use your brain

Tapout:



chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

u. Have said it all dear, what on earth would a well cultured. Gurl be doing in guys room dat early when her mates are out der working... Dos guys can claim dey nvr raped her

CaptainJune:
Selective interpretation. Why is it that when well meaning guys warn you to stay away from their fellow wicked men and blame you for not heeding their warning you interpret it in terms of sex aggrandizement or ego bloating?

Because you don't understand women. Some ladies like being friends with guys, it happens the other way too. It is easy for these guys to play on this girl's intelligence because she is younger. They are neighbors, they know each others families, the girl can easily trust them because she is still young and unwise. The boys took advantage of her nativity and raped her. She will find it difficult trusting any man again, this rape will affect her for the rest of her life. Don't blame her because maybe nobody told her she was placing herself in danger, nobody knows everything in this world, people will definitely make mistakes.

M4gunners:
Nonsense,if She was your Sister,will you react this way?

he won't but the truth will be within .......he might be right you know?

carzola:
Abeg! Abeg!! Abeg!!! why did ther post pictures of the boys and leave the girl out? i thought she took the bold step of coming out lets all she what is rapable on her... bye the way the guys age range from 25 to 27 raping a girl when their mate are making millions i pity their up bringing. finally 80% of guys have rape a girl before lets all face the truth guys.

Those guys should even be paraded on national TV if we were in a sane society, and what do you mean by 80 percent of guys have raped a girl before? Pls refrain from making such generalisations its really not healthy

Cool83:

how would ur brainless question change the IGR,nd industrialisation of ogun state, u better grow up

Type like a human being before insulting me.

tolaxin:
mu.mu if she was having an affair with him, was she having an affair with the two other goats Or how on earth would you take turn with your friends to rape your girlfriend Mu.mu use your brain

. Mr man, do u have to insult before dey knw u are bitter abt dis Na ppl like u dey do worst.... Mtchheeww

Cavenchy:
Yes the guys were wrong, but could she have avoided the event? maybe. She said one of the friends grabbed her and threw her on the bed and she thought he was playing, was she used to these sort of play and did she warn the guy when he did it before? Did she read the signs in their lustful stares before that day and stay away?
Its unhealthy to ignore signs that show you are being monitored for an attack by a predator. Most bad incidents show signs before they happen. Friends don't turn enemies overnight, the signs usually appear and someone overlooked them. The guys have probably shown her their true motives and she just laughed it off without taking the signs seriously. Mad people would always do mad things, A lion will always eat meat, do not mistake its playful nature for friendship, it is just trying to earn your trust to keep you close for the day it gets hungry, so it wouldn't have to run 500kms to hunt you down.

Why is it so difficult for you people to understand that in order to have sex with a woman she must give her consent? Even if she had been used to playing around with the guy, does that mean that she had no right to say no to sex with him and 2 of his friends?
This girl is 19 years old, she is still a kid, there are a lot of girls of that age who act like tom boys especially if they grow up in a household where they are the only girl in a household of male siblings, she trusted this guy and probably looked up to him as an older brother, what is wrong with that?
You mentioned lions having an instinctive need for meat, yes that's true but lions are animals and their lust for meat is based on a natural instinct to hunt and kill in order to survive, do human beings need to ra.pe in order to stay alive?
The difference between a human being and an animal is that the human being (hopefully) has the ability to exercise self control - when you make the kind of excuses that you've made above you are basically saying that you are incapable of behaving like a human being, well if that is the case you should be treated like an animal and you know that when an animal attacks a human being it is usually killed.

Nihilist:


Lol

I said clearly, that I did not blame the victim.

That said, I feel that a girl owes it to herself to avoid putting herself in a vulnerable position at all costs, and also shares the responsibility to certain extent in this case.

It really is that simple. Everyone believes that armed robbers are criminals and bad people...but instead of waiting to let the conscience of the robber judge him, We install burglary-proof bars on our windows.

Putting herself in a vulnerable position you said? Those youngmen are adult who understood what rape is and the consequencies. Even if she walked around nake or exposed herself that does not give any sane person the right to molest her. Please if those guys can not keep their desires in check then they surely deserved to be locked up and spare society the horror of having such demented people around.

andyanders:


Exactly my brother. Pestering someone that you luv or like her when that person say "NO" and you still keep doing that is tagged as Sexual harassment.

There is no excuse here for anybody to blame the young girl for visiting male friend. Even you legally married wife can accuse the husband for rape if the husband force to sleep with her.

This guys should be given 30 yrs each.The world should rise and defend this poor girl and the family.

The rate of rape and murder of their victims by these guys should stop and for this lady to come up with this issue, all women across the globe should rise and defend this innocent girl

Is it wrong for a lady to hang out with a man? Why can't we be descent in this part of the world by respecting women.

Yeah if after the girl report this and nothing is done about it, then we should bear in mind that change has not come.

andyanders:

Is that what you feel? In fact I see that most of you guys do not reason with your brain but your anus. You want to see the pix of the lady.That shows the kind of animals we have here/ Too bad for this country.You must be one of them.

Like I said earlier in my post, there are too many kids roaming this site and by their comments on issues such as this you will be able to identify them, the guy you quoted is an example

Serves the girl right.

Next time, she wont go to a guy's house when she should be busy doing something productive.

It takes a second for a man's mood to change...

THIS IS NO CASE OF RAPE

EVIDENCE MUST HAVE BEEN DESTROYED OVER TIME

THE GIRL WILL LOSE THE CASE!

animalz:


AS IF YOU KNOW KNOW.


HELP ME TELL THOSE MONKEY FEMALE HERE.


SENSE NO JUST DEY THERE HEAD ANY MORE

My brother this is a classic case of shifting blame 100%. Most women never learn : statistics shows most rape victims know and are in good terms with their violators.

If this victim were my sister, I'll make certain to punish those heinous subhuman rapists, but lord help my sister or rather let the devil have her soul for I will deal her a heavy chastisement.

Whats she doing in a man's house alone? Especially one whom you know has been wooing you.

The wisdom of women is measured first by her ability keep unwanted suitors at bay and never to encourage a man into thinking her 'no' is an indirect 'yes'.

Yoruba men are cursed.

exhibition:


That does not excuse the fact that is one of the causative factor of rape...if we want to solve problems effectively...we should go into root causes not birthed causes from the root.

Its not a factor

Africans used to dress semi-nude and no crime happened

trish87:
u. Have said it all dear, what on earth would a well cultured. Gurl be doing in guys room dat early when her mates are out der working... Dos guys can claim dey nvr raped her

Please there is no justification to what those guys did. So guys should go around raping every unemployed girl. The question should have been what are guys of 25 - 27 years doing at home that early?

stan241:
Like I said earlier in my post, there are too many kids roaming this site and by their comments on issues such as this you will be able to identify them, the guy you quoted is an example

Exactly my brother.You can imagine the kind of statement that someone who call himself a human being could say. That the lady's pix should be shown since they displayed the pixs of the rapist.

andyanders:

Is that what you feel? In fact I see that most of you guys do not reason with your brain but your anus. You want to see the pix of the lady.That shows the kind of animals we have here/ Too bad for this country.You must be one of them.

Why would there publicly expose the identity of suspects, there by bringing their yet innocent faces to public ridicule, we demand to see the picture of the girl too since she has chosen to face all forms of stigmatization by coming out. when i was in secondary school, a girl lied that i and 3 of my friends gang raped her, when proper investigations where made the said day we raped her i was with my dad in his office my other friend was also with his dad at home, and we got to find out she was having sex with one of my friend and when things went wrong in the relationship involving him beating her up she decided to take him and all his friends down. let the police investigate this super story well and we would find out she is just trying to be a wanna be nollywood writer.

VirginFinder:
Serves the girl right.

Next time, she wont go to a guy's house when she should be busy doing something productive.

It takes a second for a man's mood to change...

THIS IS NO CASE OF RAPE

EVIDENCE MUST HAVE BEEN DESTROYED OVER TIME

THE GIRL WILL LOSE THE CASE!

You have sisters and one thing you are going to have a daughter. Nobody I mean no one deserved to be raped. I just hope you are not a rapist but if you are sooner or later karma will catch up with you.

andyanders:


Exactly my brother.You can imagine the kind of statement that someone who call himself a human being could say. That the lady's pix should be shown since they displayed the pixs of the rapist.

He even goes on to say that 80percent of guys have raped a girl before, if that isn't a childish comment, then i dunno what is

A guy is asking u out, u refused, yet u still go to his room, to do what nau? Abi meat wey u nor want make cat chop , y you go leave am open near d'cat? Abi na okobo she dey kol d'guy? Besides, dey should ask her wht she was putting on to d'guys room, Small gurls of now adays need to be lectured concerning der dressing, u need to see how all these our small up coming gurls wear dis days

stan241:
Those guys should even be paraded on national TV if we were in a sane society, and what do you mean by 80 percent of guys have raped a girl before? Pls refrain from making such generalisations its really not healthy

if all the girls raped came out to the public then am sure you would be a suspect too... i expected that the picture of the girl be published too not only that of the guys. i want to see what was rapable about this girl..

carzola:
Why would there publicly expose the identity of suspects, there by bringing their yet innocent faces to public ridicule, we demand to see the picture of the girl too since she has chosen to face all forms of stigmatization by coming out. when i was in secondary school, a girl lied that i and 3 of my friends gang raped her, when proper investigations where made the said day we raped her i was with my dad in his office my other friend was also with his dad at home, and we got to find out she was having sex with one of my friend and when things went wrong in the relationship involving him beating her up she decided to take him and all his friends down. let the police investigate this super story well and we would find out she is just trying to be a wanna be nollywood writer.

If you read the topic properly, you would see where even the guy's parents threatened the girl not to report the case because they are landlords in the area which all but confirms this particular case to be true, don't let your own personal experience cloud your judgement and I'm sure the police wouldn't parade them if the story was false

The increasing number of rape stories we have every day is heart wrenching.
Castrate them fools.

Tapout:



chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

People like you are the reason why rape keeps happening.

Your comment is full of evil, you are probably a rapist, she wasn't expecting a foursome? Seriously why are you so heartless?

woodcook:
You have sisters and one thing you are going to have a daughter. Nobody I mean no one deserved to be raped. I just hope you are not a rapist but if you are sooner or later karma will catch up with you.

My female relations will not hang out with a man or men in their rooms in the name of friendship.

No responsible lady does that.

A man's mood changes in a second...

travelland:


Because you don't understand women. Some ladies like being friends with guys, it happens the other way too. It is easy for these guys to play on this girl's intelligence because she is younger. They are neighbors, they know each others families, the girl can easily trust them because she is still young and unwise. The boys took advantage of her nativity and raped her. She will find it difficult trusting any man again, this rape will affect her for the rest of her life. Don't blame her because maybe nobody told her she was placing herself in danger, nobody knows everything in this world, people will definitely make mistakes.

hehehehehe, she would get over it am sure she has resumed f0rking her bf sef.... my dear this is Nigeria, we dont have any judicial system.. am pretty sure does boys have been let go by the police... lets all move on, when u carry ur legs and go to a guys house ur not dating then you have only urself to blame, it was the work of the devil on the part of the guys, i dont blame them itz hard for a guy to resist a girl under this weather.

Tapout:



chasing the devil away, yet still inviting him





interesting, ....

I detest ra'pe, but this is just being stupid, she's trying to avoid him and yet she normally goes to his house to while away time, ..who goes to someone's house by 9.30am on a Wednesday to while away time??

please we shouldn't jump into conclusion yet, like some posters have already done...there's more to this story, someone is not just telling the truth.....ra'pe my a'ss she probably has been having an affair with the guy in question, just that this time she wasn't expecting a foursome

Mademoiselle, you are complicit to your own rape. You rejected his advances, yet go to his house to 'while away time'? Listen to yourself talk like a kindergarten student. What else did you expect? Love and care? Why not be realistic? What happened to whiling away time in your own home? As bad as rape is, some ladies invite it upon themselves. Could have easily been avoided.